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    Oct 06, 2015 8:31 PM GMT
    I went out to a bar last night after the gym and this 400 pound dude started flirting with me hard. I mean the kind of exaggerated flirting you see in comedies. I liked his face and tried talking to him. After 3 minutes he gets up and leaves with giving me his number or anything but kept telling me how beautiful I was and how happy he would be to have me as his man. I feel punked and confused.
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    Oct 06, 2015 10:55 PM GMT
    He was probably on drugs....people on meth do stuff like that. Come on real strong, then just POOF, take off.
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    Oct 06, 2015 11:18 PM GMT
    FuzzyPecs27 saidHe was probably on drugs....people on meth do stuff like that. Come on real strong, then just POOF, take off.


    Its a damn shame I still believe in these stereotypes about how drug addicts look. Being from Florida I'm also more use to crack addicts so method never crossed my mind. Its so sad that so many gay men feel compelled to take such hard drugs.
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    Oct 06, 2015 11:19 PM GMT
    99.9% of the men at gay bars, are on drugs lol.
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    Oct 06, 2015 11:39 PM GMT
    FuzzyPecs27 said99.9% of the men at gay bars, are on drugs lol.


    That's not true buttercup. I go to bars sometimes and don't do drugs. I'm big enough to be counted as 2-5% of a bars patronage at any given time.
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    Oct 06, 2015 11:43 PM GMT
    Sometimes some gay guys creep me out, I met this guy for the first time in person and he said if I wanna marry himicon_confused.gif
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    Oct 06, 2015 11:55 PM GMT
    calime61 saidSometimes some gay guys creep me out, I met this guy for the first time in person and he said if I wanna marry himicon_confused.gif


    Yes marriage proposals, calling me baby and good morning text after the first date are super unessary. Did he at least buy you a ring?
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    Oct 07, 2015 1:18 AM GMT
    It was a bar - they serve alcohol -

    Perhaps he had drunk some?
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    Oct 07, 2015 1:34 AM GMT
    It could have been drugs, it could have been alcohol, or it could just as easily have been a guy attempting to get past his social anxiety and badly forcing an interaction.

    The guy was a stranger, so you don't know what's going on in his head. Why waste energy trying to figure it out? I say take the compliment about your looks and his attraction to you, and consider the rest part of an interesting night.
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    Oct 07, 2015 1:53 AM GMT
    You were at a club, don't expect people to act normal towards you. Also if a guy starts moving way too fast on you, that should give you every incentive to just walk away. Because honest men would want to take things slow.
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    Oct 07, 2015 2:16 AM GMT
    wtf why would u even talk to a 400 lb man flirting with you?
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    Oct 07, 2015 2:24 AM GMT
    I was sitting in a booth in a gay bar last year and a *very* large black man who was walking by stopped, pointed at me and said quite loudly, "YOU... are a sexy bitch!" Then he went and sat down. My partner was sitting next to me. Everyone was looking at me and I was like icon_eek.gif

    Crazy stuff always happens in bars. You just have to roll with it.
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    Oct 07, 2015 2:35 AM GMT
    Maybe you didn't flirt back so he ditched you
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    Oct 07, 2015 2:39 AM GMT
    Import saidwtf why would u even talk to a 400 lb man flirting with you?


    That was my question too.
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    Oct 07, 2015 3:15 AM GMT
    Import saidwtf why would u even talk to a 400 lb man flirting with you?


    exactly lol
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    Oct 07, 2015 3:26 AM GMT
    I met a guy once who was hooked on Meth. He would sell anything just to get a needle in his arm. It is presumptuos to say 99% of Gay guys at Gay Bars do Meth. Maybe 70% of Ravers do some sort of drug usage to get high before a Rave and after and after ...LOL
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    Oct 07, 2015 4:52 AM GMT
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    Import saidwtf why would u even talk to a 400 lb man flirting with you?


    That was my question too.

    The bigger question is, how does a 400 lbs man leave the house? icon_neutral.gif
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    Oct 07, 2015 6:27 AM GMT
    MrFuscle said
    FuzzyPecs27 saidHe was probably on drugs....people on meth do stuff like that. Come on real strong, then just POOF, take off.


