Does people finds only muscular men ?

  • lomograb

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    Oct 06, 2015 3:34 PM GMT
    Is people just looking for they that muscular. It's difficult to find couple for mr.slim here
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    Oct 06, 2015 3:48 PM GMT
    Amazingly, this question has been asked before. A very small sampling:

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    Oct 06, 2015 4:22 PM GMT
    Eagermuscle pretty much gave you lots of resources to research your question.

    "Do people find only muscular men attractive and not slim guys?"

    Answer is no. Because there are many guys who specifically seek slim guys/twinks too. Some even like chubby guys and average guys. I'd think that on which body type people are most interested from most to least would be: Muscular/fit, to slim, to average, to chubby.

    I think you have a better chance of finding someone who is interested than not. Since you're slim.
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    Oct 06, 2015 4:24 PM GMT
    My partner is slim shady. Muscle is great but not the only thing I like icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 06, 2015 4:31 PM GMT
    Swifterchris saidEagermuscle pretty much gave you lots of resources to research your question.

    "Do people find only muscular men attractive and not slim guys?"

    Answer is no. Because there are many guys who specifically seek slim guys/twinks too. Some even like chubby guys and average guys. I'd think that on which body type people are most interested from most to least would be: Muscular/fit, to slim, to average, to chubby.

    I think you have a better chance of finding someone who is interested than not. Since you're slim.


    Sometimes it's necessary to just start a new and fresh thread. Some people will get upset due to necromancy of a dead thread. You can't win in either scenarios.

    to the OP majority of guys that only look for muscular are usually single and can't seem to find any real meaning behind their encounters with men. Muscle isn't love. What you really need to do is find encounters with men else where other then clubs and bars. If you're in college go join a club, expose yourself to other people, chances are they might know some decent gay men who prefer to bask outside of the gay scene those are the men you want to find.

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    Oct 06, 2015 4:47 PM GMT
    Talon said
    Swifterchris saidEagermuscle pretty much gave you lots of resources to research your question.

    "Do people find only muscular men attractive and not slim guys?"

    Answer is no. Because there are many guys who specifically seek slim guys/twinks too. Some even like chubby guys and average guys. I'd think that on which body type people are most interested from most to least would be: Muscular/fit, to slim, to average, to chubby.

    I think you have a better chance of finding someone who is interested than not. Since you're slim.


    Sometimes it's necessary to just start a new and fresh thread. Some people will get upset due to necromancy of a dead thread. You can't win in either scenarios.

    to the OP majority of guys that only look for muscular are usually single and can't seem to find any real meaning behind their encounters with men. Muscle isn't love. What you really need to do is find encounters with men else where other then clubs and bars. If you're in college go join a club, expose yourself to other people, chances are they might know some decent gay men who prefer to bask outside of the gay scene those are the men you want to find.



    Oh...hi Talon... icon_wink.gificon_twisted.gif

    Thanks for telling me that. I didn't expect him to ask questions on there, just read through haha.
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    Oct 06, 2015 5:07 PM GMT
    Swifterchris said
    Talon said
    Swifterchris saidEagermuscle pretty much gave you lots of resources to research your question.

    "Do people find only muscular men attractive and not slim guys?"

    Answer is no. Because there are many guys who specifically seek slim guys/twinks too. Some even like chubby guys and average guys. I'd think that on which body type people are most interested from most to least would be: Muscular/fit, to slim, to average, to chubby.

    I think you have a better chance of finding someone who is interested than not. Since you're slim.


    Sometimes it's necessary to just start a new and fresh thread. Some people will get upset due to necromancy of a dead thread. You can't win in either scenarios.

    to the OP majority of guys that only look for muscular are usually single and can't seem to find any real meaning behind their encounters with men. Muscle isn't love. What you really need to do is find encounters with men else where other then clubs and bars. If you're in college go join a club, expose yourself to other people, chances are they might know some decent gay men who prefer to bask outside of the gay scene those are the men you want to find.



