Has a guy ever admitted to you that they loved you? Or you to him?

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    Oct 26, 2015 5:11 AM GMT
    Please share your stories, experiences, and reasons why you think they fell in love with you or if you admitted in saying I love you to a guy I would love to hear those stories as well mostly reasons why you fell in love with that person.

    I have a theory in my head, but in order for me to see if this is true or viable I would love to hear other people's experiences on their love stories. I want to write an article on it hopefully sometime in the future. Thanks!
  • giodude

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    Oct 26, 2015 8:21 PM GMT
    I did admit to a guy I really liked him, once.

    He told me I was great (This was after a period of closeness and vibing) but he just did not think that people who are not white are attractive (This was valentine's day). I was shocked and a bit angry, but it was his decision, so I just did not respond, and let him live his life as he saw fit.
    Then two days afterward he asked me to hook him with any attractive white boys I may know, because he wanted to some action, and perved over a close (straight) friend of mine in my whatsapp profile picture and asked for his number.

    Needless to say I took a massive shit on his head/gave him the tongue lashing of his life and was this close (I'm holding my fingers like a centimeter apart) to smashing his face in . I was livid.

    That's the extent of romantic interactions for this year.
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    Oct 26, 2015 8:23 PM GMT
    "Has a guy ever admitted to you that they loved you? Or you to him?"

    Yes on both calls. But it was not "admitting", much more of a declaration.
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    Oct 26, 2015 8:34 PM GMT
    FitBlackCuddler said"Has a guy ever admitted to you that they loved you? Or you to him?"

    Yes on both calls. But it was not "admitting", much more of a declaration.


    can you give any specifics? Like what was it about him that you loved about him? his body, his face, or was there something more to that?
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    Oct 26, 2015 8:39 PM GMT
    FitBlackCuddler said"Has a guy ever admitted to you that they loved you? Or you to him?"

    Yes on both calls. But it was not "admitting", much more of a declaration.


    Exactly, it never felt like a confession. I have delivered a lot of I love yous and many times it ended the relationship. Those were the wrong guys obviously. But 15 years ago I said it to the right guy and he said it back to me. We've been in love ever since.
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    Oct 26, 2015 8:43 PM GMT
    I loved his spirit before I wanted to sleep with him. At first I thought we were going to be great friends, not lovers. But then the fun we had carried over into the bedroom.
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    Oct 26, 2015 8:50 PM GMT
    So... There was this guy who had been a pretty regular fuck-buddy for over a year... We were always vocal and verbal during sx... But one night in the middle of a good slamming he blurts out "Oh my god i love you"..

    I could tell that it shocked him to say it, and he got embarrassed, but I took it in stride... Didn't let it interrupt the sex, and we both finished happily.

    After, as we're cleaning up, i said "So.... "

    He instantly got embarrassed again, hiding his face in shame, apologizing, making a REALLY big deal of it...

    I took his face in my hands, he looked like he was about to cry, i said to him "relax... I love you too..." And kissed him.

    Little over a year later, we got engaged.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 26, 2015 8:53 PM GMT
    Yes to both. I even dedicated a song to him in public and said I loved him.
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    Oct 26, 2015 9:18 PM GMT
    David666k saidYes to both. I even dedicated a song to him in public and said I loved him.

    But then kevex spurned you.   icon_sad.gif
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    Oct 26, 2015 9:36 PM GMT
    Mesmer said
    FitBlackCuddler said"Has a guy ever admitted to you that they loved you? Or you to him?"

    Yes on both calls. But it was not "admitting", much more of a declaration.


    can you give any specifics? Like what was it about him that you loved about him? his body, his face, or was there something more to that?


    Loving him grew over time. What made it happen was how accessible Grant was and how good the social (and later, the emotional) chemistry was between us.

    Found myself feeling happy to "just drop by", and end up feeling free to make an impromptu dinner with no worry of judgment or criticism. Sex was not a pressure situation...no agenda. What happened--happened. Grant just seemed to love having me around. He never grew tired of me touching him or being nearby.

    He used to remarked that even from the first days it was as if I had always been there. He was naturally witty and verbally adroit. He worked in entertainment and ALWAYS had something pithy to share.

    But mostly, it was just good chemistry and a mutual desire to go with the flow.
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    Oct 26, 2015 10:11 PM GMT
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    David666k saidYes to both. I even dedicated a song to him in public and said I loved him.

    But then kevex spurned you.   icon_sad.gif

    What the hell ever happened to kevex? I think his Chihuahua still posts but he's disappeared.
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    Oct 26, 2015 10:21 PM GMT
    JonSpringon saidSo... There was this guy who had been a pretty regular fuck-buddy for over a year... We were always vocal and verbal during sx... But one night in the middle of a good slamming he blurts out "Oh my god i love you"..

    I could tell that it shocked him to say it, and he got embarrassed, but I took it in stride... Didn't let it interrupt the sex, and we both finished happily.

    After, as we're cleaning up, i said "So.... "

    He instantly got embarrassed again, hiding his face in shame, apologizing, making a REALLY big deal of it...

    I took his face in my hands, he looked like he was about to cry, i said to him "relax... I love you too..." And kissed him.

    Little over a year later, we got engaged.icon_biggrin.gif


    So you're saying it was because of the sex that you fell in love with him?
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    Oct 26, 2015 10:22 PM GMT
    FitBlackCuddler said
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    FitBlackCuddler said"Has a guy ever admitted to you that they loved you? Or you to him?"

