Dec 03, 2015 12:21 PM GMT
Lol well it's not really a secret but I feel like some people need to hear this. YOU DON'T NEED A RELATIONSHIP TO BE HAPPY. You gotta do some soul searching and find things that make you happy other than a relationship and stick to them like glue. Sure you will have your lonely moments, but if you search inside yourself hard enough you will find a way to make every other moment of your life outweigh the lonesome ones. And if you think about it, even people in relationships have lonely moments. You'll be ok I promise.
You have to love yourself too. Love yourself like you've never loved yourself before. This is hard for some people though, that's why they continue to go back to people who do them wrong time and time again. That's why I did. I've only just recently fully accepted and appreciated who I am. But I'm glad I did now vs later.
I love me. I love spending time with my friends and family. Playing video games. Being goofy on gay forums. Working toward my degree. A relationship is the last thing on my mind nowadays. More people need to adopt this way of thinking because trust me, it feels amazing.
I'm Bennett btw, I'm new here.