MrFuscle saidI think I finally realized why hot men, men who normally wouldn't say hello to me in public will come on to me on the massage table. Its all about validation. The idea that another man is rubbing different body parts all over you and not getting sexually excited can be demoralizing. It actually makes me less offended thinking about it this way. Its inappropriate but I understand that people will do odd things in search of validation. As q social species that depends on our social bonds for survival and health being validated about our value is very important.
Most people I know VERY carefully nurture their public persona image. They go to very great lengths to impress upon the people they know that they wear only very special top-price range clothes, date very, very HOTTT men only, drive very specific cars, reside within the very special 'exclusive' boundaries, or do whatever they think makes them stand out, look well, desirable, even better so, unattainable.There is much to be said about this posturing for power.
Now, eliminate the observers, the public, the social environment, the folks your client believes he must impress at all costs, and leave him naked on your massage table, behind locked doors? The guy will come on to you because in real world you are really just as nice a guy (or probably much nicer) than the guys whom he shows around for his theatrical purposes. So, no one will ever know, and he feels that the opportunity is here to flirt or push his envelope as far as he can.
Even the most skilled manipulators of the public opinion run a very high risk of falling into the traps they have so skillfully created for the others. So, yeah, a wise dude is always, always, looking for an opportunity to let his steam off