Spreading your seed

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    Dec 08, 2015 7:49 PM GMT
    In another thread I heard a member mention men are meant or designed to spread our seed. I've always hated this phrase. I've heard too many weak minded misogynist use it to justify cheating. It also turns homosexuality into a bit of a defect. Lastly it removes agency from the acts of pursuing and having sex. No longer are we having sex because its something enjoyable that we seek to do. Its becomee a biological compulsion. Aside from the silly argument of which is better managomy or polyamoury, its a very weak broscience argument.
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    Dec 08, 2015 9:05 PM GMT
    its also been said that its a women's nature they can reject the the sperm of rapists. Just recently this year.
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    Dec 08, 2015 9:16 PM GMT
    Just more BS! Nothing else.
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    Dec 08, 2015 9:40 PM GMT
    pellaz saidits also been said that its a women's nature they can reject the the sperm of rapists. Just recently this year.

    This relates to the distinction drawn my some american politicians between "voluntary" and involuntary rape?
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    Dec 09, 2015 1:53 AM GMT

    It sounds like you've answered all your questions and armored yourself against any opposing viewpoint especially with that last sentence. But, I'm not deterred: you're an animal, animals are designed to spread their seed, call it a compulsion, call it instinct, which is just a compulsion. Homosexuality is a defect, a mutation, an irony, it's a beautiful thing. It does separate you from heterosexual males, in a pretty huge way. Sex is enjoyable, but that is not the only reason you do it. You've got a sexual drive, which isn't a broscience term. It's a scientific term. You enjoy breathing too, hold your breath.... I'll wait ............ still doing it ......... come on, now ...... ok, point made. Enjoy sex - great, develop a test deficiency. Without chemicals and natural processes taking place in your brain, you're a boyfriend pillow. That's not bro science, that's actual science. The screamers have been going nutts for years about how much sexuality is a science, not a choice and here you come .... with this thread.

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    Dec 09, 2015 4:11 AM GMT
    Oceans_of_Flowers said
    It sounds like you've answered all your questions and armored yourself against any opposing viewpoint especially with that last sentence. But, I'm not deterred: you're an animal, animals are designed to spread their seed, call it a compulsion, call it instinct, which is just a compulsion. Homosexuality is a defect, a mutation, an irony, it's a beautiful thing. It does separate you from heterosexual males, in a pretty huge way. Sex is enjoyable, but that is not the only reason you do it. You've got a sexual drive, which isn't a broscience term. It's a scientific term. You enjoy breathing too, hold your breath.... I'll wait ............ still doing it ......... come on, now ...... ok, point made. Enjoy sex - great, develop a test deficiency. Without chemicals and natural processes taking place in your brain, you're a boyfriend pillow. That's not bro science, that's actual science. The screamers have been going nutts for years about how much sexuality is a science, not a choice and here you come .... with this thread.



    This...

    I could not have said it any better.

    A good starting point for growing up is to open your mind, leave the 'I-would-like-to-believe' frame of mind which is a cultural trait some posters suffer from, and look impartially into the world that surrounds you.

    It helps a bit to start by exploring the notion of the rosy worldview in which sex is 'something enjoyable that we seek to do' by asking yourself 'why is it enjoyable'? What makes us feel enjoyable about sex? Enters evolutionary theory, and guys confess how they enjoy rimming other dudes...icon_lol.gif

    SC
    P.S. "Spreading the seed" notion? Yup. Guilty as charged.icon_biggrin.gif

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    Dec 09, 2015 6:32 AM GMT
    Oceans_of_Flowers said
    It sounds like you've answered all your questions and armored yourself against any opposing viewpoint especially with that last sentence. But, I'm not deterred: you're an animal, animals are designed to spread their seed, call it a compulsion, call it instinct, which is just a compulsion. Homosexuality is a defect, a mutation, an irony, it's a beautiful thing. It does separate you from heterosexual males, in a pretty huge way. Sex is enjoyable, but that is not the only reason you do it. You've got a sexual drive, which isn't a broscience term. It's a scientific term. You enjoy breathing too, hold your breath.... I'll wait ............ still doing it ......... come on, now ...... ok, point made. Enjoy sex - great, develop a test deficiency. Without chemicals and natural processes taking place in your brain, you're a boyfriend pillow. That's not bro science, that's actual science. The screamers have been going nutts for years about how much sexuality is a science, not a choice and here you come .... with this thread.



