Is it strange that I only want friendship and cuddling???

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    Oct 27, 2015 12:03 PM GMT
    Sex with a guy has never turned me on. But the idea of sleeping with a guy, falling asleep in his muscular arms, waking up next to my best friend every morning.... Chills down my spine.

    Is that abnormal?
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    Oct 28, 2015 1:06 PM GMT
    No I can't stand anal sex, and I know I'm gonna be crucified for typing that but sue me.

    I mean I'll do it sparingly, but I'm like you.

    I would rather cuddle and caress and spoon and do playful PG stuff.

    Maybe do some PG-13 kinky stuff every other day.

    On a good day perhaps on a Friday or during the weekend, some R rated mature stuff, including head or some rimming.

    But unless it's my birthday, or if it was possibly my partners birthday, or somebody got a promotion lol, I would do X rated balls to the wall anal.
  • Bunjamon

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    Oct 28, 2015 2:20 PM GMT
    Different strokes for different folks. No, it is not "abnormal." You may be asexual, though! Call it whatever you want; and if you are upfront about it, you'll meet other guys who are into the same things that you are.
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    Oct 28, 2015 3:17 PM GMT
    Austxbicep1 saidSex with a guy has never turned me on. But the idea of sleeping with a guy, falling asleep in his muscular arms, waking up next to my best friend every morning.... Chills down my spine.

    Is that abnormal?
    Nope, I do it almost every single day with at least one of my FWB's. I have two, and sometimes we all cuddle together. Most of the time we're at the BMX park or MTB trails.
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    Oct 28, 2015 7:48 PM GMT
    Your life. Your prerogative to live it however you see fit.
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    Oct 29, 2015 12:39 AM GMT
    Wow super encouraging ! Thanks guys!!! I was kinda expecting to get destroyed but I just had to ask. Cuddling and spooning is so hot! I could fall asleep and wake up holding my muscle man. Now if I just had a muscle man!!! Oh well. Hopefully a nice guy will turn up soon!

    Anyone in Austin want the job?? ;)
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    Oct 29, 2015 1:32 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    Austxbicep1 saidSex with a guy has never turned me on. But the idea of sleeping with a guy, falling asleep in his muscular arms, waking up next to my best friend every morning.... Chills down my spine.

    Is that abnormal?
    Nope, I do it almost every single day with at least one of my FWB's. I have two, and sometimes we all cuddle together. Most of the time we're at the BMX park or MTB trails.


    The gay lifestyle.
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    Oct 29, 2015 1:36 AM GMT
    Austxbicep1 saidSex with a guy has never turned me on. But the idea of sleeping with a guy, falling asleep in his muscular arms, waking up next to my best friend every morning.... Chills down my spine.

    Is that abnormal?


    Awe how romantic!!

    What do you do with the morning wood?
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    Oct 29, 2015 1:38 AM GMT
    Abnormal?

    You just described nearly every woman on Planet Earth.
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    Oct 29, 2015 3:44 AM GMT
    2Bnaked said
    Austxbicep1 saidSex with a guy has never turned me on. But the idea of sleeping with a guy, falling asleep in his muscular arms, waking up next to my best friend every morning.... Chills down my spine.

    Is that abnormal?


    Awe how romantic!!

    What do you do with the morning wood?


    Lol. That's what I have a hand for I guess. ;)
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    Oct 29, 2015 5:58 AM GMT
    That describes me too. You're not alone.
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    Oct 29, 2015 9:28 AM GMT
    Sounds like you're asexual. There are other guys out there who are too, good luck finding them!
  • mystery905

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    Oct 29, 2015 11:12 AM GMT
    Sex is easy to get. Friendship and cuddling not as much.
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    Oct 29, 2015 12:52 PM GMT
    David666k said
    paulflexes said
    Austxbicep1 saidSex with a guy has never turned me on. But the idea of sleeping with a guy, falling asleep in his muscular arms, waking up next to my best friend every morning.... Chills down my spine.

    Is that abnormal?
    Nope, I do it almost every single day with at least one of my FWB's. I have two, and sometimes we all cuddle together. Most of the time we're at the BMX park or MTB trails.


    The gay lifestyle.
    No, my lifestyle.
  • monstapex

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    Oct 29, 2015 2:53 PM GMT
    You don't have to have anal sex .I never did .I got into Frottage and found it to be a satisfying way of relieving sexual tension.
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    Oct 29, 2015 7:47 PM GMT
    To the OP: I totally get what you're saying. I'm much the same way. And actually, these feelings are not uncommon.
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    Oct 29, 2015 7:55 PM GMT
    Yeah, I agree with everyone else, you're a freak.
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    Oct 30, 2015 4:08 AM GMT
    LittleDudeWithMuscles saidTo the OP: I totally get what you're saying. I'm much the same way. And actually, these feelings are not uncommon.



    Hey thanks man!!
  • JMeezy808

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    Oct 30, 2015 4:13 AM GMT
    Austxbicep1 said
    2Bnaked said
    Austxbicep1 saidSex with a guy has never turned me on. But the idea of sleeping with a guy, falling asleep in his muscular arms, waking up next to my best friend every morning.... Chills down my spine.

    Is that abnormal?


    Awe how romantic!!

    What do you do with the morning wood?


    Lol. That's what I have a hand for I guess. ;)


    +1
  • Marylandbob

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    Oct 30, 2015 4:51 PM GMT
    No, nothing wrong with that, I can go for that myself! I enjoy the company of a compatible male, and there is much to do other than "anal sex"! Cuddling, massage, jerking off, dildo/enema play, wrestling and other strength challenges, or simply enjoying each other's companionship, at a restaurant, bar, movie, amusement park, beach, camping, cookout, bike ride, or mountain trip!
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    Oct 30, 2015 8:07 PM GMT
    Boaxy saidNo I can't stand anal sex, and I know I'm gonna be crucified for typing that.


    Why would you think that? There is a world of difference between saying you don't enjoy having anal sex (i.e. personal preference) and saying anal sex is a bad thing (i.e. bigotry).
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    Oct 31, 2015 11:05 AM GMT
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    Boaxy saidNo I can't stand anal sex, and I know I'm gonna be crucified for typing that.


    Why would you think that? There is a world of difference between saying you don't enjoy having anal sex (i.e. personal preference) and saying anal sex is a bad thing (i.e. bigotry).

    This! Similar to how so many gay men would put down the type of guys they don't attractive.
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    Nov 01, 2015 6:39 AM GMT
    Cuddling is so much more rewarding than sex , when it comes to emotional feeling .
    I definitely would be able to give up sex for cuddling .
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    Nov 01, 2015 6:33 PM GMT
    Ex_Mil8 said
    Boaxy saidNo I can't stand anal sex, and I know I'm gonna be crucified for typing that.


    Why would you think that? There is a world of difference between saying you don't enjoy having anal sex (i.e. personal preference) and saying anal sex is a bad thing (i.e. bigotry).


    Crucifixion sounds much more interesting than cuddling icon_twisted.gif