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  • Matthew56

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    Oct 20, 2015 10:15 PM GMT
    Men on Grindr do you use it as a main source of meeting other gay men
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    Oct 20, 2015 10:19 PM GMT
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    Oct 20, 2015 11:28 PM GMT
    I use it to meet men who want to bake cookies with. Every guy on Grindr I meet is very friendly. I'm satisfied with my time with them. It's also fun to meet them to just Netflix and chill with.

    You should try it sometime.
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    Oct 20, 2015 11:33 PM GMT
    Swifterchris saidI use it to meet men who want to bake cookies with. Every guy on Grindr I meet is very friendly. I'm satisfied with my time with them. It's also fun to meet them to just Netflix and chill with.

    You should try it sometime.
    But I don't have Netflix. icon_confused.gif
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    Oct 21, 2015 3:17 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    paulflexes said
    Swifterchris saidI use it to meet men who want to bake cookies with. Every guy on Grindr I meet is very friendly. I'm satisfied with my time with them. It's also fun to meet them to just Netflix and chill with.

    You should try it sometime.
    But I don't have Netflix. icon_confused.gif
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    Netflix is $8 monthly for streaming. It's really worth it. If you have a computer with an internet connection you can enjoy Netflix.


    And Netflix and chill actually doesn't cost anything, since it has nothing to do with Netflix.
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    Oct 21, 2015 3:50 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
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    Is that an acronym for "Die in a Fire"?

    What a terribly mean thing to direct at someone whose posts are so trivial.




    Oh shut the fuck up you stupid queen. No one cares about your opinion. You're trivial.
  • Svnw688

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    Oct 21, 2015 6:21 AM GMT
    (1). Been with my current b/f almost 3 years (well, 2 years and 8 months or so), so I don't hookup anymore.

    (2). When I did hookup, I used Grindr mainly for amusement. Just trading pics with guys and dirty talk was hot to me. A nice way to kill down-time. Since I always let a guy know I was just chatting/trading pics, I didn't feel bad about leading anyone on or anything since I disclosed my M.O.

    (3). I did have some hookups from it, but I mainly have guys who I've met (sometimes Grindr, sometimes at a bar, usually through friends of friends) and that I just text. I suppose those are called "booty-calls" or "FWB." At any rate, whatever you call them, we'd meet, have amazing sex, and then repeat. Some guys I met once a month, others once every week or so. But when you have 4 or 5 horses in the stable you don't really need to meet randoms.

    (4). I'm against random hookups because (a) the sex is usually sub-par because they're not hung enough, or can't take getting fucked, or whine, or etc., (b) I'm big into smells and some guys--even when fresh out of the shower--don't smell bad but don't turn me on, (c) some guys are just a hot mess with undisclosed drugs, addictions, paranoia, closeted-ness, etc. I don't have time to put up with them.

    My advice, just use Grindr to find 3 or 4 guys you like and keep texting them for repeat sex sessions. It's theoretically safer from an STD perspective, crime of opportunity perspective, and is MUCH LESS hassle.
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    Oct 21, 2015 2:46 PM GMT
    Radd said11jvs5l.gif


    That's a very rad response.

    Not rad in the good way. I guess the nickname figures.
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    Oct 21, 2015 2:59 PM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    Radd said
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    Radd said11jvs5l.gif


    Is that an acronym for "Die in a Fire"?

    What a terribly mean thing to direct at someone whose posts are so trivial.




    Oh shut the fuck up you stupid queen. No one cares about your opinion. You're trivial.


    My my...

    Looks like another outburst of histrionics from our Scruffyslit.

    Well, if you're going set this poor black man on fire in the hopes that he'll die I hope you're not wearing your usual southern garb. People might get the wrong impression.

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    Or maybe they'll get the right impression.

    In either case, it doesn't make you look too good.



    Are you fucking kidding me? You and that Aryan Nation look you're trying to pull off? If you could read, you'd see I was the ONLY person trying to help the OP a year ago when he started with this "pity me because I'm black" bullshit. Everyone else (including other black people) were bashing him and berating me for trying to help him. But at this point everyone here can see he's just a fucking troll. My response has zero to do with the color of his skin because if it were I would not have tried so hard to help the guy. But you know that already don't you? You just say shit as a way to spew your poison. Sorry but you're not fooling anyone.
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    Oct 21, 2015 7:30 PM GMT
    Okay then, maybe not that rad. Good that you explained yourself. But this here adds an odd tone to your post:

    Radd saidAre you fucking kidding me? You and that Aryan Nation look you're trying to pull off?
    ........
    My response has zero to do with the color of his skin because if it were I would not have tried so hard to help the guy.


    For somebody who doesn't judge on the external appearance of people you quickly went 180 degrees in less than a sentence apart and judged the fuck out of MuchMoreThanMuscle's appearance icon_smile.gif

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    Oct 21, 2015 9:50 PM GMT
    Razvigor saidOkay then, maybe not that rad. Good that you explained yourself. But this here adds an odd tone to your post:

    Radd saidAre you fucking kidding me? You and that Aryan Nation look you're trying to pull off?
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    My response has zero to do with the color of his skin because if it were I would not have tried so hard to help the guy.


    For somebody who doesn't judge on the external appearance of people you quickly went 180 degrees in less than a sentence apart and judged the fuck out of MuchMoreThanMuscle's appearance icon_smile.gif




    That's just because I can't stand him! Everything about that guy makes my skin crawl. His outward appearance sickens me because it reminds me what's on the inside.
  • MartinMPL

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    Oct 21, 2015 10:07 PM GMT
    i stop dating game recently as its close time before i move to the US. and thats not enough time to get to know anyone or even have a chance for them to move with me lol.


    but when i was dating. i was meeting around 3 to 4 guys a week using all social networks.

    not for hook ups but for dates.

    so at the time was once or twice a week. its not as difficult as people make it out to be nor is it time consuming it be like 30 minutes quick meet up or a hour n if there cool will go on another date.
  • FitBlackCuddl...

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    Oct 21, 2015 10:27 PM GMT
    Matthew56 saidMen on Grindr do you use it as a main source of meeting other gay men


    I downloaded it for less than two weeks in 2014. Can attest that MEETING is more like MEATING.

    I got so many unsolicited photos of penises and butts from people with no profile to speak of that I reached my tolerance point and simply deleted the app on the spot.

    (Oh sorry...was Growlr I used, not this one. But I imagine ALL "gay" apps are on all "gay" people's phones, equate tot he SAME thing)
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    Oct 21, 2015 11:00 PM GMT
    Radd & MucMoreThanMuscle

    Guys, I'd say maybe go out for a beer, you'll find common ground but somehow I'm feeling this won't be considered a viable solution for either of you.


    That's how I usually solve disputes.




    Some use sex too icon_biggrin.gif.