Sex for money?

  • anthonybs

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    Nov 24, 2015 11:43 AM GMT
    Would you have sex for money? I would, honestly, if I was desperate enough.
  • badbug

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    Nov 24, 2015 12:27 PM GMT


    The question is vague.


    Are we to assume it's someone i wouldn't have sex with for free? Why wouldn't I? Are they a republican? are they christian? are they way too into cross-fit? What kind of monster are you purposing i sell myself to?

    Why am i not having sex with this person for free like the god i don't believe in, intended?

    You confound me with your philosophical questions sir,
    to whore or not to whore? that is the question...



    If it were anyone i wasn't sexually attracted to, i wouldn't be able to get an erection without drugs. So would i let some gross guy plow me for cash? Geez, probably not. It would have to be serious serious money as i am not overly materialistic. The only reason i really want money, is to have access to the best quality healthcare and health related products and to attract (and keep) people to sleep with. If i didn't need money for those two things, i really would be fine scraping by with a lower class life style.


    If i "needed" money, like badly....i would be far more likely to rob some affluent looking stranger.



  • anthonybs

    Posts: 98

    Nov 24, 2015 12:52 PM GMT
    badbug said

    The question is vague.


    Are we to assume it's someone i wouldn't have sex with for free? Why wouldn't I? Are they a republican? are they christian? are they way too into cross-fit? What kind of monster are you purposing i sell myself to?

    Why am i not having sex with this person for free like the god i don't believe in, intended?

    You confound me with your philosophical questions sir,
    to whore or not to whore? that is the question...



    If it were anyone i wasn't sexually attracted to, i wouldn't be able to get an erection without drugs. So would i let some gross guy plow me for cash? Geez, probably not. It would have to be serious serious money as i am not overly materialistic. The only reason i really want money, is to have access to the best quality healthcare and health related products and to attract (and keep) people to sleep with. If i didn't need money for those two things, i really would be fine scraping by with a lower class life style.


    If i "needed" money, like badly....i would be far more likely to rob some affluent looking stranger.





    You've got a point there. I would honestly do it with anyone if I were in desperate need of money. I see nothing bad about it, though. Enjoying yourself and getting money as a bonus. It really depends on your outlook. Some might say it's bitchy, other'd say it's prostitution. But in my opinion, it's fine as long as you don't do it very often.
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    Nov 24, 2015 1:40 PM GMT
    You might be surprised to know that some play-for-pay men are not in it for the money; some do it for fun, power, control, kink, etc. I know several very accomplished, financially stable submissive guys who will not have intimate relations with anyone UNLESS they're required to pay.
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    Nov 24, 2015 3:24 PM GMT
    icon_lol.gif The only guy who ever solicited me immediately turned beet red, as soon as he had blurted out the question, then ran away. I doubt it will happen again.

    Anyway, just try working in consulting and government contracting for a while, or I'm sure, many other remunerative occupations. You'll realize that it's every bit as degrading, but has the disadvantage that it's not over in an hour. My job title is pretty much "academic prostitute."
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    Nov 24, 2015 4:28 PM GMT
    I usually end up giving it away for free…. but if someone wants to slide me a few hun for it, i would take it!!… LOL
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    Nov 24, 2015 4:31 PM GMT
    It's not out of the realm of possibilities, except I'm too old. I'll have to do the paying. Lol
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Nov 24, 2015 5:00 PM GMT
    Like most other things we undertake in life, sex, too, invariably incurs expenditure.

    You do not have to be paying the dude to do it with you. But you are traveling to a gay venue, paying cover, drinks, return trip home, gas, tickets, whatever.

    Not to mention, drinks, dinners, home-cooked meals (if you get this far, etc.icon_surprised.gif )

    So, one way or the other, the expenditure will enter the equation.

    A few dudes out there will be happy to exchange their sexual favors in exchange for cash. And many more dudes find this abhorrent, morally wrong, unethical, generally despicable, etc..

    Naturally, everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

    I am always reluctant to pass any moral judgment on other folks. When you come to think about it, if a dude chooses to cater for satisfying one of the basic human needs, say, hunger; and he turns into a chef, or a burger flipper, and toils his life away at a minimum salary (or not), so that we have a place to grab some food at, why would it be wrong for other dude to cater for our satisfying our other primal drives against a pay?

    Nobody forces anyone to eat at a restaurant. You can cook at home, too. Nobody says that I have to have sex with the dude who charges for his services. But I see no logical reason for sex workers to be treated in any different fashion than all the other workers?

    On a more practical level of daily gay life, a dude who has a much higher daily fresh meat market value than the dude who is after him, may or may not want some kind of compensation for selling himself below the market. This does not have to be a cash payment. But it usually is something that will incur expense to the guy who went above his league.

    It is just the way the things are...

    SC

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    Nov 24, 2015 6:07 PM GMT
    Been there; done that; bought shitloads of t-shirts with the money.
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    Nov 24, 2015 9:15 PM GMT
    I would do it just for fun to be honest, make a guy pay for something I would do for free anyway If I like him, why not
  • Webster666

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    Nov 24, 2015 9:23 PM GMT
    No. Money doesn't get me sexually excited.
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    Jan 04, 2016 11:07 PM GMT
    Me: Would you fuck me for a million dollars?
    You:Yes
    Me:Would you fuck me for a dollar?
    You:A dollar?What do you take me for?
    Me:We have established what you are,now we are negotiating price!!
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    Jan 04, 2016 11:08 PM GMT
    I have been married so I am used to paying for sex!!!icon_razz.gif
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    Jan 06, 2016 2:25 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidBeen there; done that; bought shitloads of t-shirts with the money.


    What about the corny dogs? Did you forget about those?

    Hugs, Paul! icon_biggrin.gif

    (BTW, I'm in FLL through next week.)