White men does it hurt

  • Matthew56

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    Oct 27, 2015 11:38 PM GMT
    If a non white/black man you like or takes you're fancy rejects you do you feel bad or hurt or do you not care giving the racial hierarchy in the gay world with white men being at the top and that you know you can have pretty much the majority of black/non white men
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    Oct 27, 2015 11:59 PM GMT
    Silly question Matthew - No one likes to be rejected by anyone.
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    Oct 28, 2015 12:03 AM GMT
    I thought this was a thread about white bottoms in porn, with pics included.
  • roadbikeRob

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    Oct 28, 2015 12:07 AM GMT
    Matthew the terrible troll is at it again with his nonsensical race baiting threads. icon_neutral.gif
  • Matthew56

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    Oct 28, 2015 12:25 AM GMT
    HikerSkier saidSilly question Matthew - No one likes to be rejected by anyone.


    True but when you are white and believe you are top of te racial hierarchy which means all non white men should be running to you. When that does not happen then it would hurt even more
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    Oct 28, 2015 1:16 PM GMT
    Hunty, what the fuck are you talking about?

    Racial hierarchy? We are all gay. Whites makeup the majority of the gay community, in addition it is is not accepted for people non white to be gay or be open about it. Most of us to some degree are going to be hooked into the gay white culture whether we like it or not. Deal with it for now.

    You making these types of threads make it worse.

    I can understand if this were the straight dating community, then you could have a weak argument with this.

    You must have me on ignore because I called your ass out on this once before.
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    Oct 28, 2015 2:34 PM GMT
    Matthew56 said
    True but when you are white and believe you are top of te racial hierarchy which means all non white men should be running to you. When that does not happen then it would hurt even more


    News flash - not all gay white guys believe in this 'racial hierachy' you are clearly obsessed with. So it would not make any difference to me what someone's race is, if I was into them and they were not interested I would give as much shits equally for whatever race they were (i.e. none).

    I don't measure my self worth by the number of rejections I get from others, I don't value myself in terms of other people's opinions. Try it sometime, you'll find it a lot happier than constantly obsessing over race.
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    Oct 28, 2015 3:01 PM GMT
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    What is this "rejection" you speak of? Isn't that something they put in turbo engines?
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    Oct 28, 2015 3:12 PM GMT
    Hey cool, a brand new thread about a brand new topic.
  • Matthew56

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    Oct 28, 2015 6:23 PM GMT
    PulseFit said
    Matthew56 said
    True but when you are white and believe you are top of te racial hierarchy which means all non white men should be running to you. When that does not happen then it would hurt even more


    News flash - not all gay white guys believe in this 'racial hierachy' you are clearly obsessed with. So it would not make any difference to me what someone's race is, if I was into them and they were not interested I would give as much shits equally for whatever race they were (i.e. none).

    I don't measure my self worth by the number of rejections I get from others, I don't value myself in terms of other people's opinions. Try it sometime, you'll find it a lot happier than constantly obsessing over race.


    That is because you are one of the good ones but trust me a lot of white men do
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    Oct 28, 2015 7:30 PM GMT
    Not in the least, no matter what his color.
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    Oct 28, 2015 7:43 PM GMT
    Guys love feeding this troll because he's an embarrassment to black men. He's probably not even black and using fake pics
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    Oct 29, 2015 3:48 AM GMT
    Aqueerius saidGuys love feeding this troll because he's an embarrassment to black men. He's probably not even black and using fake pics



    I suggested the same thing several months ago, but after checking him out online, he's apparently legit. He's using the same photos and the same name on other websites as well. And he's asking the same race related questions. Plus he recently added a new pic and none of his pics can be found elsewhere, except for the sites I'm referring to. So, he's most likely real.
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    Oct 30, 2015 11:13 AM GMT
    It makes me sad when anyone puts races into a hierarchy. I've only seriously dated 2 white guys in my life. The rest have been ethnic of some sort. I'm not making generalizations but the 2 white guys were more selfish in many ways than the other guys. I wouldn't be against dating a white guy again at all. But I honestly have just a few reservations. #baggage
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    Oct 30, 2015 12:49 PM GMT
    huhwhat saidIt makes me sad when anyone puts races into a hierarchy. I've only seriously dated 2 white guys in my life. The rest have been ethnic of some sort. I'm not making generalizations but the 2 white guys were more selfish in many ways than the other guys. I wouldn't be against dating a white guy again at all. But I honestly have just a few reservations. #baggage


    But narcissism is fun. icon_confused.gif
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    Oct 30, 2015 2:00 PM GMT
    I wish people who start racist threads could at least write them in some sort of understandable english.
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    Oct 30, 2015 2:35 PM GMT
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    huhwhat said... I've only seriously dated 2 white guys in my life. The rest have been ethnic of some sort....

    [url]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race_(human_categorization)[/url]
    Race, as a social construct, is a group of people who share similar and distinct physical characteristics

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ethnic_group
    An ethnic group or ethnicity is a socially defined category of people who identify with each other based on common ancestral, social, cultural or national experience


    To the topic:

    This one's actually kind of interesting, not for the same-ol' same ol' it is, but for what it also represents.

    And there's a theory of communication which backs the complaint. Hold please; it's been so long since I've studied this shit, lemme see if I can google the correct terminology...

    Never mind. Way to complex to peruse quickly and I'm far from my studies on it, but it's a definite thing and it actually makes me wonder if the OP isn't trolling for a class assignment.

    I think that if we are honest with ourselves then we will find that we react differently based upon what level of respect (whether that's a place of honor or of fear or even of disgust--i.e. I have respect for the consequences of swimming in a cesspool).

    I somewhat recall a study done on something as mundane as backing out of a parking spot. If I remember it right, it showed that if the person waiting for that spot is a female, then the person still in that spot will take longer to vacate it. But if the person waiting is male, then the person currently in the spot vacates it sooner, which shows a level of respect and how that makes us feel.

    So it would make sense that the less you respect someone, the less rejection would matter from that person. And certainly if you fear that no one respects you, then you'll think your rejection worth less.

    Now, it seems a bit perverted to get your power from your capacity to reject. It doesn't seem a valid source of self esteem simply because how self sustaining could that possibly be? Not at all, right? So while mulling the thoughts can be self enlightening, the applications can be quite twisty, they can further fuck you up.

    If you've got perversions about you, it's one thing to explore that so that you understand it. But another to indulge it, especially if they are hurtful to others but also where harmful to yourself. I'd think that using rejection as a measure of self worth in either direction (you rejecting or being rejected) falls into that category.