Making a sex tape with your boyfriend?

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    Nov 29, 2015 3:09 PM GMT
    What're your thoughts on making a se tape with your boyfriend? Ever done it? Thoughts? Good or bad idea?
  • MarvinMartian

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    Nov 29, 2015 3:37 PM GMT
    When you break up it will go on the internet.
    And be there forever.
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    Nov 29, 2015 3:39 PM GMT
    MarvinMartian saidWhen you break up it will go on the internet.
    And be there forever.


    I was thinking that could be a possible outcome.
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    Nov 29, 2015 3:43 PM GMT
    No, it's a great Idea, it will bond you together and you will have something to remember, not all bf's put their stuff on the internet, but the whole process is unforgettable and puts spark especially if you let the bf keep the video, you should definitely go for it, recommend, lot's of fun
  • MarvinMartian

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    Nov 29, 2015 3:46 PM GMT
    bonaparts saidNo, it's a great Idea, it will bond you together and you will have something to remember, not all bf's put their stuff on the internet, but the whole process is unforgettable and puts spark especially if you let the bf keep the video, you should definitely go for it, recommend, lot's of fun

    Stop trolling the lad. He's only just come out and doesn't know you're joking.
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    Nov 29, 2015 3:46 PM GMT
    Some years back, a couple of ex co-workers made a sex tape. They decided to get it on in one of the unused training rooms at work.
    Unfortunately, they didn't notice the hidden security camera.
    Sad.
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    Nov 29, 2015 3:48 PM GMT
    MarvinMartian said
    bonaparts saidNo, it's a great Idea, it will bond you together and you will have something to remember, not all bf's put their stuff on the internet, but the whole process is unforgettable and puts spark especially if you let the bf keep the video, you should definitely go for it, recommend, lot's of fun

    Stop trolling the lad. He's only just come out and doesn't know you're joking.


    I am not joking, it's a nice thing to make a video together, especially when you are young, best time
  • Destinharbor

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    Nov 29, 2015 3:50 PM GMT
    Geo46 said
    MarvinMartian saidWhen you break up it will go on the internet.
    And be there forever.


    I was thinking that could be a possible outcome.

    Maybe but who cares. We've made one. Doesn't do much for me but my partner loves it. Don't live your life in fear. If you and your guy want to make a vid, have some fun. I did reserve the right to edit/erase it if I looked bad.... I looked ok... (Watch your posture- being on all fours lets your stomach hang down like a fat pig unless you're ripped. So watch some porn and plan it properly.)
  • Destinharbor

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    Nov 29, 2015 3:52 PM GMT
    bon_pan saidSome years back, a couple of ex co-workers made a sex tape. They decided to get it on in one of the unused training rooms at work.
    Unfortunately, they didn't notice the hidden security camera.
    Sad.

    Lol-- yeah, had this happen at the bank-- dummies didn't know the cameras over the teller line recorded 24/7. I had to let them go. Felt bad about it but we did all laugh when I called them in for the bad news.
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    Nov 29, 2015 4:12 PM GMT
    Unless you can trust your bf with your life, I wouldn't do it. Just a point of departure here: I'm always very careful when I go to someone's home to have "fun". I've found that some creepy guys have a habit of surreptitiously videotaping their sexual encounters. Look around, be observant, specifically ask your host if he/she is videotaping your encounter, and clearly state that you have not consented to be videotaped.
  • SkeletonKey

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    Nov 29, 2015 5:12 PM GMT
    Never done it. It can be good or bad. I've heard people who do it and feel it was a bad idea afterwards, others put it online and make money off it. Personally I would have a hard time trusting anyone with such damaging content.
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    Nov 29, 2015 10:02 PM GMT
    Geo46 saidWhat're your thoughts on making a se tape with your boyfriend? Ever done it? Thoughts? Good or bad idea?

    You don't have to break up. It will find its way to the internet.

    - Your boyfriend shows/shares it with his friends to brag or whatever. And then his friends upload to Tumblr, Gaytube, PornHub, etc.

    - You drop your laptop at the Genius Bar. The ass behind the counter looks through your hard drive for music, movies, and porn to copy.

    - You upload it to the cloud, but didn't realize it was uploaded to a public folder.

    The list goes on and on.

    You're very young. You have a lot of potential opportunities in life/career. Don't let something stupid like a sex tape or skype video or sexting ruin those opportunities.
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    Nov 29, 2015 10:05 PM GMT
    Bad idea unless you are a minor celebrity and would like to move into the A-list crowd by "leaking" it to the media.
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    Nov 30, 2015 2:18 AM GMT
    Beyond the issues of "what happens to the video afterwards", whether or not to make a sex tape depends on the people involved. Deep down, some guys don't want to see themselves fucking. Though if you're a generally confident person, you should be fine with it. If you're not, keep in mind you only have to be confident with your partner because it's understood only the two of you view the tape.

    Start off with mirror-play if you are apprehensive about recording yourselves. This should give an idea of what you'll look like, and from a production standpoint, let you know where to set up cameras for some shots.
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    Nov 30, 2015 2:27 AM GMT
    Romantic bedroom lighting is not equal to good photographic lighting. Also, I find it difficult to fuck and direct at the same time.

    As for some of the above guys suggesting that such a tape would bring about the end of the world... Wow, I didn't realize that anybody was that bad at sex. Maybe there are lessons?
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Nov 30, 2015 2:35 AM GMT
    I live by the 'better safe than sorry' adage.

    If you trust your BF unconditionally, AND if you believe that very much depends on that vid for some reason, bite the bullet, and go for it.

    If you are doing it just because so many other dudes are doing it, and this kinda looks cool, and you'd be one of the crowd, and, yeah, you'd be following the recent fad, etc., stop dead in your tracks...

    It is also true that most people actually answer their own questions best. If you had had no doubts about the wisdom of taping it, and if your good, ole gut feeling had not rebelled against it you would have not posted the question in the first place. Rite?icon_biggrin.gif


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  • David3K

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    Nov 30, 2015 3:59 AM GMT
    bonaparts said
    MarvinMartian said
    bonaparts saidNo, it's a great Idea, it will bond you together and you will have something to remember, not all bf's put their stuff on the internet, but the whole process is unforgettable and puts spark especially if you let the bf keep the video, you should definitely go for it, recommend, lot's of fun

    Stop trolling the lad. He's only just come out and doesn't know you're joking.


    I am not joking, it's a nice thing to make a video together, especially when you are young, best time

    hahaha bonaparts trolling nature sometimes is quite funny
  • AMoonHawk

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    Nov 30, 2015 4:36 AM GMT
    As long as all the close ups are on him, sure go ahead ... you can even offer to hold the camera while he works his magic ... then you'll have a better idea of what direction this is headed
  • Apparition

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    Nov 30, 2015 5:05 AM GMT
    do i get to watch you make the video with my bf?