Dec 21, 2015 11:05 PM GMT
I'm kind of stuck between a rock and a hard place. A lot of guys tell me they think I'm still in life be with my ex because I generally bring him up on the first date. However the reason I bring him up is because I moved to Houston to be with him and then he dumped me 13 days before the move. I didn't feel there was enough time to change my plans so I moved and here I am. This is a city of transplants. Asking where you are from and why you are here is very common. I'm thinking of simply saying I'd rather not discuss it because people tend to make a bigger deal about it than I do. I feel that will only cause guys to become even more curious. I lied the first year I was here but that was out of shame. I'm no longer ashamed but tired of hearing the excuse you still love your ex.