    Oh...hi Talon... icon_wink.gificon_twisted.gif

    Thanks for telling me that. I didn't expect him to ask questions on there, just read through haha.


    What's up. Yea the translation on the OP is a bit difficult to read, however there are key words that are helpful.

    lomograb saidIs people just looking for they that muscular. It's difficult to find couple for mr.slim here


    couple translates to relationship, Mr.Slim here refers to him.
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    Oct 06, 2015 5:16 PM GMT
    Oh! So that's what he meant! Sorry OP I should understand Asian accents but I've lost the ability to. If what Talon said is what you're looking for, well you're not exactly in the best place.

    I have a tiny crush on Talon. But he's taken. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 06, 2015 5:42 PM GMT
    Swifterchris saidOh! So that's what he meant! Sorry OP I should understand Asian accents but I've lost the ability to. If what Talon said is what you're looking for, well you're not exactly in the best place.

    I have a tiny crush on Talon. But he's taken. icon_biggrin.gif



    Really? I never knew icon_exclaim.gif
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    Oct 06, 2015 6:17 PM GMT
    lomograb saidIs people just looking for they that muscular. It's difficult to find couple for mr.slim here

    Some of us are only attracted to hairless non-english speaking twinks.
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    Oct 06, 2015 6:30 PM GMT
    My takeaway from previous threads was that if you're slim (or average, or chubby) it's not shallow in the slightest to want a muscular guy, but if you're muscular and want the same thing you're vilified for having preferences. But do your research and draw your own conclusions.
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    Oct 06, 2015 6:51 PM GMT
    'Does people finds only muscular men?' Or, Are Guys on RJ only attracted to muscled well built men? Googletranslate.com, could help.
  • lomograb

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    Oct 07, 2015 2:21 AM GMT
    No, i mean people that gay. Not for RJ only
  • lomograb

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    Oct 07, 2015 2:26 AM GMT
    Thank you for all your replies. I asked it, because many gay guys that slim attracted to muscular men and muscular men attracted to muscular men too. But i know, love isn't about body icon_smile.gif
  • MarvinMartian

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    Oct 07, 2015 2:30 AM GMT
    You gents are seriously mocking his English skills? I'd like to see how well you do in Mandarin. I think he's pretty good. Not perfect, but understandable.
  • LostSailor

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    Oct 07, 2015 2:36 AM GMT
    Some muscle guys aren't into other muscular guys AT ALL.
    Myself included.
    I don't want anybody that looks anything like me.
    To me--muscles = GROSS.
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    Oct 22, 2015 2:45 AM GMT
    RJ is pretty much the only such website (that I know of) where the majority of the members are athletic to muscular to ripped bodybuilders. So it stands to reason that if the website is revolving around muscular guys, those who join are mostly into the same. It's just logical.

    I've seen trends like that outside the website though too. Chubs dating chubs, bears dating bears, muscle jocks dating muscle jocks and twinks dating twinks etc. and I don't think that was very prevalent when I was younger (teenage years), there was a lot more variation and asymmetry in the physical details and contours of a couple. What I see today is probably an unconsciously adopted trend, in dating your mirror image. And I'm not using metaphor, some of these couples look like they are twin sets, they even eerily look alike.

    That being said, despite that trend and this website, there's a lot of guys of other body types that would be interested in you, including muscular men. I'm skinny like you are and all of my relationships (including all the glorious attempts but utter failures in the end lol) except for one have been with heavily muscular guys. And where I live, the total population of the country is barely above 1.5 million people. Add there the percentage of them that might be bi/pan/gay, then cut in the percent of them who are muscular, then the percent of them who like skinny guys etc.

    - And so you get a small percent, but my personal experience says otherwise. They are not in short supply. They may well be in short supply here on RJ, but that's because of what I mentioned in my first paragraph. So try not to take RJ as a factor for an answer to your question. Just try other dating websites along this one, I'm sure you will run into some like-minded muscled folk icon_smile.gif