Hot guys who only have sex with ugly guys

  • GuynWPG

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    Oct 26, 2015 11:38 AM GMT
    Why do some very attractive men only have sex with guys significantly less attractive than themselves?


    Let me put the source of my question into perspective. I frequent a bathhouse, which luckily, usually has some hot guys here and there (but like all bathhouses, has it's share of desperate, unattractive guys) and I'm no slouch in the looks department, so I have no problem hooking up when I go.

    However, there is one really good looking guy who frequents there as well and he pretty much shut me down on the onset. Now, curiously, all the men I have seen him hook up with are usually the type any decent looking guy would turn away and forever ignore. There doesn't seem to be any 'type'. They can be any race, age, body shape and size but the one thing they all have in common is that they're all ugly. At first I thought maybe he was a prostitute but then I realized he usually gets it on with these men without so much of a word being exchanged.

    Naturally, I first told myself 'Everyone has their 'type'. He just has a specific type of guy he goes after,' but that was before I realized that none of the guys have anything in common except being ugly.

    Although it seems like a paradox, is it possible for a guy to only be attracted to unattractive men? Is this even possible? Do some hot guys on here do this as well?
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    Oct 26, 2015 4:44 PM GMT
    You know the thousand and one threads on here from unattractive guys moaning about how they get turned down by hot guys? Each vowing that "after they get hot" they will turn down all those hot guys who previously rejected them?

    Maybe this is the one that isn't a hypocrite.
  • FitBlackCuddl...

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    Oct 26, 2015 5:47 PM GMT
    GuynWPG saidWhy do some very attractive men only have sex with guys significantly less attractive than themselves?


    Let me put the source of my question into perspective. I frequent a bathhouse, which luckily, usually has some hot guys here and there (but like all bathhouses, has it's share of desperate, unattractive guys) and I'm no slouch in the looks department, so I have no problem hooking up when I go.

    However, there is one really good looking guy who frequents there as well and he pretty much shut me down on the onset. Now, curiously, all the men I have seen him hook up with are usually the type any decent looking guy would turn away and forever ignore. There doesn't seem to be any 'type'. They can be any race, age, body shape and size but the one thing they all have in common is that they're all ugly. At first I thought maybe he was a prostitute but then I realized he usually gets it on with these men without so much of a word being exchanged.

    Naturally, I first told myself 'Everyone has their 'type'. He just has a specific type of guy he goes after,' but that was before I realized that none of the guys have anything in common except being ugly.

    Although it seems like a paradox, is it possible for a guy to only be attracted to unattractive men? Is this even possible? Do some hot guys on here do this as well?


    To read your comments and assessments here, can only think that human ugliness has a very wide and varied range of expression.
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    Oct 26, 2015 6:06 PM GMT
    There is a general consensus of what is hot or not, but even then, what you find ugly may be attractive to another. And yes it is possible, I've seen a hot person with an average or below average person in real life. And there are some members on here who are in relationships with guys who most would say, "Why is HE with HIM?"

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    Oct 26, 2015 7:06 PM GMT
    Some guys just wanna be the pretty one.
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    Oct 26, 2015 7:11 PM GMT
    GuynWPG saidI frequent a bathhouse

    You're going to be a pariah here on realjock for saying that.

    Maybe that guy likes the unattractive guys for selfish reasons; i.e., he's more likely to get his way and have them do whatever he wants.
  • GuynWPG

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    Oct 27, 2015 12:44 AM GMT
    Swifterchris saidwhat you find ugly may be attractive to another.


    True but I don't think it's statistically possible for every guy he finds attractive to be someone I find very unattractive.

    Lumpyoatmeal saidYou're going to be a pariah here on realjock for saying that.


    That's like I'm saying I'm famous in Nowhere Nebraska, could care less.

    Lumpyoatmeal saidMaybe that guy likes the unattractive guys for selfish reasons; i.e., he's more likely to get his way and have them do whatever he wants.


    Possibly but unlikely, he hasn't engaged in anything outside of vanilla sex from what I've observed.
  • highforthis

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    Oct 27, 2015 1:12 AM GMT
    FitBlackCuddler saidTo read your comments and assessments here, can only think that human ugliness has a very wide and varied range of expression.


    Oh please. Get off your high horse. There can be a ton of explanations for what OP is observing, both subjective and objective. There's nothing wrong with making the observation itself.
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    Oct 27, 2015 1:21 AM GMT
    There could be several complicated reasons for this:

    -He turned you down and went for "uglier" guys so you're butthurt and only see it as that.
    -He has a superiority/inferiority complex in which he feels superior over ulgier men or inferior to good looking men.
    -He was turned down by "many" good looking guys and so decided to only go for ugly guys just like how (this is an example that is very much discussed upon) and Asian/Black guy being rejected by White men and only sticking to their race as a form of rebellion or coping mechanism.
    -He's just crazy.

    Either way, what does it matter? He's attracted to them and they're attracted to him. Unless you've NEVER been rejected your whole life until now, he's just not into you.
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    Oct 27, 2015 1:51 AM GMT
    OP maybe he just thinks you're uglier then the guys he decides to hook up with. It kind of reminds me of that really bitchy queen bee high school chick that loses her boyfriend to the less popular and uglier girl in the end. I highly recommend watching those movies you might learn a few things.

