Is love driven by sex or sex driven by love ?

  • lomograb

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    Oct 07, 2015 2:42 AM GMT
    What you would be ? Sex that driven by love or love that driven by sex. That confusing for me. Almost the same but give different meaning. I wonder if someday my boyfriend asks me that question
  • tj85016

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    Oct 07, 2015 3:08 AM GMT
    yes, sometimes
  • Webster666

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    Oct 07, 2015 6:45 AM GMT
    No.

    Sex is driven by animal attraction.

    Love is driven by a desire to make your partner happy.
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    Oct 07, 2015 6:47 AM GMT
    Someone in their early 20's or younger can easily get the two confused. Easier to sort out when you are older, and have had both.
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    Oct 07, 2015 8:10 AM GMT
    Ideally both. In a great relationship there is a symbiotic relationship between the two.
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    Oct 07, 2015 12:48 PM GMT
    Sex makes life exist on a physical level, love reminds you of something higher where everything started. In short, sex is primitive, where love is genuine self expression...but I do believe you can integrate the two.
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    Oct 07, 2015 1:06 PM GMT
    They are both independent of each other but can be interdependent as well. You can love someone romantically and not have sex with them and you can lust for someone and not love or even like them. On the other hand love can greatly transform and enhance sex and sex can reaffirm love.
  • everhorn

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    Oct 07, 2015 4:17 PM GMT
    A beautiful mind in a beautiful body!

    The desire to make someone happy, to fulfill someone's needs, IS love; it can exist with or without sexual attraction and with or without reciprocation. When such love is returned, life is especially beautiful.
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    Oct 07, 2015 5:38 PM GMT
    Webster666 saidNo.

    Sex is driven by animal attraction.

    Love is driven by a desire to make your partner happy.


    Agree!

    UndercoverMan saidIdeally both. In a great relationship there is a symbiotic relationship between the two.


    Also agree!
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    Oct 07, 2015 5:45 PM GMT
    MrFuscle saidThey are both independent of each other but can be interdependent as well. You can love someone romantically and not have sex with them and you can lust for someone and not love or even like them. On the other hand love can greatly transform and enhance sex and sex can reaffirm love.



    ∆ Best answer so far.

    Sex and love are two completely different things, which is why people in open relationships can still love each other and still snag the occasional blowjob from a stranger. It doesn't have to diminish their love for each other because they are not connected. However.....sex can also be a powerful vehicle to express love to another person. It's not the physical act, but the emotions that are conveyed through it that's important. Example: You feel something totally different when you embrace your grandmother (hopefully) as opposed to when you hug your boyfriend, yet the physical action is exactly the same.
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    Oct 07, 2015 5:45 PM GMT
    You can have sex without love and love without sex. A confluence of both is ideal but not absolutely necessary.
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    Oct 07, 2015 9:54 PM GMT
    lomograb saidWhat you would be ? Sex that driven by love or love that driven by sex. That confusing for me. Almost the same but give different meaning. I wonder if someday my boyfriend asks me that question


    Love is ultimately an act/expression of sacrifice. Sex is ultimately an act/expression of creativity.

    Decide for yourself.
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    Oct 07, 2015 9:57 PM GMT
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    Oct 07, 2015 10:01 PM GMT
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    Oct 07, 2015 10:02 PM GMT
    HikerSkier said
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    Oct 08, 2015 3:06 AM GMT
    FitBlackCuddler said
    lomograb saidWhat you would be ? Sex that driven by love or love that driven by sex. That confusing for me. Almost the same but give different meaning. I wonder if someday my boyfriend asks me that question


    Love is ultimately an act/expression of sacrifice. Sex is ultimately an act/expression of creativity.

    Decide for yourself.


    Love doesn't have to be an act of sacrifice. That only applies when your ego is the most important thing in your life. Its possible to just let go and love someone as an act of spiritual growth and adventure
  • Webster666

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    Oct 08, 2015 6:09 AM GMT
    "What are you driving at ?"
    "I wasn't driving. I was merely a passenger..."
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    Oct 08, 2015 3:13 PM GMT
    Definitely sex driven by love !!
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    Oct 08, 2015 3:19 PM GMT
    Relationship problems?
    When in doubt. Fuck it out icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 08, 2015 3:36 PM GMT
    Swifterchris saidRelationship problems? When in doubt. Fuck it out
    icon_idea.gifmight give this a try tonight
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    Oct 08, 2015 3:50 PM GMT
    I was going to be flatout sarcastic, but decided you have an issue. You have a lover, who just wants your body... Then, well, that's all he wants. Does he wanna commit, 'No!'. Does a nice ornament on a table, just do the trick?
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    Oct 08, 2015 4:38 PM GMT
    pellaz said
    Swifterchris saidRelationship problems? When in doubt. Fuck it out
    icon_idea.gifmight give this a try tonight


    Worked for me lol. In the middle of an argument? Drop to your knees and look up at him. Argument gone.
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    Oct 08, 2015 5:08 PM GMT
    Sunday big gay melt down and the house has been on the rag since:
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    Oct 08, 2015 6:13 PM GMT
    HikerSkier said
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