    It wasn't a question so I couldn't have answered my own questions. The OP is admittedly (fuck that proudly a rant.) I don't think there is a way to scientifically prove why we have sex. At best we can make educated guesses. What I am going to say is my own bit of broscience. I do not believe procreation is the primary reason we have sex. I personally believe that we have sex because its an enjoyable experience that can also create emotional bonds. I believe sex evolved to be pleasurable to facilitate procreation.

    You also completely missed the point I was making. It could be that I made it poorly. I'm not denying that procreation is a part of why we have sex. The term spreading your seed is not about that. Spreading your seed is always used as an excuse for cheating and as an attack on monogamy. As someone who is equally comfortable with both I tend to stay out of those fights. Each side generally adopts a, "you are with us or you are against us" mentality. I do not believe we are programmed to be polyamourus or monogamous. I believe humans are naturally pretty open minded sexual but culture tends to narrow our sexual pallet.

    Oh and chime in any time you want. I always welcome your ideas.
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    Dec 09, 2015 6:36 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle saidIt's not even worth entertaining the thought.

    Many people aren't wired to be monogamous and that includes women. I know more women in polyamorous relationships than I do men.

    We don't have to reduce this to gender or somehow make men the bad guys.


    Thank you. You were the only person to get the misogynist angle i was getting at. I truly hate the phrase Its normally only used by weak men who would love to be polyamorous but are to weak to seek out an open relationship so they cheat and blame it all on nature. Men are not meant to spread their seed. Humans are just sexual creatures.
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    Dec 09, 2015 6:37 AM GMT
    SilverRRCloud said
    Oceans_of_Flowers said
    It sounds like you've answered all your questions and armored yourself against any opposing viewpoint especially with that last sentence. But, I'm not deterred: you're an animal, animals are designed to spread their seed, call it a compulsion, call it instinct, which is just a compulsion. Homosexuality is a defect, a mutation, an irony, it's a beautiful thing. It does separate you from heterosexual males, in a pretty huge way. Sex is enjoyable, but that is not the only reason you do it. You've got a sexual drive, which isn't a broscience term. It's a scientific term. You enjoy breathing too, hold your breath.... I'll wait ............ still doing it ......... come on, now ...... ok, point made. Enjoy sex - great, develop a test deficiency. Without chemicals and natural processes taking place in your brain, you're a boyfriend pillow. That's not bro science, that's actual science. The screamers have been going nutts for years about how much sexuality is a science, not a choice and here you come .... with this thread.



    This...

    I could not have said it any better.

    A good starting point for growing up is to open your mind, leave the 'I-would-like-to-believe' frame of mind which is a cultural trait some posters suffer from, and look impartially into the world that surrounds you.

    It helps a bit to start by exploring the notion of the rosy worldview in which sex is 'something enjoyable that we seek to do' by asking yourself 'why is it enjoyable'? What makes us feel enjoyable about sex? Enters evolutionary theory, and guys confess how they enjoy rimming other dudes...icon_lol.gif

    SC
    P.S. "Spreading the seed" notion? Yup. Guilty as charged.icon_biggrin.gif



    I'm now convinced you never actually read to understand. You simply read to respond lol
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    Dec 09, 2015 6:41 AM GMT


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    Dec 09, 2015 6:44 AM GMT
    ELNathB said

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    OH the reply I wanted to make icon_redface.gif
  • BloodFlame

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    Dec 09, 2015 6:55 AM GMT
    Yeah, I hear that same quote as well. Honestly, I think that while it may be true, here's the other thing.

