what makes you like a guy.

  • gymguy81

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    Feb 03, 2009 10:01 PM GMT
    hey im just wondering how evreyone knows they are atracted to a guy. like if they make you feel something besides tight shorts.


    like for me hes got to make me smile.
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    Feb 04, 2009 1:22 AM GMT
    I like a guy that treats me and others with respect is what I like in a personality. It doesn't matter if you bag groceries or are a CEO of a major corporation, we are all just people.
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    Feb 04, 2009 1:42 AM GMT
    Beyond the physical attraction, the man who attracts has to be educated and interested in continually learning. Living in the DC area with a multitude of museums and historical sites, I like a guy who can share a conversation with me and give me companionship while continuing to learn and do.
  • Delivis

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    Feb 04, 2009 2:08 AM GMT
    I am attracted to guys who can think deeply and critically. Having a great body is fantastic as well. But even if i meet someone with super model good looks they can become completel unattractive in a matter of minutes as they talk.
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    Feb 04, 2009 2:14 AM GMT
    Don't know.

    It's always a combination of many things. I don't have a shopping list for attraction.

    My partner isn't even close to ticking off anything that might be included in "petey's attractiveness shopping list", yet I love him to death.

    Here's a thing:

    For those of you who watch porn - isn't it always the "just does it for me" guy that you want to watch? Even my BF an I have amazingly different types when it comes to looking at cute guys. It's a random thing in the universe, I believe.
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    Feb 04, 2009 2:17 AM GMT
    Great subject. Reminds me of a motto of mine. "What you look like, attracts me. What you ACT like, keeps me"

    Nothing more attractive than a good guy, inside and out. A guy not afraid to express his feelings without being scared. Someone who laughs at themselves first, and the world second.

    And a great set of pecs is hot too... just sayin' icon_cool.gif
  • allatonce

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    Feb 04, 2009 2:43 AM GMT
    Someone I am completely at ease around. I think I judge based on how comfortable I feel around a guy. Doesn't hurt if he has a really hot ass too.icon_twisted.gif
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    Feb 04, 2009 2:56 AM GMT
    For me he has to be able to hold a conversation. That, and being funny are huge turn ons for me... outside of the physical that is. Although, I find that more often than not, I am attracted to personality more than physicality.
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    Feb 04, 2009 7:15 PM GMT
    For me all I require (beyond the physical attraction) is that we be able to make each other laugh.

    Mutual laughter says a lot about compatibility.
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    Feb 04, 2009 7:21 PM GMT
    Witty. I love a guy that has a smart sense of humor. And a guy that can be playfully sarcastic without being a douche about it. I love smarty pants's
  • GQjock

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    Feb 04, 2009 7:29 PM GMT
    Looks are important ..... yeah I know icon_rolleyes.gif

    but I also go for guys who are a bit cocky .... another downfall
    and with a sense of style

    Put that all together and it always spells trouble
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    Feb 04, 2009 7:31 PM GMT
    They gotta have a cute smile...with those perky cheeks! could be short tall doesn't matter...its just has to make me go awww and feel warm and gooey inside
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    Feb 04, 2009 11:11 PM GMT
    1. both have dicks so we knows whats up, and can do good by cock better then any women.
    2. both can be best friends and still be in love
    3. sports, being a guy with another guy you happen to be intimate with.


    F**k I love being a homo....
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    Feb 04, 2009 11:23 PM GMT
    theonslaught said1. both have dicks so we knows whats up, and can do good by cock better then any women.
    2. both can be best friends and still be in love
    3. sports, being a guy with another guy you happen to be intimate with.


    F**k I love being a homo....


    Dittoicon_smile.gif
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    Feb 05, 2009 1:57 AM GMT
    theonslaught said1. both have dicks so we knows whats up, and can do good by cock better then any women.
    2. both can be best friends and still be in love
    3. sports, being a guy with another guy you happen to be intimate with.


    F**k I love being a homo....


    Excellent points, all. However, I think the OP was asking what attracts you to a guy, not guys in general.
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    Feb 05, 2009 1:58 AM GMT
    charisma
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    Feb 05, 2009 2:35 AM GMT
    A guy that can make me smile and who's cocky at the same time.
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    Feb 05, 2009 2:37 AM GMT
    He display qualities that I want to have. I like to learn from the person I am with.
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    Feb 05, 2009 2:44 AM GMT
    gymguy81 saidlike for me hes got to make me smile.

    Yeah, and a lot of the stuff Caslon said. I'm sorta post-physical, being an old guy, who prefers men my own age.

    If I were a 20 or 30-something guy I'd likely be more about the physical. But now I just try to look into his heart, that trumps the physical stuff. Which works out nicely, since I have little of the physical any more to offer in return.
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    Feb 05, 2009 3:18 AM GMT
    There are a few things that will do it for me.

    1.) Real compassion for other beings.
    2.) They appear full of life, they have that glow about them
    3.) A youthful approach to life, fun loving, able to let it go.
    4.) Confidence with out cockiness
    5.) Pride in themselves and their lives without narcissism
    6.) Are able to see the world from alternative points of view, not so bound to their own views that they are unable to see anything but themselves as the product of their own thoughts and story. The ability to step outside of themselves and experience the world from other points of view.

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    Feb 05, 2009 4:39 PM GMT

    Covers my cab fares and takes me to KFC. icon_cool.gif
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    Feb 05, 2009 4:46 PM GMT
    ZiMsTeR said
    Covers my cab fares and takes me to KFC. icon_cool.gif


    any number of us here could have answered that for you zimmy.
  • Little_Spoon

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    Feb 05, 2009 5:14 PM GMT
    Good face.

    Not fat. (and I'm talking like "real fat" not "model fat". Just take care of yourself.)

    Being really fit is a huge plus, because that's just hot.

    Nice hair, or close shave.

    They have to be nice to others. I really don't like cruel people.

    I tend to fall for jerks, because I do like a confident guy. But...I don't know, I have mixed feelings about it. It's just so hot when a guy knows he's hot but is still into you.

    He needs to know what NOT to wear. Cause I've seen some gays that just go crazy with weird clothes.

    I want a Man. If I wanted to date a girl I'd date a girl.

    Basically I have to be able to fall in love with him. If I don't see that potential, or spot something that would make it too difficult later on in the relationship...well, that's gotta stop before I get myself hurt, or him.
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    Feb 06, 2009 5:59 AM GMT
    His sensitivity to roofies and chloroform.
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    Feb 06, 2009 6:06 AM GMT
    Nothing sexier than a guy:

    1. Who knows how to let loose.
    2. Who's made an accomplishment for himself in life.
    3. Who knows how to laugh at himself.
    4. Who isn't afraid to show his vulnerable side.
    5. Who knows his street smarts.
    6. Who isn't afraid to smile when the going gets tough.
    7. Who loves animals.

    I could list more. But damn it, I'm tired.