How to bottom safely... No, for real...

  • Ookami

    Posts: 76

    Nov 14, 2015 5:32 AM GMT
    There's a guy who is sort of hot and wants to have sex with me and be my friend/More than friend for 1 year to see what happens... I have never been into this but I'm pretty old already :l No one believes that I'm virgin anyway... So why keep it up?

    I love guys specially guys that look like guys, so this one is lonely and probably desperate too, and is going to let me lick him all over, yeah well nott hat I'm doing that... But you get my point. I admire males icon_biggrin.gif

    But yeah he wants me to bottom.
    How do I do that safely?
    I can't take antibiotics (long story) and I didn't ask him about all his past relationships but I suppose since he was straight and has about 2 years single... He probably is... Clean? Does a condom is enough?
    Everyone says that I should wash me before and after...
    If I'm using a condom... Why after?
    How do I do both... I'm new to this and very afraid.

    I don't want to end up hurt and I don't want to lose this opportunity, he did mentioned some stuff (kinks) I didn't like... But... As I say... Is the only male that seems to be serious about acctually wanting me.

    I did some research online, but most of the time ends up on buying half a drug store, some home made stuff like sticking a bottle up my ass and squeezing it... Or on paying 2.99 for a book that will teach me to bottom in a way even a top would love it...
    So please advice?
  • AMoonHawk

    Posts: 11406

    Nov 14, 2015 7:13 AM GMT
    douche, use a condom, use plenty of lube and take it slow
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    Nov 14, 2015 8:42 AM GMT
    you either need to douche or basically starve yourself for a few hrs before sex to be sure everything has ran through your system. Make him wear a condom. Put some lube on his dick, and put some on ur ass, then let him stick it in. Go slow at first till you feel like you can take it then let him have at it.
  • Ookami

    Posts: 76

    Nov 19, 2015 6:26 AM GMT
    Thanks for the answers guys! But guess what? We have a discussion over spirituality and stuff... And all the magic break.
    I feel horrible... As I suppose I should have just quickly get his cock in my mouth and keep me busy that way, instead of talking nonsense about philosophical stuff. I didn't mean to sound offensive thought.