I would rather watch porn, and then go ride motorcycles with my buddies. Just me, but I have had sex with some amazing guys over the years. Might be different for younger guys. But I always ask, is this going to add or detract from what I have experienced? Another kid? Sometimes. But it gets rarer and rarer that the next guy is that amazing. But then I am a Top, so maybe for a catcher it is different. But the time, for me, is not really worth most of the guys that I meet. Sweet, smart, hot. But going somewhere on their journey that I have already been.