    Movie recommendations:

    - The Duff
    - She's all that
    - Something Borrowed
    - Sixteen candles
  • Apparition

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    Oct 27, 2015 6:15 AM GMT
    unlocking your pictures would help us decide.
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    Oct 27, 2015 9:23 AM GMT
    Maybe ugly is his fetish?
  • FitBlackCuddl...

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    Oct 27, 2015 2:35 PM GMT
    highforthis said
    FitBlackCuddler saidTo read your comments and assessments here, can only think that human ugliness has a very wide and varied range of expression.


    Oh please. Get off your high horse. There can be a ton of explanations for what OP is observing, both subjective and objective. There's nothing wrong with making the observation itself.


    No "high horse". Dude, if your heart is full of angst, it makes itself clear. Too many "gays" take obnoxious, callous comments for granted and then wonder why there is so much anger and self-doubt in their environment.

  • GuynWPG

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    Oct 28, 2015 2:24 AM GMT
    Swifterchris saidThere could be several complicated reasons for this:

    -He turned you down and went for "uglier" guys so you're butthurt and only see it as that.
    -He has a superiority/inferiority complex in which he feels superior over ulgier men or inferior to good looking men.
    -He was turned down by "many" good looking guys and so decided to only go for ugly guys just like how (this is an example that is very much discussed upon) and Asian/Black guy being rejected by White men and only sticking to their race as a form of rebellion or coping mechanism.
    -He's just crazy.

    Either way, what does it matter? He's attracted to them and they're attracted to him. Unless you've NEVER been rejected your whole life until now, he's just not into you.


    I'm not butthurt and I do get rejected on the odd occasion. The issue isn't my ego, it's genuine bafflement. I'm putting myself in his shoes (as a person who is also good looking) and I can't understand how he can let these guys have their way with him. I walked in on him in the steam room one time and this guy, who couldn't be more opposite in terms of attractiveness, was awkwardly (from lack of experience I'm guessing) climbing on top of him. This scene had such a jarring contrast and was so alien that I actually stood paralyzed while my brain was trying to process what I was seeing.

    As for the other possible reasons.. possibly?

    Mesmer saidOP maybe he just thinks you're uglier then the guys he decides to hook up with. It kind of reminds me of that really bitchy queen bee high school chick that loses her boyfriend to the less popular and uglier girl in the end.


    You obviously just read what you wanted to read and didn't actually pay attention to my OP. I get laid all the time, and this isn't about 'romance'. Self esteem isn't the issue here.

    Mesmer saidI highly recommend watching those movies you might learn a few things.
    Movie recommendations:

    - The Duff
    - She's all that
    - Something Borrowed
    - Sixteen candles


    The fact that you would even know of a list like this indicates you are far more intimate with this 'hang up' than I could ever hope to be. Maybe you should be watching these?

    PulseFit saidMaybe ugly is his fetish?


    But if it's only a fetish then why turn away all the attractive guys? I've never seen him hook up with one attractive person.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Oct 28, 2015 3:06 AM GMT
    Some guys like doing something that will make them feel humiliated ... sort of like S&M ... I've seen some really super hot guys with guys with huge grossly extended guts ... or maybe it is like a guy who watches straight porn while letting a guy suck him off ... or they know that maybe a less attractive guy will basically do anything they want them to do ... or they like to think they are doing someone a real big faver ... or they can walk away when they are done and have no guilt feeling about not reciprocating any sort of feeling ... or they have really really big dicks and he is a flaming bottom ... and then there is that possibility that they have completely different attractions than you ... what ever the reason they are not worth your time
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    Oct 28, 2015 3:19 AM GMT
    I have known guys like this too. Although I think there can be many reasons they do it, the reason I see the most is one of control and narcissism. These guys love it when people foam at the mouth to have them and no one acts so eager as an ugly desperate guy. And from what I've seen, they will do almost anything to get a hot guy so that's where the power and control comes into play.
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    Oct 28, 2015 4:45 AM GMT
    Swifterchris said-He was turned down by "many" good looking guys and so decided to only go for ugly guys just like how (this is an example that is very much discussed upon) and Asian/Black guy being rejected by White men and only sticking to their race as a form of rebellion or coping mechanism...


    I end up mostly dating other Asians, but it's simply a matter of probability, based on me not having a racial preference, combined with the reality that most guys do.

    Hope that wasn't interpreted as rebel sex with ugly guys, but your hotlist sure explains this strange view.

