whats with guys with open relationships that down play Monogamous ones ?

  • MartinMPL

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    Oct 16, 2015 7:46 PM GMT


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    Oct 17, 2015 11:32 PM GMT
    Okay first of all Davey Wavey is just a huge ol Slut, he wouldn't know what monogamy is if it was a brick that hit him in the face. I mean he has his shirt off in every single video, which is a great indication that he's just an attention seeker, and that's what I think gay guys in open relationships are, attention seekers.
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    Oct 18, 2015 1:15 AM GMT
    Why should you care what other people think of your relationship?

    Ever!

    Esp. by YouTube-whores!
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    Oct 18, 2015 12:31 PM GMT
    bhp91126 saidWhy should you care what other people think of your relationship?

    Ever!

    Esp. by YouTube-whores!


    This. a relationship is between you and other person. whatever the two (or more) of you choose to do, that's the only thing that matters.
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    Oct 18, 2015 3:01 PM GMT
    To each his own, but whatever it is that one chooses--monogamy, open relationship, polyamory, polysexuality, etc.--there must be a measure of responsibility and accountability in the relationship where the parties involved are expected to conduct themselves within the negotiated parameters of intimacy.
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    Oct 18, 2015 3:16 PM GMT
    DOMINUS saidTo each his own, but whatever it is that one chooses--monogamy, open relationship, polyamory, polysexuality, etc.--there must be a measure of responsibility and accountability in the relationship where the parties involved are expected to conduct themselves within the negotiated parameters of intimacy.

    100% yes
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    Oct 18, 2015 7:32 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidAnd you have your shirt off in several of your pics. You're also in underwear in several of your pics in provocative positions and let's not forget the shot of you face down with your ass in the camera. If you're in a "monogamous relationship" why do we need to see your 'nearly naked' body or your legs propped up or your ass that's hogging the camera lens? Technically speaking, you show more skin and more body than Davey. But according to you, he's a slut.

    The sanctimony is so painfully evident.

    What Mesmer is really telling us:
    Hey, everyone! I'm not a slut. I only play one for the camera lens! In actuality, I'm virtuous and pure!


    You forgot the twenty six (!) private pictures. On RealJock.com. I would like to know how that isn't attention-seeking.
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    Oct 18, 2015 7:38 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidI did notice that too.

    They're probably more slutty pics of him wearing his "blue contacts" in unacceptably compromising positions!

    Gasp!


    I mean that's almost goddamn 40 pictures to show to guys that are NOT his boyfriend.

    He was very sanctimonious in the other open relationship thread too. It doesn't seem he genuinely listened to anything that was said there.
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    Oct 18, 2015 8:34 PM GMT
    I'm not watching that damn video, because his videos are equally annoying as that Davey queen.

    But yes, couples in open relationships often (very vocally) look down on anyone in monogamous relationships as being "not sexually liberated" or that they're taking on "heteronormative roles" and other bullshit statements. But you have the same amount of judgement and criticism coming from some monogamous couples who say very ignorant things about open relationships. I've heard people say things like "well one day your boyfriend is going to hookup with someone he likes better" or "you can't have love without jealousy" and other ridiculous things, as if people in monogamous relationships don't meet new people too.

    All in all, I do find the most judgement coming from the guys in open relationships. They seem more vocal in their judgements, while most monogamous couples just seem to say "that's great if it works for them but it's not for me." Which is the healthiest response. But there's plenty of judgement on both sides. In short, unless you're in their relationship it's none of your damn business!
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    Oct 18, 2015 11:12 PM GMT
    I posted this on another thread but I hear guys on RJ saying this all the time: "Open relationships are for couples who aren't insecure" as if monogamy is for the weak. Or that it's for guys without "jealousy issues", etc.

    Though I'm confused by Radd's current position since on that other thread he said "If you're threatened by your boyfriend getting a blowjob you have more problems than you likely realize anyway. "
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    Oct 18, 2015 11:36 PM GMT
    theonewhoknocks saidI posted this on another thread but I hear guys on RJ saying this all the time: "Open relationships are for couples who aren't insecure" as if monogamy is for the weak. Or that it's for guys without "jealousy issues", etc.

    Though I'm confused by Radd's current position since on that other thread he said "If you're threatened by your boyfriend getting a blowjob you have more problems than you likely realize anyway. "



    Yes, I can see where that might be a little confusing. I think both relationship concepts require reseting your mind. Both types can be loving, nurturing and fulfilling but they require very different boundaries and behaviors....obviously. And when I made that comment about the blowjob, as I recall I was addressing someone who was making snide comments about open relationships. I think I was just trying to add some perspective to it.
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    Oct 20, 2015 11:37 AM GMT
    The cool thing about relationships is yours only has to work for you and the other person(s?) involved.

    Others can judge, but you shouldn't let it bother you.
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    Oct 20, 2015 2:16 PM GMT
    People downplay what they can't have.
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    Oct 21, 2015 2:41 AM GMT
    David666k saidPeople downplay what they can't have.


    That's true lol. It extends to physical appearance. It's not uncommon to see fat guys slamming "twinks" while referring to muscle gym jocks.
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    Oct 21, 2015 5:24 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    David666k saidPeople downplay what they can't have don't want.



    That's better.



    ∆ That's bitter.
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    Oct 21, 2015 1:22 PM GMT
    And as usual, you have no one to back you up in your bitterness. icon_lol.gif
  • MartinMPL

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    Oct 21, 2015 10:03 PM GMT
    theonewhoknocks saidI posted this on another thread but I hear guys on RJ saying this all the time: "Open relationships are for couples who aren't insecure" as if monogamy is for the weak. Or that it's for guys without "jealousy issues", etc.

    Though I'm confused by Radd's current position since on that other thread he said "If you're threatened by your boyfriend getting a blowjob you have more problems than you likely realize anyway. "


    HJAHA
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    Oct 22, 2015 1:37 AM GMT
    Open relationship is not a relationship.

    It's a rent shop. Rentship? icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Oct 22, 2015 1:42 AM GMT
    ^ I like this guy
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    Oct 22, 2015 1:50 AM GMT
    MartinMPL said



    Not sure if this is Dear Abby, Ann Landers, Dr. Ruth or that other one.......

    Sex ed has changed to youtube!

    Connect with Davey Wavey and feel the love of #keywords to #jump
  • LEANDRO_NJ

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    Oct 22, 2015 2:58 AM GMT
    Razvigor saidOpen relationship is not a relationship.

    It's a rent shop. Rentship? icon_rolleyes.gif


    Rentship? now that makes sense!!
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    Oct 22, 2015 3:00 AM GMT
    LEANDRO_NJ said
    Rentship? now that makes sense!!


    Well - that, or lendship icon_smile.gif.

    As renting may imply money are involved.
  • Soulfresh123

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    Oct 22, 2015 3:07 AM GMT
    Although I encourage love, open relationship is others'choice. It's their life. They can be my friend but won't be my lover.
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