Bottoms: how often do you douche?

  • phonehome123

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    Dec 19, 2015 4:57 AM GMT
    I previously asked tops if they expected a bottom to douche before sex, it was a fairly resounding yes: http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/4152932/

    Now I'm interested in what bottoms think.

    How often do you douche?

    It seems most tops expect it to be done every time before anal. But I've got a suspicion they think bottoms do it more than actually happens. Because I've had tons of sex without a douche and it's rarely messy, which may have tops thinking that a clean fuck was the result of a douche, which isn't always the case.

    So I'm interested to hear your side of this.

    Also any general advice or pro tips?
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    Dec 19, 2015 5:10 AM GMT
    Every single time I have to bottom. Not even a question I have to ask myself twice.

    The difference between your reply and mine is yours is "rarely" messy, while mine are never messy.
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    Dec 19, 2015 5:34 AM GMT
    Rimming the OP must be a real treat for the scat lovers.   icon_eek.gif
  • David3K

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    Dec 19, 2015 5:44 AM GMT
    OK Im gonna go against the flow here, but I had a boyfriend for years, he was never messy and I dont think he douched... I mean, I really don't know what he did to stay clean (not something I was interested in knowing) but I suppose he didn't douched yet he was always clean - which is a must for a bottom.
  • phonehome123

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    Dec 19, 2015 7:14 AM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal saidRimming the OP must be a real treat for the scat lovers.   icon_eek.gif


    Haha well being generally clean down there for rimming has nothing to do with douching. Douching cleans the inside!
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    Dec 19, 2015 7:55 PM GMT
    As a bottom I always do it before sex because I enjoy ass to mouth.
    Once you get used to doing it, it's not a problem.
    Always worth it in my opinion because you don't know where the sex will go.:-o
  • takashi

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    Dec 19, 2015 10:42 PM GMT
    Does this mean you are a bottom and you rarely douche? Wow!

    If I were going to have sex, yes, most definitely douche! Knowing that I am clean down there makes me feel incredibly sexy.

    Also its not like bottoms douche in front of their tops, (well, not always) so tops probably do not know the effort you have to go through to clean yourself.

    Eating habits can dictate how often you douche also. If you have a nice hard poop, then cleaning yourself will be easy.

    And as another person said before, ass to mouth happens more often than you think so, clean is better for the bottom. If a top pulls out of you and he dangles his hard wet thing in your face, what will you do? Hmmm, I thought so...
  • assanytime

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    Dec 20, 2015 1:10 AM GMT
    I take off the shower head and douche that way. I don't kiss guys but I will suck. Never fucked a guy, been fucked by 6 or so guys. I didn't care what they looked like as long as they fancied me and could get stiff. It would be my fantasy to get fucked by 100 guys one after the other. Just saying.
  • phonehome123

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    Dec 20, 2015 10:26 AM GMT
    takashi saidDoes this mean you are a bottom and you rarely douche? Wow!


    Actually I have NEVER douched. Like not even once. It's never really been a huge problem. So I'm really surprised at how much everyone here is saying they always do it...
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    Dec 20, 2015 3:01 PM GMT
    phonehome123 said
    takashi saidDoes this mean you are a bottom and you rarely douche? Wow!


    Actually I have NEVER douched. Like not even once. It's never really been a huge problem. So I'm really surprised at how much everyone here is saying they always do it...


    If you don't douche, do you do ANY kind of anal prep?
  • outhouse

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    Dec 20, 2015 8:22 PM GMT
    I rarely bottom but whenever I do, I always douche.

    I can't bottom without douching before since it doesn't give me that sense of cleanliness down there.

    There was once this incident when it became a little messy. After that, douche always!