What does it mean when someone would "wrestle" me?

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    Oct 09, 2015 8:17 PM GMT
    I've never wrested professionally or legitimately before. But isn't it odd that random people would want to wrestle me?
  • Bunjamon

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    Oct 09, 2015 8:26 PM GMT
    Wrestling is a HUGE fetish subculture, for both gays and straights. Just look at the amount of fetish gear featuring wrestling singlets.

    In this case, it probably means that a guy wants to put you in a Speedo or a singlet, oil you up, and roll around on the floor with you. It could then progress to sex, or not. Google it, you might like it. icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 09, 2015 8:28 PM GMT
    They just want to mess up your hair.
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    Oct 09, 2015 8:42 PM GMT
    Bunjamon saidWrestling is a HUGE fetish subculture, for both gays and straights. Just look at the amount of fetish gear featuring wrestling singlets.

    In this case, it probably means that a guy wants to put you in a Speedo or a singlet, oil you up, and roll around on the floor with you. It could then progress to sex, or not. Google it, you might like it. icon_wink.gif


    That's interesting. Sounds pretty fun, so I'll give it a shot sometime. Just researched it a bit and saw porn related to it. Not sure I'm strong enough lol

    Lumpyoatmeal saidThey just want to mess up your hair.


    What?! Not the hair!

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    Oct 10, 2015 12:09 AM GMT
    I think challenging guys to a match is part of the culture. Noticed with guys (gay and straight) who legitimately want to wrestle, and those who want a erotic element thrown in.

    You're probably looking at the latter. Ask for details and see if you're getting yourself in a Thunder's Arena or a Naked Kombat situation before agreeing to anything.
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    Oct 10, 2015 12:33 AM GMT
    I've heard of that before. Never tried it but with a hot guy it could be fun icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 10, 2015 12:34 AM GMT
    No Homo
    just two dudes being dudes...
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    Oct 10, 2015 12:55 AM GMT
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    Oct 10, 2015 2:00 AM GMT
    It's foreplay for some guys. icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 10, 2015 2:12 PM GMT
    Wrestling can be recreational, it can be romantic, and it can be good exercise (and for dedicated wrestlers, it is good exercise, with the strength/cardio/flexibility training regimen). Probably one of the greater things I regret in my life, is not having had the chance to go to high school and get involved in sports, particularly wrestling. Would have shaped me (literally) into someone different than I am now, for the better.
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    Oct 10, 2015 2:29 PM GMT
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    Hilarious and true. Loser really loses and the winner reaps (or rapes) his rewards.
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    Oct 10, 2015 2:40 PM GMT
    Kodiak saidWrestling can be recreational, it can be romantic, and it can be good exercise (and for dedicated wrestlers, it is good exercise, with the strength/cardio/flexibility training regimen). Probably one of the greater things I regret in my life, is not having had the chance to go to high school and get involved in sports, particularly wrestling. Would have shaped me (literally) into someone different than I am now, for the better.


    Oh yeah, wrestled 11th and 12th grade. Lots of 'extracurricular activities' on those practice mats, showers and steam room due to the lack of adult supervision.

    And it actually made me less aggressive, and put a lid on all (or most of) the fights I was getting into in 9th and 10th grade due to the bullying I experienced in junior high.
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    Oct 10, 2015 3:13 PM GMT
    I remember getting messages like that from guys who wanted some kind of martial arts/ sex fetish thing going on.

    I'm not really turned on by it, but that's because my warrior spirit is anything but sexual once I put my Gi on lol.

  • jeepguySD

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    Oct 10, 2015 4:30 PM GMT
    I've had several guys on RJ, and elsewhere, ask me if I want to wrestle. I understand that it's a fetish for some, but I don't need wrestling as an excuse to touch another man.
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    Oct 10, 2015 8:47 PM GMT
    Isn't it easier just to ask who should bottom?
  • mybud

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    Oct 10, 2015 8:55 PM GMT
    They'd mount their prize...TRUST
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    Oct 11, 2015 4:58 PM GMT
    Here's an instructional video (WARNING:NSFW):

