Lazy Sunday

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    Dec 13, 2015 2:54 PM GMT
    Our usual lazy Sunday. We try to clear the calendar on Sunday, our "do nothing" day once a week. I think we may have been corralled into a Christmas party at 4, if that's still on. I'm not too eager.

    We've had a holiday event or party every night this past week since Monday, and we've got another tomorrow, Monday again, the eighth in a row. I could use a break. I'm running out of different holiday bow ties to wear!

    Last night's house party (Saturday) was pretty good, though. About 150 gay guys. And we were saying to each other: "We only know a few of these guys. We've never seen them before. Where DO they hide out the rest of the year?"

    Well, anyway, he's out on the patio, reading his Sunday paper with his coffee and bagel. Sunny and nearly 80 F already, in mid-December. This is what South Florida is all about. icon_biggrin.gif:
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    Dec 13, 2015 6:13 PM GMT
    If braggadocio was fatal
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    Dec 13, 2015 6:25 PM GMT
    DefensiveEnd saidIf braggadocio was fatal
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    If I was talking about a lazy Sunday in my (nonexistent) trailer park home it would probably be considered braggadocio to someone who's a manager in a North Carolina hardware store. Love your house interior, BTW. Did you pay for a professional to come in to design it for you, or did you rely upon your own gay decorating skills?
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    Dec 13, 2015 7:07 PM GMT
    Do you and your husband have a lot of sex on sundays?
    like u know.... u all are just kinda sitting around....bored, probably horny... sultry south FL days got u wearing no clothes. ... I mean u two must be fuckin all day.
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    Dec 13, 2015 7:33 PM GMT
    Import saidDo you and your husband have a lot of sex on sundays?
    like u know.... u all are just kinda sitting around....bored, probably horny... sultry south FL days got u wearing no clothes. ... I mean u two must be fuckin all day.

    We do spend a lot of time out of our clothes in the house, or just boxers for me (the furniture, you know). Our sex lives are private. But I will say, after we returned from last night's Christmas party, we fell asleep holding hands, as we usually do. I'm very glad to have him. I can only hope he's equally glad to have me. Gawd knows few others would.
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    Dec 13, 2015 7:44 PM GMT
    Art_Deco saidOur usual lazy Sunday. We try to clear the calendar on Sunday, our "do nothing" day once a week. I think we may have been corralled into a Christmas party at 4, if that's still on. I'm not too eager.

    We've had a holiday event or party every night this past week since Monday, and we've got another tomorrow, Monday again, the eighth in a row. I could use a break. I'm running out of different holiday bow ties to wear!

    Last night's house party (Saturday) was pretty good, though. About 150 gay guys. And we were saying to each other: "We only know a few of these guys. We've never seen them before. Where DO they hide out the rest of the year?"

    Well, anyway, he's out on the patio, reading his Sunday paper with his coffee and bagel. Sunny and nearly 80 F already, in mid-December. This is what South Florida is all about. icon_biggrin.gif:


    Too many parties! I make a point of limiting nights out, but then I really enjoy nights in with a book - and feeling energetic the next day. You young fellows! icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 13, 2015 7:46 PM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    DefensiveEnd saidIf braggadocio was fatal
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    If I was talking about a lazy Sunday in my (nonexistent) trailer park home it would probably be considered braggadocio to someone who's a manager in a North Carolina hardware store. Love your house interior, BTW. Did you pay for a professional to come in to design it for you, or did you rely upon your own gay decorating skills?

    Stop worrying about me and go wipe the chins of your morbidly obese partner.
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    Dec 13, 2015 7:50 PM GMT
    Well, I just found out, overhearing a telephone conversation, that I'm gonna be taking pictures at tonight's shindig. So I guess we really are going.

    Seems that they expected "Pompano Bill", our premier gay social photographer and a friend ours, to be there. But he can't be. So my husband volunteered me.

    WTF? I can't do what Bill does, he's the best in the business. I take so-so scenic pics, I've posted them here, but nothing like what Bill does.

    So now not only do I have to attend something I was hoping to avoid altogether, to have a day free after 6 nights out straight, but I have to get dressed up and gonna be working this event under pressure. I won't even get to enjoy it. I'm already charging the camera battery.

    So much for "Lazy Sunday".
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    Dec 13, 2015 8:09 PM GMT
    Have another Bloody Mary. Good lord, you're a bore!

