When interesting guys are at the club with a boring looking guy

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    Oct 13, 2015 4:58 AM GMT
    I just have to bring it up. I'm NOT saying all, or even most. But, I have had a select few white guys who have met me tell me, that they themselves feel white guys are boring.

    First example: there's a black dude I've been somewhat good acquietences with for the past couple months. He's decent looking, tattoos, kinda my build. But, he'd be all nice and welcoming, introducing me to friends to me only when I happened to see him out. Any other time, he couldn't be bothered to make plans or initiate any form of contact with me.

    Well, well, well...lol and behold, I see him out the other night...and we're chatting with his group. I flirt with him a lil bit, next thing I know, he's telling me he's dating One of the white guys in the group. I'm like, huh? Him?

    This guy just didn't have anything that would catch my attention. No curves, no swag, and yes...Jersey shore, dating naked, etc. has taught the world that White guys can and do have swag. That's the type of guys I'd find interesting, but not necessarily verbatim. I was like, what in the world? You're into him? (Atleast in my mind). I mean, it's not my business, but still...Do people surround themselves with certain people because they feel intimidated or competitive against people of their caliber?

    This is nothing new. There's many guys in these smaller gay markets who EXCLUSIVELY go for "safe" looking white guys guys, knowing damn well most of them are not trying to settle down with them. Another latino friend of mine did the same thing, dated some geeky white guy, claimed to be head over heels, flaunted him all over Facebook, and shortly before I unfriended him (for reasons unrelated to his dating choice, but I believe he was a hypocrite) , It looked like he was back single again.

    There's a friend of mine who I am having to permanently cut out of my life, because the only type of people He constantly talks about who are attractive, are white guys. No matter if they're broke bums, or heroine addicts. He does it in a way that fetishizes and makes it seem they have superiority in looks. Any white guy with a beard and husky look is an alpha in his deranged mind. He's Middle eastern, but I'm like dude...you can kiss my ass with that backwards white supremacist mentality you have.
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    Oct 13, 2015 5:06 AM GMT
    All these fine black, Latino and Arab men you know who have a thing for white dudes... Can you give them my number?
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    Oct 13, 2015 5:09 AM GMT
    This entire Forum Post, is...yawwwn! Boring! Let me bring something up, last nights supper!
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    Oct 13, 2015 5:09 AM GMT
    Seems odd....I get along perfectly well with black men and they tell me I am far from BORING! lol

    Perhaps your a little TIRED yourself. icon_wink.gificon_wink.gif
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    Oct 13, 2015 5:11 AM GMT
    Le sigh.

    You're one of the many reasons I troll the threads (to great success I may add) with my supposed "racist" forum topics.

    My "Anger in the black community" was one such inspired by you and your insane, racist ramblings like this one.


    You can't try and fight one stereotype and then in the next sentence reenforce another. It's counter productive and makes you look like an idiot.


    Do you ever think before you speak? This is a serious question.
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    Oct 13, 2015 5:12 AM GMT
    2Bnaked saidSeems odd....I get along perfectly well with black men and they tell we I am far from BORING! lol

    Perhaps your a little TIRED yourself. icon_wink.gificon_wink.gif


    Again, I did not say all or even most white guys are boring. You're one of the ones I'd say...you look ok, so wouldn't be referring to you.
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    Oct 13, 2015 5:17 AM GMT
    Chulomurder said
    Do you ever think before you speak? This is a serious question.


    Yes I do, but I wouldn't have to think twice before I shove my dick down your throat, and wrap your vas deferens around your neck.

    And fuck your narrow minded "anger in the black community" thread. Your philosophy is so tired and weak. So don't think for a minute, I'm going to sit here and shut up just because you have some fucking Mexican piƱata stick shoved up further than your fucking ass than the biggest black dick you ever took.
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    Oct 13, 2015 5:26 AM GMT
    FuzzyPecs27 said
    Chulomurder said
    Do you ever think before you speak? This is a serious question.


    Yes I do, but I wouldn't have to think twice before I shove my fist down your throat, and wrap your vas deferens around your neck.


