Showering at the gym.

  • gr8teen

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    Nov 25, 2015 10:16 AM GMT
    So my pervious post was about going to the gym alone. This is about seeing guys naked and such. Ever since I was little in middle school. I never felt comfortable seeing guys naked. Guess cause I was scared being judged or they'd call me gay, fag, etc. I know that going to the gym I'll see sexy body and nude guys with hot cocks. I'm scared they'll say something to me if they catch me starring. I never showered at the gym. But might be fun hehe.

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    Nov 25, 2015 3:17 PM GMT
    I don't really think that the guys in the locker room care if you look at their cocks, just don't be one of those creepy guys who brazenly sit there for hours waiting for guys to undress. Personally I'm a bit numb to the sight of penises, having been an athlete basically all my life.
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    Nov 25, 2015 4:43 PM GMT
    Just don't stare, if you're not comfortable seeing nudity just look away. Not difficult.

    In my experience it's really rare to see hot guys wandering around swinging their dicks anyway, I've seen a few nice sights but generally I'm focused on getting changed and so are they so unless you're blatantly staring you don't actually see much.
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    Nov 25, 2015 5:13 PM GMT
    Seeing naked hot guys at the gym is an eye candy. So don't make it a main course.
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    Nov 25, 2015 5:17 PM GMT
    Sorry you feel a bit uncomfortable with nudity. Our society makes too big a deal about it at too closely equates nudity with sexuality. Many other cultures have a much healthier attitude about it, as proven by nude beaches in Europe and communal baths in Japan. I think as Americans we may be a repressive about nudity.

    I must confess that I enjoy seeing other men as nature intended; I think the naughtiness of getting a peek at straight dudes otherwise unseen areas is a big part of it. . It does give me fodder for fantasy later. That said, I do admit that I have been a bit apprehensive about being given away by my glance lingering too long …. ;-)

    The interesting thing is the amount of homoerotic play you see in locker rooms and gyms, such as guys snatching towels off of someone leaving them naked or snapping each other on the backside with a towel. This makes me wonder if many straight guys actually have bi-tendencies.

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  • IgnatiusReill...

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    Nov 25, 2015 11:29 PM GMT
    Locker rooms are for changing into gym clothes, showering afterwards, and getting dressed to carry on with the day. There is little to no privacy, but there is an expectation of respect. I do not stare at others, it's rude, and I expect the same consideration to be shown to me. Be respectful of others and you should not have any difficulties with the men at your gym.
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    Nov 26, 2015 12:23 AM GMT
    Whatever you do, just don't be a towel dancer.

    http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=towel+dancing
  • gr8teen

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    Nov 26, 2015 12:32 AM GMT
    The reason I ask is because I'd like to see guys naked. It'd be got for someone to just grab me and shower with you in the gym. Or just grab me to suck them off. lol. But doubt that'll ever happen. Haha. I'm not ashamed of nudity. I love being nude when I go to sleep and such. But just seeing people change I'm very nervous and scared!
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    Nov 26, 2015 12:42 AM GMT
    What you're looking for is The Baths.

    Have a good time. Be safe. Get it out of your system before you go back to the gym.
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    Nov 26, 2015 1:21 AM GMT
    gr8teen saidThe reason I ask is because I'd like to see guys naked. It'd be got for someone to just grab me and shower with you in the gym. Or just grab me to suck them off. lol. But doubt that'll ever happen. Haha. I'm not ashamed of nudity. I love being nude when I go to sleep and such. But just seeing people change I'm very nervous and scared!



    If you were say 58 instead of 28, everyone would be bashing you and calling you a perverted old man. Interesting double standard.
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    Nov 26, 2015 1:25 AM GMT
    gr8teen saidThe reason I ask is because I'd like to see guys naked. It'd be got for someone to just grab me and shower with you in the gym. Or just grab me to suck them off. lol. But doubt that'll ever happen. Haha. I'm not ashamed of nudity. I love being nude when I go to sleep and such. But just seeing people change I'm very nervous and scared!


    These are fantasies best kept to yourself. Your intent, as I understand from an earlier post, is to work out at the gym to increase strength and become fit. That should be your focus; not cruising in the locker room or grabbing another guy's genitals. Maturity - exercising prudent judgment. Keep this in mind next time you visit the gym.
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    Nov 26, 2015 3:36 AM GMT
    Don't be scared, enjoy it, the male body is hot to look at. I get turned on seeing what brands and type of undies others guys sport! And of course what their package looks likeicon_lol.gif
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    Nov 28, 2015 2:24 PM GMT
    gr8teen saidSo my pervious post was about going to the gym alone. This is about seeing guys naked and such. Ever since I was little in middle school. I never felt comfortable seeing guys naked. Guess cause I was scared being judged or they'd call me gay, fag, etc. I know that going to the gym I'll see sexy body and nude guys with hot cocks. I'm scared they'll say something to me if they catch me starring. I never showered at the gym. But might be fun hehe.

