What do you think of this term "slut shaming"? Have you overheard or experienced it in your own life?

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    Nov 06, 2015 4:42 PM GMT
    There are a number of opinion based articles around which speak of "slut shaming", though having rarely heard it or of it in my many years of being an out gay man, it's now being blamed for preventing Gay Men from accessing HIV testing and for POZ guys not relieving adequate treatment: your thought

    Examples of these media commentaries are
    The advocate
    http://www.advocate.com/commentary/2015/11/03/gay-men-should-be-ashamed-slut-shaming

    Ryan Connell in thought catalogue
    http://thoughtcatalog.com/ryan-oconnell/2013/02/15-things-gay-guys-need-to-stop-doing/

    Wikipedia
    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slut-shaming
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    Nov 06, 2015 6:16 PM GMT
    Sydneyrugbyjock73 saidThere are a number of opinion based articles around which speak of "slut shaming", though having rarely heard it or of it in my many years of being an out gay man, it's now being blamed for preventing Gay Men from accessing HIV testing and for POZ guys not relieving adequate treatment: your thought

    Examples of these media commentaries are
    The advocate
    http://www.advocate.com/commentary/2015/11/03/gay-men-should-be-ashamed-slut-shaming

    Ryan Connell in thought catalogue
    http://thoughtcatalog.com/ryan-oconnell/2013/02/15-things-gay-guys-need-to-stop-doing/

    Wikipedia
    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slut-shaming


    Are you new to realjock? Slut shaming happens on here all the time. Conversely there is a lot of wait shaming as well. Shaming someone who doesn't like or do hookups. Basically a bunch of assholes assuming that if others don't act like them they are deficient in some way.

    I don't think slut shaming causes gay men to not get tested or reveal that they are HIV positive. Its disease shaming that does. If you are looking to hookup you can't slut shame someone. However many guys shame others for having STDs even when they don't know there own status. DDF you be too, I'm clean... Ask these guys when is the last time they were tested and what they were tested for and the facade falls apart. You would think a group of people with such a high rate of STD infection wouldn't be so judgemental of those that do. Slut shaming isn't the problem.
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    Nov 06, 2015 6:28 PM GMT
    if you are a slut, it is not exactly shaming, same if you are fat, not exactly shaming either

    what do you mean by shaming ?

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    Nov 06, 2015 6:41 PM GMT
    bonaparts saidif you are a slut, it is not exactly shaming, same if you are fat, not exactly shaming either

    what do you mean by shaming ?



    shame
    verb
    (of a person, action, or situation) make (someone) feel ashamed.

    Its that difficult of a word to understand. If your intent is to cause someone to feel ashamed then yes you are shaming them. If you want a fat person to feel ashamed of how fat they are in order to foster a positive change in there behavior, you are still shaming that person.
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    Nov 06, 2015 6:49 PM GMT
    MrFuscle said
    bonaparts saidif you are a slut, it is not exactly shaming, same if you are fat, not exactly shaming either

    what do you mean by shaming ?



    shame
    verb
    (of a person, action, or situation) make (someone) feel ashamed.

    Its that difficult of a word to understand. If your intent is to cause someone to feel ashamed then yes you are shaming them. If you want a fat person to feel ashamed of how fat they are in order to foster a positive change in there behavior, you are still shaming that person.



    being fat is disgraceful, being a slut as well in a way, high chance of getting std's
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    Nov 06, 2015 9:00 PM GMT
    bonaparts said
    MrFuscle said
    bonaparts saidif you are a slut, it is not exactly shaming, same if you are fat, not exactly shaming either

    what do you mean by shaming ?



    shame
    verb
    (of a person, action, or situation) make (someone) feel ashamed.

    Its that difficult of a word to understand. If your intent is to cause someone to feel ashamed then yes you are shaming them. If you want a fat person to feel ashamed of how fat they are in order to foster a positive change in there behavior, you are still shaming that person.



    being fat is disgraceful, being a slut as well in a way, high chance of getting std's


    So you're just a troll who can't read.
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    Nov 06, 2015 9:21 PM GMT
    It's a terrible thing to do. It's just as bad as size queen shaming.
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    Nov 06, 2015 9:57 PM GMT
    If you're a slut then you should be ashamed
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    Nov 06, 2015 11:24 PM GMT
    ryyyder saidIf you're a slut then you should be ashamed


    Why? For enjoying sex?
  • JackNNJ

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    Nov 06, 2015 11:25 PM GMT
    It's more really fun nonsense from white leftist/feminist/ social justice types.
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    Nov 06, 2015 11:27 PM GMT
    MrFuscle said
    bonaparts said
    MrFuscle said
    bonaparts saidif you are a slut, it is not exactly shaming, same if you are fat, not exactly shaming either

    what do you mean by shaming ?



    shame
    verb
    (of a person, action, or situation) make (someone) feel ashamed.

