Will I ever find a guy at my age?!!!!

  • Nakedman1969

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    Nov 12, 2015 4:08 AM GMT
    Why is it every time I put an ad on a dating site all I get are men that are te to twenty years older then me? The way its going I will never find anyone in my age range. I know my age range is not what it supposed to be but oh well.
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    Nov 12, 2015 4:20 AM GMT
    I feel you. All them old folk flooding my inbox as well. It's so annoying
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    Nov 12, 2015 4:23 AM GMT
    Nakedman1969 saidWhy is it every time I put an ad on a dating site all I get are men that are te to twenty years older then me? The way its going I will never find anyone in my age range. I know my age range is not what it supposed to be but oh well.


    Your profile says "I looking for a white boyfriend 18-30 only!!!!"

    And you're ~45.

    So what is the 18-25 year old you are looking for supposed to say about the 20+ year older guy that's hitting on him?
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    Nov 12, 2015 8:06 AM GMT
    JackBoneTX said
    Nakedman1969 saidWhy is it every time I put an ad on a dating site all I get are men that are te to twenty years older then me? The way its going I will never find anyone in my age range. I know my age range is not what it supposed to be but oh well.


    Your profile says "I looking for a white boyfriend 18-30 only!!!!"

    And you're ~45.

    So what is the 18-25 year old you are looking for supposed to say about the 20+ year older guy that's hitting on him?

    I know right? Pot meet kettle. icon_lol.gif
  • TheAlchemixt

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    Nov 12, 2015 3:33 PM GMT
    xrichx said
    JackBoneTX said
    Nakedman1969 saidWhy is it every time I put an ad on a dating site all I get are men that are te to twenty years older then me? The way its going I will never find anyone in my age range. I know my age range is not what it supposed to be but oh well.


    Your profile says "I looking for a white boyfriend 18-30 only!!!!"

    And you're ~45.

    So what is the 18-25 year old you are looking for supposed to say about the 20+ year older guy that's hitting on him?

    I know right? Pot meet kettle. icon_lol.gif


    Lol. You're also RealJock verified. I thought this was a troll account. Good luck finding some guy on whatever planet you're living on.
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    Nov 12, 2015 4:07 PM GMT
    I'm sure you can find a guy at your age, but when you specify they must be white and between 18 and 30 you're massively limiting your chances immediately.

    If you want to hold out for that then don't complain if it's taking a while. Readjust your expectations and requirements if you want a better chance, and in the meantime work on being the best you that you can be.
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    Nov 12, 2015 4:15 PM GMT
    Nakedman1969 saidWhy is it every time I put an ad on a dating site all I get are men that are te to twenty years older then me? The way its going I will never find anyone in my age range. I know my age range is not what it supposed to be but oh well.

    I found lots of guys at your exact age. And the guys were my own age, not 20 years younger.

    Perhaps your problem is locale. Though I gotta tell yah, an adult RJ pic of you sitting on the pot with a big belly is not gonna help. A little weight reduction could be a major plus.
  • Destinharbor

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    Nov 12, 2015 5:57 PM GMT
    Your profile shows a fat guy in a room fit only for a child wanting only to fuck a 18-30 year old guy. Who'd want that? Clean up your act.
  • highforthis

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    Nov 12, 2015 6:18 PM GMT
    "Your own age" is not 18-30 lolol
  • wild_sky360

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    Nov 12, 2015 6:33 PM GMT
    I'm surprised by the responses here. Younger older relationships are not as exotic as everyone is assuming but mutual attraction is the starting point. Hopefully it involves more than just the age spread, but to each his own.
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    Nov 12, 2015 9:32 PM GMT
    ^Surprised?! Really? You must be new here.
  • Nakedman1969

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    Nov 12, 2015 11:10 PM GMT
    I'm trying to lose weight, but I can't change ugly!!!!
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    Nov 13, 2015 12:09 AM GMT
    Nakedman1969 saidI'm trying to lose weight, but I can't change ugly!!!!

    Don't "try" to lose weight - Do it!.
    And from the looks of your verification picture, you ought to lose quite a bit, as well as doing exercise to firm up your gut.
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    Nov 13, 2015 12:30 AM GMT
    With all due respect, put yourself in the shoes of a 18-30 year old and ask yourself if you would go out with someone who is 45 years old and very much out of shape. In all fairness, why would you expect a 18-30 year old to go out with you, but you feel justified in turning down someone who is 60+ years old. For the record there are 50+ year old guys on this site that are damn HOT! You should be so lucky to date them.

    Sorry if I offended you or hurt your feelings in any way.
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    Nov 13, 2015 1:25 AM GMT
    I'm older than you. Knock off the horseshit and hit the gym.
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    Nov 13, 2015 3:45 AM GMT
    Your negativity about yourself doesn't help either. Take some time to improve yourself mentally and physically and you may find yourself with more dating options.
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    Nov 13, 2015 4:51 AM GMT
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  • hauyneraille

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    Nov 13, 2015 6:45 AM GMT
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    Nov 13, 2015 9:55 PM GMT
    Jesus christ
  • Nakedman1969

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    Nov 13, 2015 10:10 PM GMT
    Talk about all the bad comments!!!!
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    Nov 14, 2015 7:28 PM GMT
    FLgator saidYour negativity about yourself doesn't help either. Take some time to improve yourself mentally and physically and you may find yourself with more dating options.


    absolutely agree with this - if you are negative about life/yourself then you may as well have 'loser' plastered on your head??

    Also, if you're going to post a picture, you should 'sell' yourself - your's doesn't and actually says you're a bit of a lazy slob - unmade bed, badly fitting clothes

    that you are 'fat' may be an issue to guys on a site called 'jock' but there are many gay guys who are into larger/chubby/fat guys - but they are not going to go for you when you present yourself so badly!!
  • FRE0

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    Nov 14, 2015 8:32 PM GMT
    Nakedman1969 saidWhy is it every time I put an ad on a dating site all I get are men that are te to twenty years older then me? The way its going I will never find anyone in my age range. I know my age range is not what it supposed to be but oh well.


    Your experience is very different from mine. I find that the vast majority of guys are younger than I.
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    Nov 14, 2015 8:35 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    Nakedman1969 saidWhy is it every time I put an ad on a dating site all I get are men that are te to twenty years older then me? The way its going I will never find anyone in my age range. I know my age range is not what it supposed to be but oh well.

    I found lots of guys at your exact age. And the guys were my own age, not 20 years younger.

    Perhaps your problem is locale. Though I gotta tell yah, an adult RJ pic of you sitting on the pot with a big belly is not gonna help. A little weight reduction could be a major plus.


    Exactly right. Being and remaining overweight my not be a totally insuperable obstacle, but that is a ghastly picture.
  • FRE0

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    Nov 14, 2015 8:41 PM GMT
    Nakedman1969 saidI'm trying to lose weight, but I can't change ugly!!!!


    Yes you can!

    You could take a nice picture of yourself well-groomed and well-dressed wearing a suit and tie and have a good background in the picture. Perhaps you could be standing in front of a fireplace or have a tastefully furnished room in the background.

    Get a good camera and mount it on a tripod. Connect a TV set to the camera and use it as the view finder to stage everything nicely. Make sure that the lighting is good; experiment with it. Take several pictures using slightly different poses. Select only the best pictures.

    You could make yourself look much more attractive. It is unclear why you posted such a ghastly picture and expected to get good responses.
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