    Humans have control. Sure, we can all have urges but we also have self-control. Unless you're in an open/poly relationship, you CAN control your urges (what I mean by this is you can take care of yourself *masturbate* through it). I don't think masturbating = Cheating.

    Unless you're a big sexual addict (and if you are, opt for an open/poly relationship), there's no excuse to cheat on your partner.

    That's my 2 cents.
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    Dec 09, 2015 6:59 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    ELNathB said

    Opps, I thought this thread was another Lumpy, big dick, how far shooting big loads topic, located in the wrong section icon_redface.gificon_wink.gif





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    Dec 09, 2015 7:01 AM GMT
    BloodFlame saidYeah, I hear that same quote as well. Honestly, I think that while it may be true, here's the other thing.

    Humans have control. Sure, we can all have urges but we also have self-control. Unless you're in an open/poly relationship, you CAN control your urges (what I mean by this is you can take care of yourself *masturbate* through it). I don't think masturbating = Cheating.

    Unless you're a big sexual addict (and if you are, opt for an open/poly relationship), there's no excuse to cheat on your partner.

    That's my 2 cents.


    True

    Dudes could also grow a pair and get in open relationships from the jump and not be such self pussies and try to use nature as an excuse for infidelity.
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    Dec 09, 2015 7:27 AM GMT
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    MrFuscle said
    MuchMoreThanMuscle said
    ELNathB said

    Opps, I thought this thread was another Lumpy, big dick, how far shooting big loads topic, located in the wrong section icon_redface.gificon_wink.gif





    You mean you thought it was something like THIS!?!

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  • BloodFlame

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    Dec 09, 2015 7:49 PM GMT
    MrFuscle said
    BloodFlame saidYeah, I hear that same quote as well. Honestly, I think that while it may be true, here's the other thing.

    Humans have control. Sure, we can all have urges but we also have self-control. Unless you're in an open/poly relationship, you CAN control your urges (what I mean by this is you can take care of yourself *masturbate* through it). I don't think masturbating = Cheating.

    Unless you're a big sexual addict (and if you are, opt for an open/poly relationship), there's no excuse to cheat on your partner.

    That's my 2 cents.


    True

    Dudes could also grow a pair and get in open relationships from the jump and not be such self pussies and try to use nature as an excuse for infidelity.


    Agreed. It would certainly make things more easier lol
    There are plenty of men who'd want an open relationship so I don't understand why the guy doesn't just doesn't look for a guy who wants that.
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    Dec 09, 2015 8:01 PM GMT
    BloodFlame said
    MrFuscle said
    BloodFlame saidYeah, I hear that same quote as well. Honestly, I think that while it may be true, here's the other thing.

    Humans have control. Sure, we can all have urges but we also have self-control. Unless you're in an open/poly relationship, you CAN control your urges (what I mean by this is you can take care of yourself *masturbate* through it). I don't think masturbating = Cheating.

    Unless you're a big sexual addict (and if you are, opt for an open/poly relationship), there's no excuse to cheat on your partner.

    That's my 2 cents.


    True

    Dudes could also grow a pair and get in open relationships from the jump and not be such self pussies and try to use nature as an excuse for infidelity.


    Agreed. It would certainly make things more easier lol
    There are plenty of men who'd want an open relationship so I don't understand why the guy doesn't just doesn't look for a guy who wants that.


    The answer for that is easy. They are selfish. Their is a saying, "its easier to ask for forgiveness than permission."
  • takashi

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    Dec 19, 2015 10:30 PM GMT
    If you are a bottom I can understand why you hate the statement,
    "men are meant or designed to spread our seed"
    I really like your other statement,
    "Humans are just sexual creatures" this seems to be more appropriate.
    I am a total bottom so I am 'male' but at the receiving end of 'seed'

    So much is happening with transgender issues, etc., really human sexuality is very fluid