    http://www.myvidster.com/video/36925176/Ringleader_Redtube_Free_Gay_Porn_Videos_Anal_Movies_Clips
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    Oct 11, 2015 5:18 PM GMT
    I wrestled for 8 years, so when someone sends me a picture of himself wearing a singlet bought from an online store, I automatically assume that he has a fetish and has no idea what authentic wrestling is all about. Wrestling is a sport and it's a physically demanding one that requires years of practice and learning. There's a also a huge difference between professional and amateur wrestling.
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    Oct 11, 2015 5:18 PM GMT
    Thanks for the replies guys! So in most cases, it's pretty much a fetish and/or leads to sex. Is it fair for someone who is much stronger than you to challenge you? I know they wouldn't intentionally be aggressive to me, but I don't I'll even stand a chance to pin them unless it's someone who's my build. Not intimidated, but mostly due to bad experiences in the past where a bigger guy locked me in a painful grapple in school when I was younger and dislocated some parts of me
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    Oct 11, 2015 5:26 PM GMT
    Swifterchris saidThanks for the replies guys! So in most cases, it's pretty much a fetish and/or leads to sex. Is it fair for someone who is much stronger than you to challenge you? I know they wouldn't intentionally be aggressive to me, but I don't I'll even stand a chance to pin them unless it's someone who's my build. Not intimidated, but mostly due to bad experiences in the past where a bigger guy locked me in a painful grapple in school when I was younger and dislocated some parts of me


    Well, I hope you found those parts and put them back on !

    "I know they wouldn't intentionally be aggressive to me"

    Don't bet on it. Be Careful. Lots of rump rangers out there and this could be a prelude to it.
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    Oct 11, 2015 5:33 PM GMT
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    Swifterchris saidThanks for the replies guys! So in most cases, it's pretty much a fetish and/or leads to sex. Is it fair for someone who is much stronger than you to challenge you? I know they wouldn't intentionally be aggressive to me, but I don't I'll even stand a chance to pin them unless it's someone who's my build. Not intimidated, but mostly due to bad experiences in the past where a bigger guy locked me in a painful grapple in school when I was younger and dislocated some parts of me


    Well, I hope you found those parts and put them back on !

    "I know they wouldn't intentionally be aggressive to me"

    Don't bet on it. Be Careful. Lots of rump rangers out there and this could be a prelude to it.


    It was mostly my arms, which is what I meant lol

    Not trying to be a wuss, but I'm still traumatized by it. I was literally crying when it happened and even now, cuddling with someone can feel a bit uncomfortable if they grab onto me too tight.
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    Oct 11, 2015 5:44 PM GMT
    Swifterchris said
    Not trying to be a wuss, but I'm still traumatized by it. I was literally crying when it happened and even now, cuddling with someone can feel a bit uncomfortable if they grab onto me too tight.


    I'd stick to cuddling. There's a place for scrapping, but just before sex isn't it imho.
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    Oct 11, 2015 5:51 PM GMT
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    Swifterchris saidThanks for the replies guys! So in most cases, it's pretty much a fetish and/or leads to sex. Is it fair for someone who is much stronger than you to challenge you? I know they wouldn't intentionally be aggressive to me, but I don't I'll even stand a chance to pin them unless it's someone who's my build. Not intimidated, but mostly due to bad experiences in the past where a bigger guy locked me in a painful grapple in school when I was younger and dislocated some parts of me


    Well, I hope you found those parts and put them back on !

    "I know they wouldn't intentionally be aggressive to me"

    Don't bet on it. Be Careful. Lots of rump rangers out there and this could be a prelude to it.


    It was mostly my arms, which is what I meant lol

    Not trying to be a wuss, but I'm still traumatized by it. I was literally crying when it happened and even now, cuddling with someone can feel a bit uncomfortable if they grab onto me too tight.


    Big fetish so you'll get pinned alright, in all the wrong places.

    But yeah, real wrestling is a very tough sport and requires tremendous conditioning. I'm glad I did it for a couple of years. It really did help me 'temper' my response to those years of getting bullied in 7th and 8th grade by sorta turning into the bully myself in the 9th and 10th grade. I'd gone too far the other direction and needed to stop popping other kids at the slightest hint of trying to bully me.

    Of course, back then you didn't get in trouble over of it. Teachers just said to take it outside so take it outside we did.

    So I was still a little guy in 11th and 12th grade and wrestling 126 and then 132 as 12th grader.

    I highly recommend it if it's real versus what this would turn into to
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    Oct 12, 2015 7:48 PM GMT
    I wrestle for fun in about any style and 95%+ of the guys out there will be respectful so both of you have a good time. Most of the time there is no sex involved just the fun of the holds and the competition. Occasionally I take on bodybuilders I cannot hope to either out muscle or out wrestle. Never had a bad experience and felt unsafe. Likewise iv taken on guys I out muscle easily and their reviews have been the same.
    And iv been out wrestled and helpless against my opponent but again they did not take it to anyplace unpleasant and unwanted.
    Chat with the guys first and get a feel for them. Their chatter will tell you a lot.
    Again most recreational wrestlers will play at your level if requested and make sure its fun.
    Chemistry does play a roll too, but that's like anything. Its like hanging with ppl out in town. If you dont like their vibe why spend time with them?
    Also check out BG East Wrestling. They have examples from just hot wrestling to sex at the end.
    Have fun
  • musclpa

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    Oct 12, 2015 9:26 PM GMT
    Who wants to wrestle Grrr