Oct 20, 2015 5:11 PM GMT
So I've been talking to this guy online about nude wrestling. We started talking about gay men and their claims about having safe sex. He claimed to agree and blah blah. He only jerks off with dudes because of the risk. He then tells me that he believes their is a conspiracy and that cures exist for many STDs. He tells me about a story where a reporter asked princess Diana if the Royal elite worried about STDs at their orgies and a companion of hers said STDs are not a problem. He stated this was proof that they were inoculated. I explained to him that I believed all people were willing to have sex with someone who had an STD if they felt the person or the sex was worth the risk. How hot I'd the guy? How big is his dick? Is he wealthy and generous? Does he have connections? Do I love him? I then brought up the fact that he claimed to be serious about STDs but regularly engaged in nude wrestling with a population that has higher rates of STDs than most other populations. This puts him at risk for herpes gladitorum. He told me good luck, basically ending the conversation. Over the years I spoken to many gay men who swear they don't have any STD and don't want one but have no problem swallowing semen, sucking dick without a condom or rimming a dude without a barrier. A guy once told me he'd never get tested for herpes because then he'd have to disclose. When I ask if he would rather catch and unknowingly spread herpes than get tested he said he'd rather unknowingly spread it. I have nothing against people with or without STDs or safe or unsafe sex. What bothers me is the delusion so many men engage in.