Attraction & Age Range

  • Wendigo9

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    Dec 17, 2015 5:13 AM GMT
    Being 25 and slim, you think I'd fit in with the "twink type" guys and be checking them out, but lately I find myself looking at the daddy/bear kind of guys. Think it's because I'm versatile, never really had a dad, or just slowly aging out? Could be I favor more masculine men...
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    Dec 17, 2015 5:38 AM GMT
    Despite my app profiles saying I'm a top, I get tons of messages from 6' tall muscular/beefy guys, and many of their profiles say they're btm. No idea why they want to be topped by a shorter Asian dude, but it's probably because they're mostly older and just want someone younger. Some of them are my age and hot, but unfortunately I can't see myself physically manhandling guys that size.
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    Dec 17, 2015 6:00 AM GMT
    I've always been attracted to older guys and haven't dated a dude under 24 since I was 18. As i get older the range also moves up. Now I'm most interested in guys 40-50 or 10-20 years my senior. Maybe I just need a big brother. I was attracted to a 23 year a year ago but he had too much drama in his life.
  • FitBlackCuddl...

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    Dec 17, 2015 4:07 PM GMT
    Aqueerius saidDespite my app profiles saying I'm a top, I get tons of messages from 6' tall muscular/beefy guys, and many of their profiles say they're btm. No idea why they want to be topped by a shorter Asian dude, but it's probably because they're mostly older and just want someone younger. Some of them are my age and hot, but unfortunately I can't see myself physically manhandling guys that size.


    Why not meet them for coffee and discuss mutual needs? You might find that they do not wish to be "manhandled".
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    Dec 18, 2015 1:26 AM GMT
    Aqueerius saidDespite my app profiles saying I'm a top, I get tons of messages from 6' tall muscular/beefy guys, and many of their profiles say they're btm. No idea why they want to be topped by a shorter Asian dude, but it's probably because they're mostly older and just want someone younger. Some of them are my age and hot, but unfortunately I can't see myself physically manhandling guys that size.


    Why is that a problem again? I see tall muscular guys at the gym all the time that I'd like to man-handle.
  • joeisawesome1

    Posts: 175

    Dec 18, 2015 3:43 AM GMT
    i only like guys in their mid 30s to 40s. no offense to anyone but the guys my age (18-25) are too bitchy, immature, demanding, annoying, and useless. just sayin... it's my opinion

    not to mention the sex with them is absolutely lousy. older men do it better.
  • Suetonius

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    Dec 19, 2015 6:22 AM GMT
    Wendigo9 saidThink it's because I'm versatile, never really had a dad, or just slowly aging out?


    It really doesn't matter why, and there is nothing gained by wondering. It just is. that is the nature of sexuality.

    Just enjoy what you do.
  • Suetonius

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    Dec 19, 2015 6:23 AM GMT
    joeisawesome1 saidi only like guys in their mid 30s to 40s. no offense to anyone but the guys my age (18-25) are too bitchy, immature, demanding, annoying, and useless. just sayin... it's my opinion

    not to mention the sex with them is absolutely lousy. older men do it better.


    Yes, we do.
  • mar0302

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    Dec 19, 2015 10:35 AM GMT
    I think it's interesting to talk about why.. but in the end, it doesn't really matter.. go for what you want.. as someone that's 25 years old and not ugly, you'll have your pick of lots of older guys if that's what you want.. just find someone that you click with..
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    Dec 21, 2015 2:04 AM GMT
    FitBlackCuddler said
    Aqueerius saidDespite my app profiles saying I'm a top, I get tons of messages from 6' tall muscular/beefy guys, and many of their profiles say they're btm. No idea why they want to be topped by a shorter Asian dude, but it's probably because they're mostly older and just want someone younger. Some of them are my age and hot, but unfortunately I can't see myself physically manhandling guys that size.


    Why not meet them for coffee and discuss mutual needs? You might find that they do not wish to be "manhandled".


    FLgator said
    Aqueerius saidDespite my app profiles saying I'm a top, I get tons of messages from 6' tall muscular/beefy guys, and many of their profiles say they're btm. No idea why they want to be topped by a shorter Asian dude, but it's probably because they're mostly older and just want someone younger. Some of them are my age and hot, but unfortunately I can't see myself physically manhandling guys that size.


    Why is that a problem again? I see tall muscular guys at the gym all the time that I'd like to mana-handle.



    Well there's a difference between wanting to manhandle a guy twice my size - even when he's willing - and whether it's physically possible lol