    Its a damn shame I still believe in these stereotypes about how drug addicts look. Being from Florida I'm also more use to crack addicts so method never crossed my mind. Its so sad that so many gay men feel compelled to take such hard drugs.


    If there's any truth to the guy doing drugs, then he did you a favor by taking off. Because of his weight/size, it's only a matter of time until his heart will give out because of the illicit drugs. You don't want to be around when that happens.
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    Oct 07, 2015 6:37 AM GMT
    I was at a Night Club once, dancing on the Dance Floor (please, here comes the sarcasm, someone's about to say, "Yeah, that's what Dance Floors are for.") Jokes, aside. This fairly attractive Guy with tight jeans and a boner of note, keeps dancing in front of me then rams his hard-on into my crotch. I mean real hard, like a ram-rod. After a few times, I told him if he did it again, I would most definately punch him. It was sort of distracting and embarressing.
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    Oct 07, 2015 8:14 AM GMT
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    MrFuscle said
    FuzzyPecs27 saidHe was probably on drugs....people on meth do stuff like that. Come on real strong, then just POOF, take off.


    Its a damn shame I still believe in these stereotypes about how drug addicts look. Being from Florida I'm also more use to crack addicts so method never crossed my mind. Its so sad that so many gay men feel compelled to take such hard drugs.


    If there's any truth to the guy doing drugs, then he did you a favor by taking off. Because of his weight/size, it's only a matter of time until his heart will give out because of the illicit drugs. You don't want to be around when that happens.


    And definitely not under him when it happens! icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif

    Can meth addicts actually weigh 400 lbs?
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    Oct 07, 2015 1:02 PM GMT
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    calime61 saidSometimes some gay guys creep me out, I met this guy for the first time in person and he said if I wanna marry himicon_confused.gif


    Yes marriage proposals, calling me baby and good morning text after the first date are super unessary. Did he at least buy you a ring?

    I have no problem with a guy sending me a message after our first date (feeling needs to be mutual).
    No, he did not since we met for sex but I don't know I keep meeting people saying they love me and they want to marry me and keep saying baby or saying they want to be with me and most of it happens in the first week icon_question.gifshock:
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    Oct 07, 2015 1:16 PM GMT
    FN_R5000I saidIt could have been drugs, it could have been alcohol, or it could just as easily have been a guy attempting to get past his social anxiety and badly forcing an interaction.

    The guy was a stranger, so you don't know what's going on in his head. Why waste energy trying to figure it out? I say take the compliment about your looks and his attraction to you, and consider the rest part of an interesting night.


    I've had/have social anxiety ( not sure if I'm still allowed to say I have social anxiety since I rarely display avoidance behaviour ). I assumed he was anxious and so not able to act in a composed manner at first. I didn't give him any reason to think I wasn't interested so him leaving so abruptly while still flirting was the confusing part. Its like someone telling you they'll give you a ride as they close the door and drive off.
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    Oct 07, 2015 1:18 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidMaybe you didn't flirt back so he ditched you


    True I didn't flirt very hard for various reasons. A friend of mine told me guys in Houston have very fragile egos and are impatient. If you aren't worshipping them the moment they open there mouth they get upset.
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    Oct 07, 2015 1:20 PM GMT
    Fine_Young_Cannibal saidI met a guy once who was hooked on Meth. He would sell anything just to get a needle in his arm. It is presumptuos to say 99% of Gay guys at Gay Bars do Meth. Maybe 70% of Ravers do some sort of drug usage to get high before a Rave and after and after ...LOL


    Meth is starting to sound about right. Its one of the weirdest encounters with a gay man I have ever had.
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    Oct 07, 2015 1:22 PM GMT
    Fine_Young_Cannibal saidI was at a Night Club once, dancing on the Dance Floor (please, here comes the sarcasm, someone's about to say, "Yeah, that's what Dance Floors are for.") Jokes, aside. This fairly attractive Guy with tight jeans and a boner of note, keeps dancing in front of me then rams his hard-on into my crotch. I mean real hard, like a ram-rod. After a few times, I told him if he did it again, I would most definately punch him. It was sort of distracting and embarressing.


    Wow was he drunk. I'd imagine that would be painful for him as well.