    Try this outfit on for size:
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    Dec 13, 2015 8:21 PM GMT
    DefensiveEnd said
    Art_Deco said
    DefensiveEnd saidIf braggadocio was fatal
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    If I was talking about a lazy Sunday in my (nonexistent) trailer park home it would probably be considered braggadocio to someone who's a manager in a North Carolina hardware store. Love your house interior, BTW. Did you pay for a professional to come in to design it for you, or did you rely upon your own gay decorating skills?

    Stop worrying about me and go wipe the chins of your morbidly obese partner.

    He has only one chin. And at 81 he's doing wonderfully well, thank you for asking, losing weight every day. His wonderful Italian cooking, you know. icon_biggrin.gif

    One of the most popular & beloved guys in our community, often called the unofficial "Mayor of Wilton Manors". I'm happy you've given me the opportunity to talk about him.

    He co-founded the very first gay men's chorus in Florida, 30 years ago, and was a performing member in it. Today he's on their Board of Directors. That chorus went on to inspire, and help create, all the gay choruses in Florida today. He's been invited to sing at a private party in Del Ray next January, he still has an impressive voice at 81.

    And then he founded a mixed chorus (gay & lesbian) 20 years ago. I performed with them myself at the gay international Gala Choruses held in Miami a few years ago, featuring over 160 GLBT choruses from around the world.

    He was also a co-founder of the SMART Ride, the 2-day bicycle ride that goes from Miami to Key West, raising money for HIV/AIDS agencies in Florida. He was on the crew retrieving broken bikes, even at 80. I rode, too, but some years I crewed, when I was dealing with my cancer.

    So yeah, you can call him obese, and me, too, if you want. But he's still a gay hero for all he's done. And what have YOU done for our gay community, to level such criticism?
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    Dec 14, 2015 1:11 AM GMT
    WOW, we got home a lot earlier than we thought. Which is good, because we're not late-night people.

    So we went to the open house, and I didn't have to take too many pics. We had a nice time.

    Then we went to another place, where a bartender had a package waiting for us, unknown to me. I swear, he NEVER tells me anything beforehand. It's always "SURPRISE!" or else he says he mentioned something about it last month.

    You MENTIONED something about it in passing? And didn't enter it into our shared iCloud calendars? And haven't mentioned it to me since? Sorry, no, that isn't telling me.

    Gawd, sometimes he acts like the stereotypical flaky gay guy, and I know he can do better. He often remembers stuff I forget myself, but this wasn't one of those times.

    So OK, we're there, and we have another good time, which is all that matters. I'm not gonna spoil things because he took me by surprise in taking us there. In fact, I hugged him and reminded him how much I love him.

    And I really do. Who else would have me? And he's the greatest, most loving guy. When you have a guy who loves you, and you love him, you don't mess that up with unimportant little crap.
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    Dec 14, 2015 1:15 AM GMT
    lol what the heck did I just read?
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    Dec 14, 2015 1:20 AM GMT
    David666K saidlol what the heck did I just read?

    Probably something you can't comprehend. Not the first time here. icon_razz.gif
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    Dec 14, 2015 1:23 AM GMT
    Red or Green margaritas for the holidays?
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    Dec 14, 2015 1:31 AM GMT
    2Bnaked saidRed or Green margaritas for the holidays?

    I don't drink margaritas, of any color.

    But I will be wearing this red & green bow tie with my dinner jacket at a holiday function on the 23rd. It was custom made to my neck size, since the formal shirt collar will be a stand-up wing type.

    I hate having some kind of buckle or other adjustment being visible. With a turn-down collar that's OK, being hidden, but not with my formal dress shirts.

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    Dec 14, 2015 1:43 AM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    David666K saidlol what the heck did I just read?

    Probably something you can't comprehend. Not the first time here. icon_razz.gif



    I can't comprehend why you have the need to fill us in worthless details of your supposed life and share personal bits like what you do in bed with your partner BulletPukeL.gif Get a grip Art, if you wanna share your daily crap write a blog or pay a therapist to listen to you, If you don't, then take the critisism that comes with your ridiculous (senile?) behaviour.
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    Dec 14, 2015 1:47 AM GMT
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    Art_Deco said
    2Bnaked saidRed or Green margaritas for the holidays?

    I don't drink margaritas, of any color.

    But I will be wearing this red & green bow tie with my dinner jacket at a holiday function on the 23rd.

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    The only clown you're portraying is yourself. Not a few guys here understand what it means to be well-dressed, even if that's not something you would understand..