    Change fist to dick and I'll be ok with it...
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    Oct 13, 2015 5:28 AM GMT
    I guess for the same reason some gays be [sic] into angry, ratchet, ghetto black guys.

    Different strokes fo' different folks. And so on and so on and Scooby do be do be.
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    Oct 13, 2015 5:34 AM GMT
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    Yes I do, but I wouldn't have to think twice before I shove my fist down your throat, and wrap your vas deferens around your neck.


    Change fist to dick and I'll be ok with it...


    Me too. So get on your knees and suck this dick, before I eat your clit.
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    Oct 13, 2015 5:40 AM GMT
    UndercoverMan saidI guess for the same reason some gays be [sic] into angry, ratchet, ghetto black guys.

    Different strokes fo' different folks. And so on and so on and Scooby do be do be.


    Bitch, what you trying to say? Theres plenty of angry, ratchet, trailer trash white guy out there too. But, there's plenty of other black guys to choose from and white guys too.

    I think ethnic guys who go exclusively for any white guy they can find, might have daddy issues. In every situation I've known, the person has been estranged or widowed from their father, and are left to fend for themselves at an undeveloped age. And they think a white guy can somehow be the proverbial sexual Jesus Christ in their gay life to deliver them.

    Do I sound batshit crazy, or is there a lil truth to every opinion? Again, this is not a white guy diss. But, there's some ethnic guys who will look beyond every other race, and make their mission in life to find a white guy....and they go thru the ever turning revolving door trying to find one. They dismiss and blow off guys who aren't white, essentially making the playing field unbalance and limited for them, and everybody else.
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    Oct 13, 2015 5:52 AM GMT
    FuzzyPecs27 said
    This white guy had no curves, was very plain and basic looking, and just didn't have anything that would catch my attention. I was like, what in the world? You're into him? (Atleast in my mind). I mean, it's not my business, but still...I know he could do better than that.



    Yeah, but he's WHITE. icon_cool.gif
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    Oct 13, 2015 6:23 AM GMT
    Radd said
    FuzzyPecs27 said
    This white guy had no curves, was very plain and basic looking, and just didn't have anything that would catch my attention. I was like, what in the world? You're into him? (Atleast in my mind). I mean, it's not my business, but still...I know he could do better than that.



    Yeah, but he's WHITE. icon_cool.gif



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    Oct 13, 2015 7:01 AM GMT
    FuzzyPecs27 said
    UndercoverMan said
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    Do I sound batshit crazy, or is there a lil truth to every opinion?
    ...


    There doesn't necessarily be "a lil truth to every opinion" so you must be "batshit crazy."
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    Oct 13, 2015 8:15 AM GMT
    Why are there SO many threads on here that bring race into a discussion?

    I really don't get it. It seems like America is so much more fixated on race than anywhere else. GET OVER IT
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    Oct 13, 2015 9:58 AM GMT
    PulseFit saidWhy are there SO many threads on here that bring race into a discussion?

    I really don't get it. It seems like America is so much more fixated on race than anywhere else. GET OVER IT


    What you're not going to "get", is how i can reach thru this iPad and choke yo ass. That will be something unforgettable.

    Now, I just feel some American gay guys right now are stuck in the 1950s. The whole white is right mentality. I just get annoyed. By all means, if that's what a person likes, go for it. But something is awry when you're going for plain, stale white bread instead of Grade A beef.

    Now, violence aside, I notice you're in UK. I'm sure you're in a different place and things are different there, possibly. But, I'm not going to get over it, because the gay scene is one of the only scenes where an ethnic person would have a harder time finding a similar companion, because all the other ethnics are pursuing...you know who.
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    Oct 13, 2015 12:23 PM GMT
    As a gay black man I feel obligated to reply to this.

    There are not that many open gay guys. There are lots of closeted discreet down low gay guys, but we are not going to mention that and that's a whole another discussion. So maybe the gay guys he found "boring" were to be white since they are the majority.

    White is the majority race as far as open homosexuality goes. So it's only natural for us to be attracted to white guys, even though (I find every race, scene, clique, type of guy attractive. Call me trashy and my standards are low but whatever. I'm a queen fem black guy so I have to have my options open.)

