Dec 02, 2015 3:27 PM GMT
Curious for when that time comes.. Any thoughts?
UndercoverMan saidMore often than not it's the assertive one although there are no hard and fast rules.
pellaz saidthe OP will proposes first
CODY4U saidBetween two men, the marriage fantasy seems more "bottomy", so it probably would be the more passive partner pushing it. Straight guys usually propose to women so they can own them (or because they're pregnant). It's a totally different dynamic with gays, so the roles there are a bit reversed.
Geo46 saidWhat is an OP?
Geo46 saidpellaz saidthe OP will proposes firstWhat is an OP?
Art_Deco saidWho purposes in a gay relationship?
Purposes or proposes?
If it's "propose" then both my partners, late & current, proposed to me first. I suppose it's whoever wants to take the initiative.
And even in the straight world the traditional pattern of male asking female is being abandoned. Sometimes it's the other way. I don't see a need for any pattern.
Webster666 saidOP = Opening Post or Opening Poster
One of the guys drops hints, hoping the other will propose.
If that doesn't work, he accelerates to nagging.
If that doesn't work, he pouts...
DOMINUS saidWhy should it matter? Life is too short to feel each other out. Just do it when you feel like it.