Love .. Gimme a break ..

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    Feb 01, 2009 9:08 PM GMT

    I'm a person that falls in love quickly .. though time tought me to stay away and now love scares the hell out of me, cuz I know it only gives you another opportunity to distroy yourself ..(BTW , I never had a relationship I love someone, I cry at night until I just forget about him)

    Three months ago, I met that guy, bla bla bla , I decided to let go, cuz he was literally running away. But, he was also coming back sometimes and smile at me... confusing .. it's not the point...

    the point is, I feel that I can't take a break of falling in love with someone, yes I was about a year free, but it's not enough ... although this guy is perfect, he's not a model and doesn't have a hot body .. but perfect for me.

    thx for reading


    what do u think about taking a break from love and how to do it ???
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    Feb 02, 2009 12:26 AM GMT
    Stop running away from love and give a relationship the chance to develop. Falling in love is pretty easy, relationships are hard. They need work.

    I think falling in love becomes more difficult as you get older, happened to me.

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    Feb 02, 2009 6:00 AM GMT
    Taking a break is always nice. I have been on somewhat of one for a while; but it wasn't planned. First I was hurt and couldn't even stomach the idea, but then I came to be more comfortable on my own. This is really the first time I have ever lived alone in my life and the past two years have been pretty amazing (both in self development and comfort).

    A friend of mine has sworn off love completely - for the time being. She seems to be enjoying it quite a bit.

    Really, I think if you want a break for yourself - then do it. But if you want a break from reality or people... good luck. Living in this world without either is somewhat difficult.
  • JayneCobb

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    Feb 02, 2009 6:07 AM GMT
    I decided I wasn't going to date, fall in love, and not get involved with anyone. It's been like that for a while now and I'm quite happy with myself and life in general now icon_smile.gif.