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    Oct 28, 2015 5:12 AM GMT
    Well it's whatever, he obviously finds you fucking ugly as I do with your current attitude and this vapid aura you have going on. Face it, even the average guys get fucking turned down too. You're just mad he didn't want your ass and needed to create a thread for some validation.
  • GuynWPG

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    Oct 29, 2015 12:42 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidSome guys like doing something that will make them feel humiliated ... sort of like S&M ... I've seen some really super hot guys with guys with huge grossly extended guts ... or maybe it is like a guy who watches straight porn while letting a guy suck him off ... or they know that maybe a less attractive guy will basically do anything they want them to do ... or they like to think they are doing someone a real big faver ... or they can walk away when they are done and have no guilt feeling about not reciprocating any sort of feeling ... or they have really really big dicks and he is a flaming bottom ... and then there is that possibility that they have completely different attractions than you ... what ever the reason they are not worth your time


    Radd saidI have known guys like this too. Although I think there can be many reasons they do it, the reason I see the most is one of control and narcissism. These guys love it when people foam at the mouth to have them and no one acts so eager as an ugly desperate guy. And from what I've seen, they will do almost anything to get a hot guy so that's where the power and control comes into play.


    I guess I can see this being the case if it somehow makes the guys he's with physically attractive to him. For me, no amount of mental stimulation or 'fetish' is going to make a guy I find unattractive more attractive but maybe that's just me?

    Mesmer saidWell it's whatever, he obviously finds you fucking ugly as I do with your current attitude and this vapid aura you have going on. Face it, even the average guys get fucking turned down too. You're just mad he didn't want your ass and needed to create a thread for some validation.


    I don't know what your issue is but you're clearly going through some kind of difficult time right now. Hope everything works out for the best for you.
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    Oct 29, 2015 3:33 AM GMT
    GuynWPG said
    AMoonHawk saidSome guys like doing something that will make them feel humiliated ... sort of like S&M ... I've seen some really super hot guys with guys with huge grossly extended guts ... or maybe it is like a guy who watches straight porn while letting a guy suck him off ... or they know that maybe a less attractive guy will basically do anything they want them to do ... or they like to think they are doing someone a real big faver ... or they can walk away when they are done and have no guilt feeling about not reciprocating any sort of feeling ... or they have really really big dicks and he is a flaming bottom ... and then there is that possibility that they have completely different attractions than you ... what ever the reason they are not worth your time


    Radd saidI have known guys like this too. Although I think there can be many reasons they do it, the reason I see the most is one of control and narcissism. These guys love it when people foam at the mouth to have them and no one acts so eager as an ugly desperate guy. And from what I've seen, they will do almost anything to get a hot guy so that's where the power and control comes into play.


    I guess I can see this being the case if it somehow makes the guys he's with physically attractive to him. For me, no amount of mental stimulation or 'fetish' is going to make a guy I find unattractive more attractive but maybe that's just me?

    Mesmer saidWell it's whatever, he obviously finds you fucking ugly as I do with your current attitude and this vapid aura you have going on. Face it, even the average guys get fucking turned down too. You're just mad he didn't want your ass and needed to create a thread for some validation.


    I don't know what your issue is but you're clearly going through some kind of difficult time right now. Hope everything works out for the best for you.




    Are you new here? This is what Mesmer does. I can't be sure but I think he's got estrogen poisoning.
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    Oct 29, 2015 5:18 AM GMT
    Estrogen poisoning! I love it. Mesmer is a bitchy little cunt now isn't he.
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    Oct 29, 2015 5:38 AM GMT
    Aqueerius said
    Swifterchris said-He was turned down by "many" good looking guys and so decided to only go for ugly guys just like how (this is an example that is very much discussed upon) and Asian/Black guy being rejected by White men and only sticking to their race as a form of rebellion or coping mechanism...


    I end up mostly dating other Asians, but it's simply a matter of probability, based on me not having a racial preference, combined with the reality that most guys do.

    Hope that wasn't interpreted as rebel sex with ugly guys, but your hotlist sure explains this strange view.



    No I totally understand. People just like what they like you know? As for my hot list. It wouldn't be the best interpretation of whom I find hot or not. I click both "buddy" and "hot" to anybody who I chat with or is friendly to me. I don't exactly have a strong racial preference, but I do lean towards one more than the other. I also think it has to do with where and who you grew up with.

    And you're Asian? Hmm, I wouldn't mind seeing what you look like. It's hard to find many Asians who actually like me back icon_sad.gif
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    Oct 29, 2015 8:02 PM GMT
    Radd saidI have known guys like this too. Although I think there can be many reasons they do it, the reason I see the most is one of control and narcissism. These guys love it when people foam at the mouth to have them and no one acts so eager as an ugly desperate guy. And from what I've seen, they will do almost anything to get a hot guy so that's where the power and control comes into play.


    This ^^ completely. I see it all the time.

    Apparition saidunlocking your pictures would help us decide.


    He obviously isn't interested in our opinions of him of whether he is actually good looking or not because there will always be haters. Just the scenario.

    Mesmer said
    OP maybe he just thinks you're uglier then the guys he decides to hook up with. It kind of reminds me of that really bitchy queen bee high school chick that loses her boyfriend to the less popular and uglier girl in the end. I highly recommend watching those movies you might learn a few things.

    Well it's whatever, he obviously finds you fucking ugly as I do with your current attitude and this vapid aura you have going on. Face it, even the average guys get fucking turned down too. You're just mad he didn't want your ass and needed to create a thread for some validation.


    Holy crap, someone needs to back off a bit. What, been rejected one too many times yourself? Angry at the world? =/