What does it mean when a guy calls you ___

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    Oct 18, 2015 11:25 PM GMT
    The moment they laid eyes on you they told you you looked ___.

    A. Cute
    B. Hot
    C. Beautiful

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    Oct 18, 2015 11:29 PM GMT
    Mesmer saidA. Cute
    B. Hot
    C. Beautiful

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    It means he is blind and insane. LOL, j/k
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    Oct 19, 2015 12:20 AM GMT
    Means he's sweet talking you into some mattress time.
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    Oct 19, 2015 12:48 AM GMT
    A. Cute - I wanna hug you
    B. Hot - I wanna fuck you
    C. Beautiful - I wanna see you cry because of me with blue eye contacts that stand out in your dark asian crying face.
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    Oct 19, 2015 3:57 AM GMT
    Told me? A, B, and/or C, it means he's either a discerning man of the very highest aesthetical and intellectual prowess, or it means that he has determined I'm drunk and has seen which pocket my wallet is in.
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    Oct 19, 2015 4:01 AM GMT
    A. Notices you're attractive, but wants nothing.
    B. Probably wants to sleep with you.
    C. Wants to kiss you, sleep with you and cuddle. More than once.
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    Oct 19, 2015 4:07 AM GMT
    I sometimes got told crap like that 20 years ago, and I was always dubious. I figured it was just a come-on line, for the various reasons guys above have listed.

    Now depending on the guy, if I could see some potential there, especially when I was doing quick bar tricks, I might let it play out. Otherwise I'd just walk away.
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    Oct 19, 2015 4:35 AM GMT
    A- You're a cute guy. Wanna fuck?
    B- Fuck you're hot. Wanna fuck?
    C- You're absolutely beautiful! Wanna fuck?

    This is what I think they mean. Speaking from experience...
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    Oct 19, 2015 5:13 AM GMT
    Why so analytical? Just take it as a compliment and thank them. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 19, 2015 5:37 AM GMT
    polfsky saidWhy so analytical? Just take it as a compliment and thank them. icon_biggrin.gif


    Well, I think men subconsciously let out their deeper intentions with you by things they say without realizing it. There has to be a difference on these three words. As much as I hate to say it men will categorize men on their level of interest on you. So for me I think cute is a bit innocent, but honest, it could lead to just platonic friendship or a potential relationship.

    Hot is just all physical to me, there is nothing more then that. Beautiful is more hm I can't even describe when a man says they are beautiful to another man. It's just a certain quality certain guys have? I dunno.
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    Oct 19, 2015 12:19 PM GMT
    I say, "Thank you. That's nice, man. What about my profile made you decide to reach out to me?"
    I'd agree that "Hot" means sexual interest.

    Cute? Hard to say. Maybe you bring out the kid in him, which, since it is the child part of us that is the loving part (not the adult: leave the chores for the adult.) and is the "warm, fuzzy" teddy bear.

    Beautiful? Sometimes a combination of "Hot" and "Cute."

    What I wonder is why so few guys ask follow up questions? It's common sense. If you wouldn't open your door to a complete stranger, why would you open your heart to one simply because he uses 'cute' (pun intended) adjectives? I usually ask what I asked above. Anyone sincere will answer sincerely and be HAPPY to say why they wrote -WITHOUT you prodding them. Having to prod them? His social skills are "iffy". And ANY other response than that means, "I didn't even think past my impulse," which is fine, but you only have so many hours/days/weeks/months/years deciding what to do with your time. People spend more time deciding what movie to go to or what to eat in a restaurant than they do responding intelligently to an email. Pre-Internet, you could see the body language, the eyes, the stance. Now you seeā€¦.words on a screen. And sometimes no more than 3 lines. That's the giveaway. If a genuine feeling is behind it, there'll be more than 3 lines of text, including at least 1 question. Otherwise, probe more. And, eventually, ask how they get along with their mother.
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    Oct 19, 2015 1:33 PM GMT
    UndercoverMan saidMeans he's sweet talking you into some mattress time.

    Mattress Time comes right after T-Time.

    ...I'll show myself out.
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    Oct 19, 2015 1:45 PM GMT
    The U-Haul truck is on its way.
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    Oct 19, 2015 4:19 PM GMT
    A.who cares
    B. Why does it matter
    C. Are you internally happy with yourself,
    and do you consider yourself cute hot beautiful?


    That's all that matters. Anybody who has a motive or agenda isn't worth your time. Find something else to occupy your time

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    Oct 19, 2015 5:09 PM GMT
    I've been called all of those, by guys and girls. To me, they're all just an observation and I don't see any subtext beyond that.
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    Oct 19, 2015 5:54 PM GMT
    Generally, they all mean he finds you attractive.

    Beyond that, depends on how much he has had to drink.
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    Oct 19, 2015 10:48 PM GMT
    If I say these things

    Cute= worth getting to know would possibly bang or date

    Hot= I want to fuck you

    Beautiful= possible relationship material
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    Oct 19, 2015 10:51 PM GMT
    A. fuck
    B. fuck
    C fuck
    It means the guy wants to use u and is incapable of thinking anything better than shallow banal worn out phrases
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    Oct 19, 2015 10:56 PM GMT
    James_Thunder_Early saidA. Notices you're attractive, but wants nothing.
    B. Probably wants to sleep with you.
    C. Wants to kiss you, sleep with you and cuddle. More than once.


    Lol I get cute a lot
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    Oct 19, 2015 11:10 PM GMT
    Mesmer saidThe moment they laid eyes on you they told you you looked ___.
    A. Cute
    B. Hot
    C. Beautiful
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    Was the guy who told you this Asian? If not, why would it matter?
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    Oct 20, 2015 3:00 AM GMT
    polfsky saidWhy so analytical? Just take it as a compliment and thank them. icon_biggrin.gif



    I agree. I would be flattered if someone told me this. Sounds like he likes you.
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    Oct 20, 2015 3:51 AM GMT
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    James_Thunder_Early saidA. Notices you're attractive, but wants nothing.
    B. Probably wants to sleep with you.
    C. Wants to kiss you, sleep with you and cuddle. More than once.


    Lol I get cute a lot


    My friend get's hot a lot, and he is very much physically attractive, however he can't seem to land a boyfriend. icon_confused.gif

    I get beautiful the most.
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    Oct 20, 2015 7:16 AM GMT
    Mesmer saidThe moment they laid eyes on you they told you you looked ___.

    A. Cute
    B. Hot
    C. Beautiful

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    It means he likes the way you look.
    It's a compliment.
    Smile, and say, "Thank you."