When the ex you dumped is hotter than your current bf

  • theonewhoknoc...

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    Nov 02, 2015 6:35 AM GMT
    I broke up with a guy almost 2 years ago, but kept in touch now and then because of all of our mutual friends. But I ran into him yesterday at a house party and can't help but think that the guy I'm seeing is quite a step down in the looks department lol. It's like I've spent so long looking for someone better that I didn't realize my standards have gradually fallen haha. I get along much better with my current guy, but still!
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    Nov 02, 2015 6:50 AM GMT
    All of my exs are beautiful in their own way but the guy I married is the most beautiful of them all.
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    Nov 02, 2015 2:11 PM GMT
    UndercoverMan saidAll of my exs are beautiful in their own way but the guy I married is the most beautiful of them all.

    This.
    Plus, if you find yourself swimming in shallow waters, chances are thats where you belong. If you have an ex who is beautiful and smart and now you are dating a small minded dolt, then it's neither the ex or the dolt, but its you finding out who you deserve.
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    Nov 02, 2015 3:46 PM GMT
    theonewhoknocks saidI get along much better with my current guy, but still!


    Looks fade. If you want a lasting, deep relationship just remember that. Perhaps the ex is better looking, but he's the ex. Concentrate on making your boyfriend the most beautiful man in the world to you.

    If you can't do that, let him go!
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    Nov 02, 2015 10:13 PM GMT
    completely shallow, stupid thread. I feel bad for your bf, he could do better than a guy who is bashing his looks online.

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    Nov 03, 2015 12:36 AM GMT
    wow, so it all boils down to just looks icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 03, 2015 1:10 AM GMT
    TO23 saidcompletely shallow, stupid thread. I feel bad for your bf, he could do better than a guy who is bashing his looks online.

    + 10000
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    Nov 03, 2015 1:55 AM GMT
    Gee, I'd be so hurt if I had a bf, and he said the same thing as you. I'd have no self respect if I stayed in that relationship. I know for sure that I'm not the best looking guy out there, but I'd hope that someone might see all the good things in me; like I'd do for him.
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    Nov 03, 2015 2:49 AM GMT
    I find that anyone I date, if they have any physical quirks, those quirks become more and more attractive to me the longer I know them. Like a guy with a bit of larger nose, or eyes with a unique shape. It's these things that make them individual and intriguing. If everyone looked like a Ken doll we'd all be bored.

    I think if you can look at a man you've been with for a while and you still don't think he's the hottest guy in the room, move on. Clearly your emotional attraction to him isn't that strong.
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    Nov 03, 2015 3:39 AM GMT
    huhwhat saidGee, I'd be so hurt if I had a bf, and he said the same thing as you. I'd have no self respect if I stayed in that relationship. I know for sure that I'm not the best looking guy out there, but I'd hope that someone might see all the good things in me; like I'd do for him.


    Oh cut it out. I'd seduce the hell out of you if i was a few years older lol.
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    Nov 03, 2015 4:05 AM GMT
    TO23 saidcompletely shallow, stupid thread. I feel bad for your bf, he could do better than a guy who is bashing his looks online.

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    Nov 03, 2015 8:47 AM GMT
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    huhwhat saidGee, I'd be so hurt if I had a bf, and he said the same thing as you. I'd have no self respect if I stayed in that relationship. I know for sure that I'm not the best looking guy out there, but I'd hope that someone might see all the good things in me; like I'd do for him.


    Oh cut it out. I'd seduce the hell out of you if i was a few years older lol.


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    Nov 03, 2015 7:47 PM GMT
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    UndercoverMan saidAll of my exs are beautiful in their own way but the guy I married is the most beautiful of them all.

    This.
    Plus, if you find yourself swimming in shallow waters, chances are thats where you belong. If you have an ex who is beautiful and smart and now you are dating a small minded dolt, then it's neither the ex or the dolt, but its you finding out who you deserve.


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    Nov 03, 2015 8:56 PM GMT
    theonewhoknocks saidI broke up with a guy almost 2 years ago, but kept in touch now and then because of all of our mutual friends. But I ran into him yesterday at a house party and can't help but think that the guy I'm seeing is quite a step down in the looks department lol. It's like I've spent so long looking for someone better that I didn't realize my standards have gradually fallen haha. I get along much better with my current guy, but still!


    What's your BF's e-mail address? I'd like to forward your comment.
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    Nov 03, 2015 11:48 PM GMT
    TO23 saidcompletely shallow, stupid thread. I feel bad for your bf, he could do better than a guy who is bashing his looks online.



    This exactly.
  • spirou

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    Nov 04, 2015 1:46 AM GMT
    man , you guy are really swallow about yourself .

    it true there are good looking men and less hotty guy out there .

    what are you guy so upset on that reality ?


    maybe the guy is less hot . but if he take care of him better then the hotty . at some point in a relationship it come down to the important thing isn't it ?
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    Nov 16, 2015 11:55 PM GMT
    Mustn't have been a bad breakup then. My ex was absolutely beautiful when we were together, but once I learned what kind of person he could really be, I literally lost all attraction to him. For me, someone's personality can completely change the way I'm attracted to them.