Versatile Guys a question.

  • Apparition

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    Oct 15, 2015 2:59 AM GMT
    Versatile Guys a question.

    In the average encounter with a LTR when you have sex, do you usually flip flop, or is it pretty much I top this time, next time you top. Just curious. Discuss.
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    Oct 15, 2015 8:04 AM GMT
    I suppose you're aiming this question more at a vers guy who is generally 50/50. I'm vers top, I only bottom once every 4-6 weeks on average.

    I guess if you were truly both 50/50 you'd take turns!
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    Oct 15, 2015 8:19 PM GMT
    Depends. The more cum in your ass, the more bottom you are.
  • Apparition

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    Oct 15, 2015 10:51 PM GMT
    PulseFit saidI suppose you're aiming this question more at a vers guy who is generally 50/50. I'm vers top, I only bottom once every 4-6 weeks on average.

    I guess if you were truly both 50/50 you'd take turns!


    but when you bottom do you also top in the encounter.
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    Oct 16, 2015 8:44 AM GMT
    Apparition said
    but when you bottom do you also top in the encounter.


    Usually no, because it's too much effort to both make sure we're clean and good to go. Sometimes though. Throw in a dildo too and you can have a spit-roast just the two of you icon_razz.gif
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    Oct 16, 2015 9:24 AM GMT
    We typically will flip... unless there's a pressing reason not to.

    We strive for "mutual satisfaction"...
  • Suetonius

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    Oct 17, 2015 6:39 AM GMT
    JonSpringon saidWe typically will flip... unless there's a pressing reason not to.

    We strive for "mutual satisfaction"...


    That's nice, but, if one of you has an orgasm from fucking the other, then he is getting fucked after he came? Not something I have ever enjoyed. That would get old fast for me.
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    Oct 17, 2015 11:44 AM GMT
    Suetonius said
    JonSpringon saidWe typically will flip... unless there's a pressing reason not to.

    We strive for "mutual satisfaction"...


    That's nice, but, if one of you has an orgasm from fucking the other, then he is getting fucked after he came? Not something I have ever enjoyed. That would get old fast for me.


    To each his own... but it sounds like you're in the mindset of there only being one orgasm each... and that's not generally the case with us. The goal for each of us is not our own orgasm, but to make the other cum. Both of us focused on each other and not ourselves like that makes for great sex and leads to mutual orgasms, regardless of the position we're in.

    ... and the "flip" may not necessarily happen right away. There may be a break to rehydrate, and then the next round of seduction may begin. Or not... depends on the night, the mood, and how tired we are from the first round.
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    Oct 17, 2015 11:08 PM GMT
    JonSpringon said
    Suetonius said
    JonSpringon saidWe typically will flip... unless there's a pressing reason not to.

    We strive for "mutual satisfaction"...


    That's nice, but, if one of you has an orgasm from fucking the other, then he is getting fucked after he came? Not something I have ever enjoyed. That would get old fast for me.


    To each his own... but it sounds like you're in the mindset of there only being one orgasm each... and that's not generally the case with us. The goal for each of us is not our own orgasm, but to make the other cum. Both of us focused on each other and not ourselves like that makes for great sex and leads to mutual orgasms, regardless of the position we're in.

    ... and the "flip" may not necessarily happen right away. There may be a break to rehydrate, and then the next round of seduction may begin. Or not... depends on the night, the mood, and how tired we are from the first round.


    Is it the same if you're in a straight relationship?
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    Oct 24, 2015 3:44 PM GMT
    Just depends on both party's moods. Been a few times we've flipped in one session, but it's usually just one or the other.