Cut the shit people, we all know saying you're discreet
is just a way to pussyfoot around saying you're in the closet. If that's not what it means then how come straight people arent calling their liaisons "discreet
" too hmm ?
These closeted men out here realize that being closeted isnt seen as attractive by most gays now. The world is changing and gays are more proud and open and the idea of dating/fucking someone closeted just isn't something many gay guys are willing to entertain anymore. Being a closeted gay man hung up on hypermasculanity is starting to have negative connotations, much in the same way being bisexual does ( lies, hiding their lover, marrying women while fucking men on the side, treating gays like mistresses, insecurities about their sexuality, lack of commitment, etcetra....). Closeted gay men are realizing that this is how they are seen by many out gay men, and that more and more gay men are not willing to fuck closet cases anymore.
So what did the closet gays do ? They decided to come up with a new
word, one that sounds less bad and has less negative connotations than closeted, discreet
has become the new word. They know they're less likely to get laid by saying they're closeted, so now they're saying they're "discreet
I'll add, if you're in the closet and in an unsafe environment and it's not safe for you to be out then fine. I know everyone cant always just be "out" 24/7. However.... the problem is most of these closet dudes are doing it so they keep their straight dude/bros/buddies happy and maintain their "straight" reputation. They want to have their cake and eat it too and now saying you're "discreet
" is the way to do it !