Dec 16, 2015 7:18 AM GMT
Ok, I just spent a few hours at a guys house that he invited me over. Second meet. It was fun and cool and all good. We watched Netflix (not what you're thinking), no sex, and met his roommate who was super cool (I'm okay with female roommates but not another man...from repeated experiences)
Anyhow, my only thing was they didn't seem very hospitable. We watched the movie over some small snacks his roommate made, but no alcohol. I asked for a glass of wine, and after that it was it. Pretty much watched movies and drunk water. I had to ask Both times for something to drink because my throat was dry, and then the second time his roommate said, "that's all that was left". And I only had like 3/4 of a glass!
I don't know about other people, but I'm just not like that. If I have someone over to my house, I will make sure I go out and buy a new bottle of wine just for us or something. If I can't do that, I won't have anyone over. Oftentimes, I'll even bring bottles over because I figure they won't have any. Sometimes I'll even cook or order pizza at my place. Hell, I had a big ass bottle of pinnacle strawberry vodka I couldn't bought to just atleast make a couple drinks, but I didn't want to 'bring liquor into their place" as some people get funny about that.
But to me, I find it unhospitable to invite someone over just to drink water while watching movies. I'm not saying I'm trying to get drunk and party, but something to invigorate the tastebuds or something. Relax the mind, unwind. Water and soda doesn't do that. Plus wine is 50 billion times healthier than Some teeth rotting carbonated acid.
I don't know what I feel, but there seems to be a lack of this in the 20s and younger 30s dating scene. When I go to older white guys houses, they always offer a beer or cocktail or something...if they don't, they usually explain they're former alcoholics...But in some case, I've found its usually a red flag when a single gay man "CAN'T" have alcohol in the house. They're usually relaxing thru other methods. METHods. Or Pot. Neigh of which I'm fond of.
Anyhow, my only thing was they didn't seem very hospitable. We watched the movie over some small snacks his roommate made, but no alcohol. I asked for a glass of wine, and after that it was it. Pretty much watched movies and drunk water. I had to ask Both times for something to drink because my throat was dry, and then the second time his roommate said, "that's all that was left". And I only had like 3/4 of a glass!
I don't know about other people, but I'm just not like that. If I have someone over to my house, I will make sure I go out and buy a new bottle of wine just for us or something. If I can't do that, I won't have anyone over. Oftentimes, I'll even bring bottles over because I figure they won't have any. Sometimes I'll even cook or order pizza at my place. Hell, I had a big ass bottle of pinnacle strawberry vodka I couldn't bought to just atleast make a couple drinks, but I didn't want to 'bring liquor into their place" as some people get funny about that.
But to me, I find it unhospitable to invite someone over just to drink water while watching movies. I'm not saying I'm trying to get drunk and party, but something to invigorate the tastebuds or something. Relax the mind, unwind. Water and soda doesn't do that. Plus wine is 50 billion times healthier than Some teeth rotting carbonated acid.
I don't know what I feel, but there seems to be a lack of this in the 20s and younger 30s dating scene. When I go to older white guys houses, they always offer a beer or cocktail or something...if they don't, they usually explain they're former alcoholics...But in some case, I've found its usually a red flag when a single gay man "CAN'T" have alcohol in the house. They're usually relaxing thru other methods. METHods. Or Pot. Neigh of which I'm fond of.