    There are not that many white guys attracted to us. So the few ones that do like us, albeit for fetish reasons, there are few.

    We all have preferences in some degree, and if a guy happens to like goofy oddball white guys, so what.

    The community is so small as is, and I could understand if you were some queeny, twinkish black guy, who isn't able to get any guy of any race ot like you.

    Bitch you are a athletic build black guy, who only goes for other athletic build guys and contradict yourself. You date white guys, but get mad at white guys who only date black guys.

    I'm mind fucked for real.
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    Oct 13, 2015 1:52 PM GMT
    "Boring" is not necessarily bad. Personally I'm an equal opportunity "boring" lover--white, black, brown, yellow, et al. Ultimately it's a question of personal taste or preference(s) and we can't force ourselves to like what we don't like (for example, I know that Okra is good for me but the consistency of it invariably makes me throw up).
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    Oct 13, 2015 2:01 PM GMT
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    Boaxy saidAs a gay black man I feel obligated to reply to this.

    There are not that many open gay guys. There are lots of closeted discreet down low gay guys, but we are not going to mention that and that's a whole another discussion. So maybe the gay guys he found "boring" were to be white since they are the majority.

    White is the majority race as far as open homosexuality goes. So it's only natural for us to be attracted to white guys, even though (I find every race, scene, clique, type of guy attractive. Call me trashy and my standards are low but whatever. I'm a queen fem black guy so I have to have my options open.)

    There are not that many white guys attracted to us. So the few ones that do like us, albeit for fetish reasons, there are few.

    We all have preferences in some degree, and if a guy happens to like goofy oddball white guys, so what.

    The community is so small as is, and I could understand if you were some queeny, twinkish black guy, who isn't able to get any guy of any race ot like you.

    Bitch you are a athletic build black guy, who only goes for other athletic build guys and contradict yourself. You date white guys, but get mad at white guys who only date black guys.

    I'm mind fucked for real.


    You've also contradiction by saying it's okay for black guys to be into white guys because there's more white guys (I suppose that's like how we often see gay guys into str8 guys because there's more of them), but then you declare that white guys who are into black guys are acting on fetish.

    Why is it more natural, not even preference but opportunity, to select from the mass produced but fetish if selecting from a line of limited production?
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    Oct 13, 2015 2:20 PM GMT
    OP, I don't think it matters why. Let your (former)friend date who they please. As long as that person does right by them, then it really shouldn't matter.
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    Oct 13, 2015 3:38 PM GMT
    PulseFit saidWhy are there SO many threads on here that bring race into a discussion?

    I really don't get it. It seems like America is so much more fixated on race than anywhere else. GET OVER IT


    Because of our unique history that's not so easy.
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    Oct 13, 2015 3:38 PM GMT
    PulseFit saidWhy are there SO many threads on here that bring race into a discussion?

    I really don't get it. It seems like America is so much more fixated on race than anywhere else. GET OVER IT



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    FYI: America is not fixated on race. It's BLACK Americans that are obsessed with race. And trust me....it gets tedious listening to them drone on and on about it. They love to act like they have the market cornered on rejection.
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    Oct 13, 2015 3:47 PM GMT
    FuzzyPecs27 said
    PulseFit saidWhy are there SO many threads on here that bring race into a discussion?

    I really don't get it. It seems like America is so much more fixated on race than anywhere else. GET OVER IT


    What you're not going to "get", is how i can reach thru this iPad and choke yo ass. That will be something unforgettable.

    Now, violence aside.....



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    I really don't understand why more people aren't attracted to angry black men like yourself. I mean, it's soooo hot when you threaten to choke a guy out for disagreeing with you. It's an absolute mystery why guys are not attracted to that. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Oct 13, 2015 3:48 PM GMT
    maybe you need to up your game bro, learn some of that stanky leg dance n shit icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 13, 2015 5:30 PM GMT
    The key is "I know he could do better than that."

    No you don't. You don't know what he finds attractive, it may have nothing to do with his thin body. He may be kind, smart, intelligent, giving, caring. He may be rich! He may have the perfect cock or ass! He may be funny.

    Notice I didn't mention race.

    Race doesn't matter when you get down to the person's character.