    Its that difficult of a word to understand. If your intent is to cause someone to feel ashamed then yes you are shaming them. If you want a fat person to feel ashamed of how fat they are in order to foster a positive change in there behavior, you are still shaming that person.



    being fat is disgraceful, being a slut as well in a way, high chance of getting std's


    So you're just a troll who can't read.


    so just because I have a different opinion as you I am a troll? and you are the one whining about shaming, hypocrite
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    Nov 06, 2015 11:46 PM GMT
    Shut up
    Kent State is a good school
  • JackNNJ

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    Nov 07, 2015 12:13 AM GMT
    Nero takes a fun look at the issue. He also helps these people to reveal themselves as absolute dumbfucks. Nero, you're our Hero!

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    Nov 07, 2015 12:14 AM GMT
    Romero23 said
    ryyyder saidIf you're a slut then you should be ashamed


    Why? For enjoying sex?


    + 1

    The term should be whore shaming. If you charge, you should be ashamed.
  • JackNNJ

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    Nov 07, 2015 12:46 AM GMT
    Best sign:

    WE ARE SOULS, NOT HOLES.
  • JackNNJ

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    Nov 07, 2015 12:47 AM GMT
    mystery905 said
    Romero23 said
    ryyyder saidIf you're a slut then you should be ashamed


    Why? For enjoying sex?


    + 1

    The term should be whore shaming. If you charge, you should be ashamed.


    Depends how good your service is. There must be a Fodor's for Whores somewhere.
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    Nov 07, 2015 12:53 AM GMT
    You can't be made to feel shame unless you already feel some guilt deep down.
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    Nov 07, 2015 12:56 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidLumpy, should you feel the need to hijack this thread and post your impressive collection of "monster meat" I don't think anyone will hold it against ya.

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  • GogoBoy

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    Nov 07, 2015 1:47 AM GMT
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    Just means you look great icon_eek.gif
  • mystery905

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    Nov 07, 2015 2:41 AM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal said
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidLumpy, should you feel the need to hijack this thread and post your impressive collection of "monster meat" I don't think anyone will hold it against ya.

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    ummmmmm......what was the topic of this thread again?
  • mystery905

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    Nov 07, 2015 3:16 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    mystery905 said

    ummmmmm......what was the topic of this thread again?



    Plump 'n juicy bone!


    that's not a smashed burrito!
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    Nov 07, 2015 3:47 AM GMT
    I had sex in a farm "silo", surrounded by 100's of other men who were doing or looking for the same thing. This may sound familiar to some other, older, RJ members from the midwest icon_lol.gif

    Too slutty or just vacation? icon_wink.gif


    Of course it looks like a penis icon_cool.gif


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  • JackNNJ

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    Nov 07, 2015 4:18 AM GMT
    ELNathB saidI had sex in a farm "silo", surrounded by 100's of other men who were doing or looking for the same thing. This may sound familiar to some other, older, RJ members from the midwest icon_lol.gif

    Too slutty or just vacation? icon_wink.gif








    I call that "Thursday."
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    Nov 07, 2015 4:47 AM GMT
    bonaparts said
    MrFuscle said
    bonaparts said
    MrFuscle said
    bonaparts saidif you are a slut, it is not exactly shaming, same if you are fat, not exactly shaming either

    what do you mean by shaming ?



    shame
    verb
    (of a person, action, or situation) make (someone) feel ashamed.

    Its that difficult of a word to understand. If your intent is to cause someone to feel ashamed then yes you are shaming them. If you want a fat person to feel ashamed of how fat they are in order to foster a positive change in there behavior, you are still shaming that person.



    being fat is disgraceful, being a slut as well in a way, high chance of getting std's


    So you're just a troll who can't read.


    so just because I have a different opinion as you I am a troll? and you are the one whining about shaming, hypocrite


    No you are trolling because you asked a questioned and then ignored it when it didn't suit your agenda. I wasn't whining about shaming. This is why you are q troll. I simply explained what shaming was and gave you an example.

    Silly troll
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    Nov 07, 2015 4:49 AM GMT
    UndercoverMan said You can't be made to feel shame unless you already feel some guilt deep down.


    So what's the point? If a father shames his son for being gay would you find the words you typed appropriate?