    And those who are interested in gentlemen's attire can visit this site. Their prices are remarkably reasonable, even for custom-made ties.

    http://www.beautiesltd.com
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    Dec 14, 2015 1:49 AM GMT
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    Art_Deco said
    2Bnaked saidRed or Green margaritas for the holidays?

    I don't drink margaritas, of any color.

    But I will be wearing this red & green bow tie with my dinner jacket at a holiday function on the 23rd.

    DSFDTI11619.jpg

    e1b6b57c28dde51afe3ddc9c89c16ff7.image.1

    The only clown you're portraying is yourself. Not a few guys here understand what it means to be well-dressed, even if that's not something you would understand..

    And those who are interested in gentlemen's attire can visit this site. Their prices are remarkably reasonable, even for custom-made sizes.

    http://www.beautiesltd.com
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    Dec 14, 2015 2:06 AM GMT
    David666K said
    Art_Deco said
    David666K saidlol what the heck did I just read?

    Probably something you can't comprehend. Not the first time here. icon_razz.gif

    I can't comprehend why you have the need to fill us in worthless details of your supposed life and share personal bits like what you do in bed with your partner.

    I can't recall when I shared intimate details online regarding my husband in bed. Other than we fall asleep holding hands, and we usually sleep naked, but nothing sexual.

    As for the other details of my life, guys here can pick and choose. Ignore what they want. I actually include a lot of general info, not just about me, if you're not too ignorant to miss it. I guess you miss it.

    And anyone can directly PE me on these topics, as some do.
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    Dec 14, 2015 2:59 AM GMT
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    Art_Deco, you do NOT have a husband, you have a partner. Once the two of you legally marry, THEN you will have a husband.

    And what do YOU have? And will you declare yourself gay or not?

    I really don't have to answer a guy who's always ambiguous about who he is here. But for the benefit of other guys here, I will say what I have said before:

    This man was my husband before the US Supreme Court ruling about gay marriage. We are planning our future marriage, in our own time. We already had all the legal documents drawn that effectively give us spousal rights, years before this court decision was issued.

    Decades ago we routinely called our partners "husbands". That was common. Usually in a private gay setting, but that's what we did. If you don't know that then that tells us a lot about your own legitimacy.

    In any case, we call each other "husband", Because that is our choice. And your homophobia is not gonna change that. When our wedding occurs, and I'm planning for it to be a big deal (I'm thinking Handels's Water Music, and also some choral pieces), it'll be posted to YouTube for your approval.
  • David3K

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    Dec 14, 2015 4:57 AM GMT
    Art_Deco said
    David666K said
    Art_Deco said
    David666K saidlol what the heck did I just read?

    Probably something you can't comprehend. Not the first time here. icon_razz.gif

    I can't comprehend why you have the need to fill us in worthless details of your supposed life and share personal bits like what you do in bed with your partner.

    I can't recall when I shared intimate details online regarding my husband in bed. Other than we fall asleep holding hands, and we usually sleep naked, but nothing sexual.

    As for the other details of my life, guys here can pick and choose. Ignore what they want. I actually include a lot of general info, not just about me, if you're not too ignorant to miss it. I guess you miss it.

    And anyone can directly PE me on these topics, as some do.


    I wonder how a guy like you functions in the real world, outside RJ and your wealthy gay-filled environment (which is probably exaggerated by you anyways).

    Do you act like the same ridiculous, self-centered, flamboyant person out there? I had lost some respect for you when I learned you were in the army, but other than that I never had a problem with you, but after being fed up by countless of your ridiculous posts I conclude that you're the kind of guy that asks to be bullied.

    You remind me of this Simpson character
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    Dec 14, 2015 6:45 PM GMT
    LOL at all the people visiting my profile to look at the decor in my trailer. I wish I had gotten a shot of the Confederate flag on the wall and the poker playing dogs.
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    Dec 14, 2015 7:31 PM GMT
    just ignore Art when he posts this. maybe everyone has too much time?
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    Dec 15, 2015 12:24 AM GMT
    southbeach1500 said
    pellaz saidjust ignore Art when he posts this. maybe everyone has too much time?


    Deco is supremely entertaining.


    Not as entertaining as some of your responses!
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    Dec 15, 2015 1:03 AM GMT
    I took a molly at Space and danced till 7am with all the other douchebags.


    Then I went home with this Colombian guy. He was meh.