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    Nov 28, 2015 4:14 PM GMT
    I've gone through various stages in my life regarding male social nudity. Under age 10 in the 1950s I didn't even think about it, swam naked in our family's home pool and those of my school friends, during boys' swim at the YMCA (mandatory), skinny-dipped at boys summer camp and in our local river.

    Then puberty came and I got very shy. Gym gang showers in high school (grades 9-12) were very difficult. Problem was I'd get a stiffie just thinking about my naked male companions, and that meant you were a queer back then, not good.

    The Army was a challenge, too. But I learned to go into almost a trance in the gang showers, and see nothing around me, think of nothing. I'd also think of playing tranquil Mozart piano pieces to distract my mind and relax myself.

    Over time things got easier. But what finally solved it totally was going to gay bathhouses, believe it or not. Not that I'm recommending that for you.

    But it seems being able to be totally uninhibited with other guys in the shower and locker room, getting as openly stiff as I liked, touching and even having sex, made straight showers anti-climatic. (Not sure if that's a kind of pun) I got such a fill of eye candy and more in bathhouses that straight showers and locker rooms meant nothing to me. Perhaps a kind of overload therapy, I dunno.

    But I think what you're experiencing is not abnormal for a gay man. You just need to condition yourself to be comfortable, by the means that work best for you. And not let this interfere with your beneficial gym experience.
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    Nov 29, 2015 1:45 PM GMT
    Just go straight home then and shower there.

    Gym showers are scary and lots of guys are snitches and wrongly accuse you of cruising if you peek just for a few seconds they ban you from the gym or worse.

    Or do like I do and buy a weight set and dance or do hip hop aerobics in the safety of your own home.

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    Nov 29, 2015 3:23 PM GMT
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    gr8teen saidThe reason I ask is because I'd like to see guys naked. It'd be got for someone to just grab me and shower with you in the gym. Or just grab me to suck them off. lol. But doubt that'll ever happen. Haha. I'm not ashamed of nudity. I love being nude when I go to sleep and such. But just seeing people change I'm very nervous and scared!



    If you were say 58 instead of 28, everyone would be bashing you and calling you a perverted old man. Interesting double standard.

    There is no double standard here. A 58 years old should be called a pervert. The thing is you do many stupid things when you are young, but you are supposed to learn from them. This is not double standard, but the fact about life. As an adult man, better behavior is expected from you in comparison to what you'd expect from a kid. All these stupid comparisons or analogy that you come up with just proves that you still have a lot to catch up with people from your own age group.
  • Destinharbor

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    Nov 29, 2015 3:40 PM GMT
    Two things: Do serious work in the gym. If you do, you'll have a right to be in the locker room. The gym was almost empty yesterday when I went and a guy I'd never seen before was working out. Black dude wearing a super-tight pink, V-neck, micro shorts and a do-rag. Uber gay. But he was very fit to strong, was focused on his workout, and doing the work. The outfit made me smile but I respected him. In the locker room, do what you need to do to clean up and get out. You can enjoy being there but no one wants to be perved on. You'll be kicked out permanently and should be.
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    Nov 29, 2015 11:02 PM GMT
    gr8teen saidSo my pervious post was about going to the gym alone. This is about seeing guys naked and such. Ever since I was little in middle school. I never felt comfortable seeing guys naked. Guess cause I was scared being judged or they'd call me gay, fag, etc. I know that going to the gym I'll see sexy body and nude guys with hot cocks. I'm scared they'll say something to me if they catch me starring. I never showered at the gym. But might be fun hehe.

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    Nov 30, 2015 12:20 AM GMT
    southbeach1500 said
    Full disclosure: Art_Deco claims he wasn't in the closet for approximately the first 50 years of his life, nor was he gay during that time. Mr. Deco was also married to a woman with whom he sired children. Mr. Deco claims he was "confused" about his sexuality. Do take the above into account before accepting any "words of wisdom" from Mr. Deco.


    Full disclosure: southbeach1500 is Art_Deco's stalker.
  • badbug

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    Nov 30, 2015 7:03 AM GMT

    pervious post? i missed that. lol