What is up with me ?

  • Ezl1234

    Posts: 62

    Dec 02, 2015 8:37 PM GMT
    Dunno what is wrong with me ? What I am doing wrong ? I can't get more than a hello from guys that I like ... Just starting to get on top of me a biticon_cry.gificon_idea.gificon_rolleyes.gif
  • Ezl1234

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    Dec 02, 2015 8:44 PM GMT
    Just wondering if someone can tell me what's wrong with me or where I'm going wrong ... Would appreciate it x
  • LostSailor

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    Dec 02, 2015 8:55 PM GMT
    Only you can answer that.
    Do u swallow?
  • Destinharbor

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    Dec 02, 2015 8:58 PM GMT
    Are you talking online, grindr, here, where? In person?
  • Ezl1234

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    Dec 02, 2015 8:59 PM GMT
    On here ...
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    Dec 02, 2015 8:59 PM GMT
    Hold on while I polish off my crystal ball ...
  • Ezl1234

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    Dec 02, 2015 9:01 PM GMT
    Sure, I'll hold on.
  • Ezl1234

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    Dec 02, 2015 9:03 PM GMT
    There is a guy that I like and am talking to but he replies just now and then and I dunno if he is just playing with me or not ? I don't want to be mucked about
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    Dec 02, 2015 9:09 PM GMT
    your location +7 hours out, he is likely just finishing up the work day
  • Ezl1234

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    Dec 02, 2015 9:14 PM GMT
    Yer , good point. Guess I do forget about distance, I am pritty new to all this and don't really have anyone in my life to talk to about dating 'guys' lol. Girls aren't really much help because stuff 'their' guys like isn't what guys here like lol
  • Ezl1234

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    Dec 02, 2015 9:28 PM GMT
    Also can you tell that someone is mucking you around ?
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    Dec 02, 2015 9:56 PM GMT
    Ezl1234 saidAlso can you tell that someone is mucking you around ?

    Get your own crystal ball.
  • Ezl1234

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    Dec 02, 2015 10:11 PM GMT
    Why ? I have you for that. Like my little slave ... Wouldn't want you outta a job now would we.
  • Destinharbor

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    Dec 02, 2015 10:27 PM GMT
    Most people here don't really see this as a dating site. If ypu want to use it for that, try selecting guys that are nearby whose profile interests you and start a conversation about something in their profile that interests you. My guess is you're coming off as glib and immature.
  • Ezl1234

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    Dec 02, 2015 10:56 PM GMT
    Kk, thanx . I'll work on it
  • Ezl1234

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    Dec 04, 2015 3:20 PM GMT
    Any more advice from anyone is welcome, if it's real advice,
  • RaulMoonPride

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    Dec 04, 2015 7:47 PM GMT
    Dating sites are not dating sites anymore, try to meet real people, develop social skills and stop being desperate. Sometimes you just have to deal with your current situation.
  • Ezl1234

    Posts: 62

    Dec 04, 2015 8:07 PM GMT
    Ive get good social skils make friends real quick the problem îs there arent many gay guys where i live lol. S-o of i want to find someone then I've got to go on places like this
  • mybud

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    Dec 04, 2015 10:10 PM GMT
    Strive for social interactions less on finding a life partner. It's called being realistic.
  • Ezl1234

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    Dec 04, 2015 10:45 PM GMT
    Kk, like meeting guys and stuff, only thing is doing that you just get munch of immature horny boys who just want sex. I don't want that, that's the realistic reality of going out. What's wrong with wanting a life partner ? You don't have that in your head when you go out then your just gunna end up with one night stands...
  • Ezl1234

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    Dec 04, 2015 10:53 PM GMT
    And I'm not really gunna take life partner advice from someone who is single at 40. Don't think it would be in my best interests
  • mybud

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    Dec 05, 2015 12:30 AM GMT
    Ezl1234 saidAnd I'm not really gunna take life partner advice from someone who is single at 40. Don't think it would be in my best interests
    Stay in the world of pretend I could give a fuck..
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    Dec 05, 2015 2:44 AM GMT
    I find your photos to be a bit shit, no offence, they are all just random angle face pics and some of them your not even completely in the photo. Wouldn't really inspire much of a response when this site is filled with hot fit guys
  • Oceans_of_Flo...

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    Dec 05, 2015 5:13 AM GMT
    On here? Your picks aren't pitiful desperate selfies taken in a gym restroom mirror, you smile in your pics and they are bright. You're funny, engaging, and actually think you are among wholesome, supportive gay men.

    Stay who you are and come here to be exposed to a side of your community that is not relegated to this site and grow an immunity.

  • Ezl1234

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    Dec 05, 2015 6:13 AM GMT
    No offence taken lol ! Coolio so different pictures lol. What type, because I've got lush guys who wanted to talk because they said I was cute bla bla bla. But they were just bothered about sex lol