The Gay Labels- do you actually label yourself as Bear,Cub. Jock, Twink whatever

  • Matthew56

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    Nov 01, 2015 8:33 AM GMT
    So do you socially or on dating sites/apps actually call yourself jock , Twink , bear etc etc and what do you think about these labels ??
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    Nov 01, 2015 8:37 AM GMT
    I am nothing
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    Nov 01, 2015 9:53 PM GMT
    it's not my style. I'm just me, not a jock or a bear or whatevs.

    I've had people call me an otter before and I had to ask what they were talking about.
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    Nov 01, 2015 11:12 PM GMT
    Mattress

    It's the only label protected by law.

    I've been asked to leave from better places than this. But I've never been removed.

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    Nov 02, 2015 3:14 AM GMT
    I joke around about being a twunk because when me and 2 of my friends who are also gay were taking a trip and in the car the one started reading off gay labels and their definitions and when he read twunk the description bascially summed me up lol so now its more or less a joke that im a twunk but if someone asks me what im like I don't tell them im a twunk I just describe myself.
  • giodude

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    Nov 02, 2015 6:16 AM GMT
    Nah. Labeling people detracts from your appreciation of them as a whole, especially if you reduce them to a sexual fetish.

    I think it;s most hypocritical of gay people to label each other, when we've been suffering under the burden of labels throughout modern history. Why buy into the means of your own despair?
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    Nov 02, 2015 6:36 AM GMT
    I don't know if I even have a label. I'm a bit muscular to be a twink, but not so much that I would be labeled a jock. But if someone had to box me in they would probably put me in twink because I look young.
  • FitBlackCuddl...

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    Nov 02, 2015 4:05 PM GMT
    Matthew56 saidSo do you socially or on dating sites/apps actually call yourself jock , Twink , bear etc etc and what do you think about these labels ??


    No.
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    Nov 02, 2015 4:09 PM GMT
    MrAesthetic saidI joke around about being a twunk because when me and 2 of my friends who are also gay were taking a trip and in the car the one started reading off gay labels and their definitions and when he read twunk the description bascially summed me up lol so now its more or less a joke that im a twunk but if someone asks me what im like I don't tell them im a twunk I just describe myself.
    I label myself as a dwunk if I drink too much.
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    Nov 02, 2015 6:31 PM GMT
    All the bears/daddies refer to me as "Muscle Cub." LOL
  • RaulMoonPride

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    Nov 02, 2015 6:47 PM GMT
    i dont like labels, im just a gay dude that loves dudes. period
  • irishkcguy

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    Nov 02, 2015 6:54 PM GMT
    No.
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    Nov 02, 2015 7:25 PM GMT
    Im a hairy daddy, as in literally icon_lol.gif
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    Nov 02, 2015 10:22 PM GMT
    I don't even like the main label, let alone a sub label. though I find that the sub labels are more accurate then the umbrella of gay.
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    Nov 03, 2015 5:20 AM GMT
    Listen poop brain, can't you see that I am a luscious creamsicle!
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    Nov 03, 2015 5:22 AM GMT
    NO
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    Nov 03, 2015 5:22 AM GMT
    RaulMoonPride saidi dont like labels, im just a gay dude that loves dudes. period



    LOL

    You mean this.....i don't like labels, I am just a dude that loves dudes. period
  • RaulMoonPride

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    Nov 03, 2015 5:27 AM GMT
    2Bnaked said
    RaulMoonPride saidi dont like labels, im just a gay dude that loves dudes. period



    LOL

    You mean this.....i don't like labels, I am just a dude that loves dudes. period


    touché
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    Nov 03, 2015 6:46 AM GMT
    I don't label myself but I do know the categories of guys that I'm especially attracted to.
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    Nov 30, 2015 2:29 PM GMT
    I only self identify as a bear because I am not camp or fem, and the category is broad and inclusive enough that you don't have to do anything special to qualify.
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    Nov 30, 2015 3:56 PM GMT
    Gotta love how gay men are always bitching about how people shouldn't label them and yet they have created more labels for themselves in the past 30 years than in all of history combined.
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    Nov 30, 2015 5:37 PM GMT
    No.
  • SkeletonKey

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    Dec 01, 2015 12:07 AM GMT
    I've never used it in person.But i use it on apps. I'm hairy, which some guys find a turn off. I'm a bit chubby so i chose to let guys know. If i dont they expect me to have a six pack and it ends badly for both of us.
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    Dec 03, 2015 5:25 PM GMT
    tsk tsk op, the world is crumbling wih plane crash,gun violence,natural disaster and yet u still care for your personal attractiveness and social hierarchy label. When is the last time u ever do something productive?
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    Dec 03, 2015 5:30 PM GMT
    I'm only

    geezerific

    boobalicious (within a few hours of the gym)