Guys who state they only have anal sex raw (bare back) are increasing in numbers, would you go bare back for a new hot stranger and why?

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    Oct 14, 2015 10:47 PM GMT
    Lowered concern over HIV and ignorance about the spread of other STI's has increased the number of guys insisting on BB only Sex. Would you submit to a new lovers request and go BB? What would motivate you to consider sleeping with him knowing he is very unlikely to change his mind about condom use
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    Oct 15, 2015 8:05 AM GMT
    If I were single I would never go without a condom when having sex with someone new and never did when I was single. I think people who do have something fundamental missing in their brains to be honest.
  • transient

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    Oct 15, 2015 4:04 PM GMT
    No No No
    Never.

    I respect my own right to protect myself how I see fit.

    Nobodys hot enough to convinse me otherwise.

    I would rather walk away&have a wank than play danger stranger russian roulette.
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    Oct 15, 2015 4:32 PM GMT
    Only when AIDS, HIV and other STDs don't exist. Or else, stick back to the rubber. icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 15, 2015 5:55 PM GMT
    PulseFit saidIf I were single I would never go without a condom when having sex with someone new and never did when I was single. I think people who do have something fundamental missing in their brains to be honest.

    This.
    Almost every bottom I have ever banged wanted me to BB them, and I always figured it was just how desperate and insane so many bottoms are.
  • SwimBIkeRun94...

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    Oct 20, 2015 1:27 PM GMT
    Absolutely not.

    Once that request is made ("you like it raw, man?"), I hit block.
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    Oct 20, 2015 1:49 PM GMT
    Absolutely not. I agree with the comments here against BB. Ask the HIV poz guys about how they got it (if they'll talk about it). It sure as Hell wasn't from kissing and holding hands. There's one principal way gay men get HIV, and that's barebacking.

    Sure BB feels better than a condom (although some new looser condom designs feel nearly bare). So, a few moments of feel-better for a lifetime of inconvenience, expense, precarious health, and perhaps misery and a premature death. What a deal!
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    Oct 20, 2015 1:58 PM GMT
    thats one of the things ill definitely say no to even if the guy asking for it is the perfect one
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    Oct 21, 2015 12:16 AM GMT
    No.

    Although maybe the guys that want to are already positive, and assume you are also?
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    Oct 21, 2015 2:48 AM GMT
    I don't think it's increasing. I just think some guys feel comfortable talking about it openly these days.
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    Oct 21, 2015 4:18 AM GMT
    I can sort of confirm this in that 2/10 guys will actually attempt to put on a condom once we get to anal. The rest just tell me to turn around right there. Even if they said they play safe.

    Some guys will get caught up in the moment and just don't even put it on or remind their top to put it on and there comes the bareback.
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    Oct 21, 2015 10:38 AM GMT
    There are very few guys who will take this just as another layer of protection. The guys j have met are adhering to Counselling and Testing but still openly talk about their barebacking including being tag teamed by lots of guys