Unstable RJ Members

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    Dec 07, 2015 2:33 AM GMT
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    This site scares me at times. I've met a lot of great guys here but sometimes it seems like there are some very unstable guys lurking here. This guy messaged me asking if I'm attracted to guys like him with long hair. I politely referred him to the opening part of my profile which clearly states I don't talk to people without pics. You would think that would be the end of it, but oh no. This queen decides to spend his entire night bombarding my inbox with messages, repeated hotlist requests and photo comments. After ignoring him he changed his messages to insults via photo comments.

    Anyone else get these screwballs?
  • badbug

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    Dec 07, 2015 2:52 AM GMT

    Whew! When i read the subject of your thread, i thought you were talking about me. "i have being trying so hard to hide it" I thought to myself. icon_mad.gif


    The internet should scare you, I am on it.....no, i mean yeah for sure. There are lots of weirdos out there with even fuller freezers than mine, if you catch my drift. icon_wink.gif


    So i think the real question is, once you go missing.....(got nothing)



    Umm yeah, for sure that is a bit scary. I haven't been on very long, 2 months i think? And haven't really had too many people contacting me, though my profile is empty of pics and info.
    In past internet dealings, the only person obsessed with me i ended up dating....and they dumped me! icon_sad.gif


    So no, braggy mcbraggerson...."oh look at me i've got a stalker" great, well la dee da. We can't all have stalkers, apparently they are all stalking you...






  • mystery905

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    Dec 07, 2015 3:01 AM GMT
    Report as SPAM.
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    Dec 07, 2015 3:02 AM GMT
    mystery905 saidReport as SPAM.



    Oh I did and he's blocked now. At 28 messages I had enough. icon_confused.gif
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    Dec 07, 2015 3:03 AM GMT
    WOW… icon_eek.gif and all in Dec.. its the 6th!!! icon_eek.gificon_eek.gif
  • David3K

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    Dec 07, 2015 3:20 AM GMT
    LOL
  • highforthis

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    Dec 07, 2015 5:18 AM GMT
    Radd saidYes. I'm offended that idiots like the OP think it's cool to humiliate another member by creating a thread about them (which is against the TOS by the way.) Any decent person should be offended by it. He could have easily posted the message without the guy's face pic and screen name. The guy apparently has deleted his profile because of this. The OP expects us to feel sorry for him that he got hit on by someone he deems unattractive. It's the epitome of bullying. He should feel thankful anyone compliments him at all.


    The hypocrisy is strong in this one icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Dec 07, 2015 5:22 AM GMT
    Fatal attractions..

    I try not to stir up to much. Seems like they get pissy when they don't get what they want.
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    Dec 07, 2015 5:53 AM GMT
    Why is this an issue? I just automatically block pictureless profiles that message me, AT THE FIRST CONTACT. No fuss no muss. Goodbye.

    Which brings me to the administrators of this site. I wish they wouldn't allow faceless, blank profiles.
  • mystery905

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    Dec 07, 2015 5:54 AM GMT
    highforthis said
    Radd saidYes. I'm offended that idiots like the OP think it's cool to humiliate another member by creating a thread about them (which is against the TOS by the way.) Any decent person should be offended by it. He could have easily posted the message without the guy's face pic and screen name. The guy apparently has deleted his profile because of this. The OP expects us to feel sorry for him that he got hit on by someone he deems unattractive. It's the epitome of bullying. He should feel thankful anyone compliments him at all.


    The hypocrisy is strong in this one icon_rolleyes.gif


    ummm...he didn't post the crazy guy's picture and didn't post the actual messages, unlike you!

    And this is truly creepy....
  • mystery905

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    Dec 07, 2015 6:25 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said^ The fact remains, Scruffy started a thread with the intent to disparage another member and his name is clearly visible. This is in direct violation of the website's TOS. But, of course, the owner of this site won't care.

    Not to mention, it's like tattle-tailing and is a bit unseemly for a grown man to be doing. It's like spreading gossip.


    Ummmm....I couldn't find the terms of service, but even if it were there, what does it say? Disparage another member? There are countless threads with people disparaging each other, so why pick on Radd? He is doing a public service showing someone with dangerous stalking tendencies.

