Bottom ecstasy: suck or fucked?

  • DancerJock

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    Nov 11, 2015 3:50 AM GMT
    I love it when I can use my cock and body to take a guy way out into wild ecstasy. Do you think a bottom guy gets the same level of pleasure from sucking as from getting fucked? Maybe it all depends on what he likes, and what turns him on.
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    Nov 11, 2015 3:53 AM GMT
    Not exactly stimulated, but sucking is just so hot that I stroke myself as I suck. Love how wet and slimy the dick gets as I throat it and just looking at from my angle makes it even hotter with how hard and veiny the shaft is, pulsing...But yeah getting fucked feels amazing.
  • RaulMoonPride

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    Nov 11, 2015 3:56 AM GMT
    As a bottom, I can say that if my partner in sex is not stimulating my body, he doesn't know how to do sex. I prefer sucking than fucking, both are good, but sucking makes me feel that what I do pleasures him.
  • mystery905

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    Nov 11, 2015 6:01 AM GMT
    I am not into anal, but love sucking and getting sucked.
  • buddycat

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    Nov 11, 2015 11:06 AM GMT
    My virgin eyes. Shouldn't this be in the adult section?
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    Nov 11, 2015 11:56 AM GMT
    I never really know why people equate sucking dick with bottoming. To me they are entirely separate. I LOVE sucking dick, I would probably say I enjoy it as much or even more than getting my dick sucked, but when it comes to anal sex I'm far more of a top (I would say 90/10 top/bottom).

    I just don't consider sucking and bottoming to be in any way equatable - one is your mouth, one is your ass, it's not the same!

    In reference to the question though, I don't know if a guy who mainly identifies as a bottom gets as much pleasure from sucking, I don't see how they can on a physical level because there is no prostate in the throat to be stimulated!!
  • DancerJock

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    Nov 12, 2015 1:34 PM GMT
    Oops,I thought I posted this in the adult section. Anyone know how to move it over to there?
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    Nov 12, 2015 7:06 PM GMT
    PulseFit saidI never really know why people equate sucking dick with bottoming. To me they are entirely separate. I LOVE sucking dick, I would probably say I enjoy it as much or even more than getting my dick sucked, but when it comes to anal sex I'm far more of a top (I would say 90/10 top/bottom).

    I just don't consider sucking and bottoming to be in any way equatable - one is your mouth, one is your ass, it's not the same!

    In reference to the question though, I don't know if a guy who mainly identifies as a bottom gets as much pleasure from sucking, I don't see how they can on a physical level because there is no prostate in the throat to be stimulated!!


    You don't understand because you're ignorant where these terms come from. Top and bottom are borrowed from the BDSM community and mean the dominant one and submissive one respectively.
  • DancerJock

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    Nov 13, 2015 2:41 PM GMT
    So an online bud told me that he's really into sucking cock because he loves being able to make the other dude feel amazing. So I guess it's not just a question of what feels good physically, also of what fits into someone's fantasy about what's hot
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    Nov 13, 2015 3:34 PM GMT
    Wyndahoi said
    You don't understand because you're ignorant where these terms come from. Top and bottom are borrowed from the BDSM community and mean the dominant one and submissive one respectively.


    I'm not ignorant, and when applied to a different scenario the words don't automatically mean the same thing. Besides which, are you saying that you can't be a dominant bottom, or a submissive top? Because that's just not true.
  • rnch

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    Nov 13, 2015 4:43 PM GMT
    PulseFit said
    Wyndahoi said
    ......I'm not ignorant, and when applied to a different scenario the words don't automatically mean the same thing. Besides which, are you saying that you can't be a dominant bottom, or a submissive top? Because that's just not true.





    I quite agree.



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  • Nov 16, 2015 7:07 AM GMT
    I want to be sucking a hard cock while another one is pounding my hot little ass and one in each hand while someone else is videoing it
  • DancerJock

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    Nov 16, 2015 10:55 AM GMT
    Sounds like a great party!
  • takashi

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    Nov 17, 2015 12:41 AM GMT
    I am a bottom, I enjoy sucking but it is foreplay to get my man hard so he will penetrate my bottom.
    Sucking does not give me any pleasure other than seeing my man enjoy what I am doing with my mouth. I know I am doing something good if he is getting hard.
    I get most of my pleasure when my man penetrates my body through my anus. When his cock slowly pushes into my body, the feeling is amazing. I love anal sex, just the fact that another man is inside my body always amazes me.
    But I love everything about sex, not just sucking and fucking. Kissing, love kissing! Love to get hugged until all the air exits from me. I love wrapping my arms and legs around my man, while his cock and tongue are deep in me. Enjoying each other's body completely, doing it slowly not in a rush. I am an older man so my partners are mostly older men, we got to go slow.
    Sex is a great way to show your love to your partner.
  • DancerJock

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    Nov 18, 2015 1:08 AM GMT
    Thanks for your share
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    Jan 13, 2016 10:41 AM GMT
    Ok , so I'm verse , I like to suck and I like to be fucked ,,,, all though I like a guy to suck me and let me fuck him ...... But when it comes to the anal pounding I love a guy who can fuck me in atleast four positions before shooting his load , it drives me into a frenzy of begging , I love a good hard cock up my ass.

