Cowboiway saidJust a curiosity. I know most of us have went home from the bar with the cute stranger. Well I did that this weekend. Only the 4th time in the 10 years I've been out.
I always find the sex to be amazing when I do this. In the 8 hours we were together we did it 4 times, and none we shorter than 1 hour in length. So not a lot of sleep but one heck of a lot of calories burned.
So how many times have you all done it with a one night stand? Care to share?
Never kept track, but certainly much more than 4 during my single periods. And extra helpings when I'd be traveling out of town, since I've mostly lived in smaller cities in recent years where the available supply of strangers was quickly exhausted.
The sex was mostly good, only a few disappointments. I'm a meticulous planner, and made Saturday my weekly house cleaning day, to coincide with my favorite night out.
So that when I'd go out Sat night, my place would be ready for any tricks I might bring home. Fresh bed sheets, bathroom towels, everything clean & tidy. Also made sure enough breakfast food was on hand, sometimes even set the breakfast table before I left for the clubs.
And it seemed to work, never had a guy turn around at the front door and leave cause my place was a pig sty, nor act like he'd made a bad choice by coming home with me. And being thus relaxed and reassured, the guy could focus on our having fun all night.
I always put myself in the other guy's shoes, and I know it can be tense when you accept a stranger's invitation to their place. And when it looks like a college kid's dirty dorm room, I for one am not at ease, and may not stay the night, if at all. My theory is that you hook 'em at the club, but you sell 'em at your house.