Boyfriend wants to watch me have sex with someone else

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    Oct 26, 2015 4:56 AM GMT
    Hi everyone,

    I'm having a little dilemma where my boyfriend hints at me that he wants to watch me have sex with someone else. While this might sound like a cool fantasy deal, I would not feel comfortable doing it. The reason I'm posting this is that he has brought this up several times despite me saying no.
    From this post I'm hoping to receive some feedback, maybe from your experience, to understand this fantasy, to know how to deal with the matter. Has anyone had a boyfriend with this fantasy or maybe you have this fantasy? Does not going along with the fantasy create tension in the couple?

    Thanks
  • 6packabs

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    Oct 26, 2015 5:11 AM GMT
    I haven't ever had a BF, but I'd like to think that if I did, we'd do a ton of things together with other guys. That doesn't help you though.
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    Oct 26, 2015 10:05 AM GMT
    If it's a fantasy of his and it's not something you want to turn into reality, you need to make it absolutely clear it's not going to happen. No one should force you to do anything sexually that you are not comfortable doing.

    Having said that, you could help to satisfy at least a part of this fantasy by involving some dirty talk and roleplay, and using sex toys in your sex life. He could fuck you with a dildo while 'pretending' it's another guy fucking you, for example. Have some porn on featuring threesomes.
  • rnch

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    Oct 26, 2015 3:34 PM GMT
    PulseFit saidIf it's a fantasy of his and it's not something you want to turn into reality, you need to make it absolutely clear it's not going to happen. No one should force you to do anything sexually that you are not comfortable doing.

    Having said that, you could help to satisfy at least a part of this fantasy by involving some dirty talk and roleplay, and using sex toys in your sex life. He could fuck you with a dildo while 'pretending' it's another guy fucking you, for example. Have some porn on featuring threesomes.




    An excellent, "Real World Correct" reply.
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    Oct 26, 2015 7:09 PM GMT
    Thank you, I appreciate the replies
  • Apparition

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    Oct 27, 2015 6:17 AM GMT
    tell him you want to fuck his dad, that it has always been a fantasy of yours, and he should let you do it.
    you wont hear this again.
  • oldfart

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    Oct 27, 2015 2:09 PM GMT
    Sounds like he wants a three way.

    Been there done that. A good time was had by all. Still do it.

    But wait until you are both horny for it and have agreed on what your limits are. Choose your third(s) carefully. Then relax and enjoy. It does get better with practice, and can make your relationship more intense. icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 28, 2015 10:27 AM GMT
    Apparition saidtell him you want to fuck his dad, that it has always been a fantasy of yours, and he should let you do it.
    you wont hear this again.
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    Oct 28, 2015 11:18 AM GMT
    I had a BF like that. But then we weren't monogamous. Or more accurately, HE wasn't monogamous. But then I understood that, whereas I'm always monogamous with whatever guy is my BF. I have this magical switch that automatically gets thrown when I'm with a guy, that makes me go from whore to wholesome.
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    But that's what he wanted, he kept nagging me, so I did it for him. I was play acting, had no interest in the other guy. All the time while he was busy jerking off to us. I may have acted like a whore at times when I was single, but that time I actually felt like one. I've never done it since, nor been with another guy who requested it. Nor would I ever do it again.
  • helloandgoodb...

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    Oct 28, 2015 11:45 AM GMT
    Apparition saidtell him you want to fuck his dad, that it has always been a fantasy of yours, and he should let you do it.
    you wont hear this again.


    best...answer...ever!