Which ever make YOU happy! Mine comes and goes when I feel like it and it's are big turn off to me when somebody HAS to have be one way or the other. If you like somebody, you like who they are and what they do with their body is not up to you. I certainly wouldn't drop someone or give them grief if they were hairy when we met and decided they wanted to shave.....they are still the same person. Just my rant on the whole hairy vs. smooth vs. clipped thing.