I do not think I am cut out

  • Matthew56

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    Dec 08, 2015 6:37 AM GMT
    For gay sex as a man ejaculated on my leg by accident and I really panicked thinking that I could get HIV. Moreover I cannot really enjoy 100 percent as I have to keep vigilant over fears of getting HIV
  • AMoonHawk

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    Dec 08, 2015 6:52 AM GMT
    Yup ... Your screwed ... Best thing for you to do is visit your local HIV organization and get educated
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    Dec 08, 2015 7:03 AM GMT
    You might have hiv, there was a story about a man that got ejaculated on stomach and he contracted HIV because of micro tears in the skin, just get tested
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    Dec 08, 2015 2:10 PM GMT
    Vigilance and prudence are all good. However, you cannot live a full life being constantly in fear of things. There's no such thing as 100% safe. All we can do is to take all the necessary precautions and hope that it's good enough.
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    Dec 08, 2015 2:59 PM GMT
    Irrational fear, you should a) educate yourself and if the fear persists b) seek therapy.
  • Oceans_of_Flo...

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    Dec 08, 2015 3:32 PM GMT

    Your skin does a great job at keeping viruses out. Its the reason you need to rub your eyes or eat with dirty hands to catch most viruses that aren't sexually transmitted. Sexually means sexually - him cumming on your leg is not sexually. Him cumming inside you is sexually. HIV is transmitted blood to blood. None of your blood equals no transmition. Get educated. In addition, older white guys are often disease free because they stay educated about diseases, try to put most deterrents into practice, and work to maintain the behaviors that kept them negative during the 80's and 90's. They tend to have insurance, attend regular checkups, often their doctor knows they are gay, and if they do have HIV, they are on meds and less likely to conceal their status from partners, very much the safest guys to let cum all over you.

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    Dec 08, 2015 4:01 PM GMT
    Polite people say "I'm cumming, I'm cumming" at least 30 seconds before ejaculating to avoid this kind of situation. I suggest you hang out with classier men. Or at least stay off public transportation.
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    Dec 08, 2015 4:18 PM GMT
    PulseFit saidIrrational fear, you should a) educate yourself and if the fear persists b) seek therapy.

    +1



    if you have issues being intimate with men you should recognize you situation. Not good your still dating.

  • Destinharbor

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    Dec 08, 2015 6:14 PM GMT
    DefensiveEnd saidPolite people say "I'm cumming, I'm cumming" at least 30 seconds before ejaculating to avoid this kind of situation. I suggest you hang out with classier men. Or at least stay off public transportation.

    Hahahahaha......
  • Triggerman

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    Dec 09, 2015 4:22 AM GMT
    I usually say it 45 seconds before lift off followed by get me a donut, preferably an apple fritter. Gotta restock the carbs and sugar.

    Sometimes I say it 10 minutes before just so that he will think I have amazing staying power.