    I'll admit , biggest I've had was a 10 1/2 cock.
  • rnch

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    Jan 13, 2016 3:57 PM GMT
    takashi saidI am a bottom, I enjoy sucking but it is foreplay to get my man hard so he will penetrate my bottom.
    Sucking does not give me any pleasure other than seeing my man enjoy what I am doing with my mouth. I know I am doing something good if he is getting hard.
    I get most of my pleasure when my man penetrates my body through my anus. When his cock slowly pushes into my body, the feeling is amazing. I love anal sex, just the fact that another man is inside my body always amazes me.
    But I love everything about sex, not just sucking and fucking. Kissing, love kissing! Love to get hugged until all the air exits from me. I love wrapping my arms and legs around my man, while his cock and tongue are deep in me. Enjoying each other's body completely, doing it slowly not in a rush. I am an older man so my partners are mostly older men, we got to go slow.
    Sex is a great way to show your love to your partner.






    Agree totally.





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    Jan 13, 2016 4:39 PM GMT
    I am not into anal at all ( giving and receiving )
    Blowjobs doesn't do too much either ( giving and receiving )
    Hand jobs (giving and receiving are hot and pleasurable .
    But the best are frottage and cuddling , you can reach orgasm in both , if you really are into the moment .
  • DancerJock

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    Feb 15, 2016 7:34 PM GMT
    That's true, I once blew a load right in my jeans from some hot cuddling and frot
  • SOONY

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    Feb 15, 2016 10:43 PM GMT
    takashi saidI am a bottom, I enjoy sucking but it is foreplay to get my man hard so he will penetrate my bottom.
    Sucking does not give me any pleasure other than seeing my man enjoy what I am doing with my mouth. I know I am doing something good if he is getting hard.
    I get most of my pleasure when my man penetrates my body through my anus. When his cock slowly pushes into my body, the feeling is amazing. I love anal sex, just the fact that another man is inside my body always amazes me.
    But I love everything about sex, not just sucking and fucking. Kissing, love kissing! Love to get hugged until all the air exits from me. I love wrapping my arms and legs around my man, while his cock and tongue are deep in me. Enjoying each other's body completely, doing it slowly not in a rush. I am an older man so my partners are mostly older men, we got to go slow.
    Sex is a great way to show your love to your partner.

    I respect elder...even you.....but I thought you r moaning as btch when you have it
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    Feb 16, 2016 3:14 PM GMT
    PulseFit said
    Wyndahoi said
    You don't understand because you're ignorant where these terms come from. Top and bottom are borrowed from the BDSM community and mean the dominant one and submissive one respectively.


    I'm not ignorant, and when applied to a different scenario the words don't automatically mean the same thing. Besides which, are you saying that you can't be a dominant bottom, or a submissive top? Because that's just not true.


    I agree and personally enjoy similar sexual preferences. I find bottoms who don't want any pleasure from their penis off putting sometimes as it is like removing the man on man side of things for me as a top. Its not like I never have a bottom suck me then get fucked but I like 69ers and surprisingly few guys can do it, even older guys who have been around the block a few times. The pleasure from sucking a guy is mainly psychological of course but still important. I prefer bottoms who can still get a hard on, or its almost like doing a chick to be honest
  • helloandgoodb...

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    Feb 16, 2016 3:24 PM GMT
    I enjoy sucking but nothing compared to getting fucked by a stilled top. Nothing.
  • DancerJock

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    Feb 19, 2016 5:37 AM GMT
    [quote] but I like 69ers [/quote]

    yeah, hot! Probably the only way I really get into giving oral is 69, or while I'm fucking him at the same time
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    Feb 29, 2016 4:20 PM GMT
    DancerJock saidThat's true, I once blew a load right in my jeans from some hot cuddling and frot


    Exactly my point , frottage and cuddling is way too much bypassed by men , foreplay is one of the most arousing and pleasurable thing you can do with another man .

    I also have shot a load while still wearing my clothes , it is so amazing to be able to orgasm without having someone or yourself touching your cock ..mmmmm....