  • TroyAthlete

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    Dec 07, 2015 6:35 AM GMT
    Never a more ironic post posted on RealJock.
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    Dec 07, 2015 7:21 AM GMT
    highforthis said
    Radd saidYes. I'm offended that idiots like the OP think it's cool to humiliate another member by creating a thread about them (which is against the TOS by the way.) Any decent person should be offended by it. He could have easily posted the message without the guy's face pic and screen name. The guy apparently has deleted his profile because of this. The OP expects us to feel sorry for him that he got hit on by someone he deems unattractive. It's the epitome of bullying. He should feel thankful anyone compliments him at all.


    The hypocrisy is strong in this one icon_rolleyes.gif



    No hypocrisy at all. You're just pissed because you got called out for creating a thread about a poor guy who simply flirted with you. You posted the guy's face pic and berated him simply for coming on to you. This guy sent me 28 emails in a row and actually harassed me. And regardless, I never posted his face pic, nor did I post any of his many messages to me. This guy should not be a member of this site if he's going to stalk people like this. Very different from your thread where the guy simply asked to eat your pussy.
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    Dec 07, 2015 9:19 AM GMT
    I've come to realise that there is actually quite a large amount of guys on here with mild to severe mental health problems. I'm not sure why it attracts them so strongly.
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    Dec 07, 2015 1:44 PM GMT
    Radd saidUnstable RJ Members
    That's a redundant statement.
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    Dec 07, 2015 1:51 PM GMT
    PulseFit saidI've come to realise that there is actually quite a large amount of guys on here with mild to severe mental health problems. I'm not sure why it attracts them so strongly.
    When a person is raised in an oppressive environment, that person is very likely to become mentally unstable.

    Just recently I had to "unfriend" [IRL] a person I've been friends with for a couple years because of his unstable mindset. About a month ago I found out why he's always so negative about things...he told me his parents had sent him to catholic conversion therapy when he was younger. I did everything I could to help him overcome it, but his negative outlook on life was more than I could handle, and it was starting to bring me down with him. As much as I feel sorry for the way his family treats him, I can't have that kind of negativity in my life and still remain happy. So, I cut ties and moved on. The sad part is all his other friends did too (we're all mutual friends).
  • JuneauMike

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    Dec 07, 2015 2:42 PM GMT
    I always block the straight, right-wing assholes. Why the hell do they want to come here of all places and mouth off? I don't post on Fox.

    There are no civil rights enjoyed by the gay and lesbian community, none, not one, that did not come without help from progressives and liberals. Every right we in the gay community enjoy came with help from our progressive allies. And we achieved these rights despite the best efforts of right-wing assholes to stop us at every turn.
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    Dec 07, 2015 3:27 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidAs much as I feel sorry for the way his family treats him, I can't have that kind of negativity in my life and still remain happy. So, I cut ties and moved on. The sad part is all his other friends did too (we're all mutual friends).


    I can't tell if that makes you a good friend, or a bad one! I guess if you did everything you could to help him and nothing worked, you had no choice - maybe it will be a wakeup call for him to sort himself out, ultimately he is responsible for his own happiness.
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    Dec 07, 2015 5:37 PM GMT
    PulseFit said
    paulflexes saidAs much as I feel sorry for the way his family treats him, I can't have that kind of negativity in my life and still remain happy. So, I cut ties and moved on. The sad part is all his other friends did too (we're all mutual friends).


    I can't tell if that makes you a good friend, or a bad one! I guess if you did everything you could to help him and nothing worked, you had no choice - maybe it will be a wakeup call for him to sort himself out, ultimately he is responsible for his own happiness.
    A good friend...I let him keep the keys to the apt so he can have a safe haven if his parents' anti-gay rhetoric gets too much for him again (which is why I let him stay with me in the first place). But I also let him know that if he does nothing to help himself, there's nothing I or any of our other friends can do. We tried our best for two years and he hasn't taken a single step forward to improving his life. Instead, he complains about it non-stop.
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    Dec 07, 2015 6:19 PM GMT
    subtract off the paid posts, the peeps still in high school, the soc fake multiple accounts belonging to the 4mentioned above and there is a lot to be jaded about.