    Yes on both calls. But it was not "admitting", much more of a declaration.


    can you give any specifics? Like what was it about him that you loved about him? his body, his face, or was there something more to that?


    Loving him grew over time. What made it happen was how accessible Grant was and how good the social (and later, the emotional) chemistry was between us.

    Found myself feeling happy to "just drop by", and end up feeling free to make an impromptu dinner with no worry of judgment or criticism. Sex was not a pressure situation...no agenda. What happened--happened. Grant just seemed to love having me around. He never grew tired of me touching him or being nearby.

    He used to remarked that even from the first days it was as if I had always been there. He was naturally witty and verbally adroit. He worked in entertainment and ALWAYS had something pithy to share.

    But mostly, it was just good chemistry and a mutual desire to go with the flow.


    Thank you this is exactly what I needed
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    Oct 26, 2015 10:59 PM GMT
    JonSpringon saidSo... There was this guy who had been a pretty regular fuck-buddy for over a year... We were always vocal and verbal during sx... But one night in the middle of a good slamming he blurts out "Oh my god i love you"..

    I could tell that it shocked him to say it, and he got embarrassed, but I took it in stride... Didn't let it interrupt the sex, and we both finished happily.

    After, as we're cleaning up, i said "So.... "

    He instantly got embarrassed again, hiding his face in shame, apologizing, making a REALLY big deal of it...

    I took his face in my hands, he looked like he was about to cry, i said to him "relax... I love you too..." And kissed him.

    Little over a year later, we got engaged.icon_biggrin.gif


    That is the cutest thing I have heard in ages, but the last time I said anything like that to someone, actually it was one of the bar tenders on Fire Island and I looked at him after we went to give each other a kiss on the cheek as he was working behind the bar and as I leaned across, our cheeks met and we just hovered there for a while with our eyes closed, it was like we had a really nice connection, the sex was pretty awesome but it takes more than that, anyway I said after we removed our heads from one another that I thought we had a really nice connection and that was it, he mentally moved away from me and became cold and distant after that, that is the only time a guy has made me cry, been cautious ever since about opening up to anyone so good for you.
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    Oct 27, 2015 12:56 AM GMT
    I said thank you.
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    Oct 27, 2015 3:05 AM GMT
    Mesmer saidSo you're saying it was because of the sex that you fell in love with him?


    No, i'm not saying that at all...

    So many other reasons that made us great together, along with the sex, is why we fell in love.
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    Oct 27, 2015 3:08 AM GMT
    JonSpringon saidSo... There was this guy who had been a pretty regular fuck-buddy for over a year... We were always vocal and verbal during sx... But one night in the middle of a good slamming he blurts out "Oh my god i love you"..

    I could tell that it shocked him to say it, and he got embarrassed, but I took it in stride... Didn't let it interrupt the sex, and we both finished happily.

    After, as we're cleaning up, i said "So.... "

    He instantly got embarrassed again, hiding his face in shame, apologizing, making a REALLY big deal of it...

    I took his face in my hands, he looked like he was about to cry, i said to him "relax... I love you too..." And kissed him.

    Little over a year later, we got engaged.icon_biggrin.gif


    That's a really sweet story icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 27, 2015 3:17 AM GMT
    JonSpringon said
    Mesmer saidSo you're saying it was because of the sex that you fell in love with him?


    No, i'm not saying that at all...

    So many other reasons that made us great together, along with the sex, is why we fell in love.


    John please elaborate lol. I'm trying to dig deeper here if you're not getting the hint lol icon_redface.gificon_smile.gif
  • Apparition

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    Oct 27, 2015 4:48 AM GMT
    every day. i text him that to let him know I got to work safely. he does the same
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    Oct 27, 2015 4:56 AM GMT
    Awww, so many heartwarming stories here. icon_redface.gif
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    Oct 27, 2015 6:19 PM GMT
    Yes, all the time. Do you think falling in love is rare? "Love makes the world go round" .
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    Oct 27, 2015 7:03 PM GMT
    Yes my previous boyfriend. The current guy I'm dating now. We recently decide to be bfs and he told me he loves me very much. I feel the same about him too.
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    Alpha13 saidYes, all the time. Do you think falling in love is rare?


    yes, I do believe it is. Because if it wasn't then we wouldn't be asking ourselves why we are alone all the time, right? There are men in their 30's 40's that haven't even experienced what real love is like. icon_neutral.gif
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    Oct 28, 2015 2:29 AM GMT
    I got the love comment in both the romantic and platonic form.

    romantically from my current boyfriend. Just said it randomly one day. I think a year has passed while we were dating.


    I had a bromance moment with my HS friend. We don't get to hang out as much now that he's pursuing his doctorate in FL but when we do it's common that he'll say something like "Love you brotha, or love you man" as he gives me a hug or handshake goodbye.

    I have other bromance moments but I don't wanna bore you with the details lol.

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    Oct 28, 2015 3:01 AM GMT
    Most egregious time: On a second date--OK, more like a second hook-up--he had brought a bottle of wine. It happened that I was taking some med--an antibiotic, I think--so I couldn't drink booze just then. So he drank the whole bottle himself, got just as blotto as you might expect, and at some point started blubbering, declared that he loved me, and then essentially he passed out. In a case like this, love makes the world go vomit.