Dec 13, 2015 3:44 AM GMT
My cousin is getting married next summer. He will be turning 27 this spring, and plans on having his bachelor party in Montreal. My other 2 cousins (his older brother and younger brother) as well as my brother are going, along with a bunch of his friends.
They're all straight, and I'm not out to any of them yet. I've never been to a bachelor party before. I don't mind going to straight strip clubs or anything.
The only thing is that I can see my cousins and his friends possibly pressuring me into hooking up with a girl if we are out and one is hitting on me. I mean, I'm all for fun and wouldn't mind maybe making out with a girl, but not sure if I'd want to go beyond that.
I know I don't really have to do anything I don't want to do, but I don't want them to think of me as some lame party-pooper who doesn't want to have a good time.
I kind of want to let loose and have fun, but at the same time, I'm not sure I want to spend that kind of money if I won't really be enjoying myself.
Should I go, and what should I expect? Have you ever been to a straight friend's bachelor party in a place like Montreal or Vegas?
They're all straight, and I'm not out to any of them yet. I've never been to a bachelor party before. I don't mind going to straight strip clubs or anything.
The only thing is that I can see my cousins and his friends possibly pressuring me into hooking up with a girl if we are out and one is hitting on me. I mean, I'm all for fun and wouldn't mind maybe making out with a girl, but not sure if I'd want to go beyond that.
I know I don't really have to do anything I don't want to do, but I don't want them to think of me as some lame party-pooper who doesn't want to have a good time.
I kind of want to let loose and have fun, but at the same time, I'm not sure I want to spend that kind of money if I won't really be enjoying myself.
Should I go, and what should I expect? Have you ever been to a straight friend's bachelor party in a place like Montreal or Vegas?