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    Dec 07, 2015 6:57 PM GMT
    mystery905 said
    highforthis said
    Radd saidYes. I'm offended that idiots like highforthis think it's cool to humiliate another member by creating a thread about them (which is against the TOS by the way.) Any decent person should be offended by it. He could have easily posted the message without the guy's face pic and screen name. The guy apparently has deleted his profile because of this. The OP expects us to feel sorry for him that he got hit on by someone he deems unattractive. It's the epitome of bullying. He should feel thankful anyone compliments him at all.


    The hypocrisy is strong in this one icon_rolleyes.gif


    ummm...he didn't post the crazy guy's picture and didn't post the actual messages, unlike you!

    And this is truly creepy....

    Yeah, highforthis can be really creepy:
    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/4110238/?forumpage=0
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    Dec 08, 2015 7:10 AM GMT
    Scruffy should go out with GayDude8899. Might be a perfect match.
  • highforthis

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    Dec 09, 2015 4:50 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    highforthis said
    Radd saidYes. I'm offended that idiots like the OP think it's cool to humiliate another member by creating a thread about them (which is against the TOS by the way.) Any decent person should be offended by it. He could have easily posted the message without the guy's face pic and screen name. The guy apparently has deleted his profile because of this. The OP expects us to feel sorry for him that he got hit on by someone he deems unattractive. It's the epitome of bullying. He should feel thankful anyone compliments him at all.


    The hypocrisy is strong in this one icon_rolleyes.gif


    I thought the very same thing after reading the OP.

    But then again, hypocrisy is Scruffy's forte.

    And given Scruffy's penchant for doodling with Photoshop to recreate reality for his own self-serving purposes, who knows if this is even truly real?


    I wonder if mystery905 is either. I only ever notice his posts when he's chiming in some lame retort to whoever Radd is arguing with.
  • mystery905

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    Dec 09, 2015 5:27 AM GMT
    highforthis said
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    highforthis said
    Radd saidYes. I'm offended that idiots like the OP think it's cool to humiliate another member by creating a thread about them (which is against the TOS by the way.) Any decent person should be offended by it. He could have easily posted the message without the guy's face pic and screen name. The guy apparently has deleted his profile because of this. The OP expects us to feel sorry for him that he got hit on by someone he deems unattractive. It's the epitome of bullying. He should feel thankful anyone compliments him at all.


    The hypocrisy is strong in this one icon_rolleyes.gif


    I thought the very same thing after reading the OP.

    But then again, hypocrisy is Scruffy's forte.

    And given Scruffy's penchant for doodling with Photoshop to recreate reality for his own self-serving purposes, who knows if this is even truly real?


    I wonder if mystery905 is either. I only ever notice his posts when he's chiming in some lame retort to whoever Radd is arguing with.


    I have agreed with him in your thread and his and stated why, not some 'lame' retort. Why not try to refute the argument? You are so lame...
  • mystery905

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    Dec 09, 2015 5:39 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    mystery905 said
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said^ The fact remains, Scruffy started a thread with the intent to disparage another member and his name is clearly visible. This is in direct violation of the website's TOS. But, of course, the owner of this site won't care.

    Not to mention, it's like tattle-tailing and is a bit unseemly for a grown man to be doing. It's like spreading gossip.


    Ummmm....I couldn't find the terms of service, but even if it were there, what does it say? Disparage another member? There are countless threads with people disparaging each other, so why pick on Radd? He is doing a public service showing someone with dangerous stalking tendencies.



    You don't know that this person is dangerous. He doesn't even have a profile and is more than likely a sock account trolling Radd. Good for him as it's probably the most favorable attention he's gotten all weekend from another man.

    There used to be a rule that you weren't allowed to start a thread with the sole purpose of badgering that person. I can't find it any longer. But this is just petty.



    It sure looks like someone with issues. And by the same token, you don't know this person is a 'sock account', so stop reaching.

    Bottom line is this is harassing behaviour, unlike highforthis' complaint about a single 'unwanted' overture.