Dec 23, 2015 5:07 PM GMT
Would you date a short guy between 5'4" to 5'6" and why or why not?
Short guys
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Dec 23, 2015 5:07 PM GMT -
Dec 23, 2015 5:09 PM GMTYes , size doesn't matter , personality does !! -
Dec 23, 2015 5:13 PM GMTOf course. My guy's 5'7". Fit and lean is what matters to me, not height. -
Dec 23, 2015 5:15 PM GMTTo be honest it would be difficult for me unless he was very muscular. Short AND petite just doesn't do it for me. -
Dec 23, 2015 6:00 PM GMTI'm 6'4 and I ONLY like short petite skinny guys.
It's all about the contrast!
This guy is 5'4 I think.
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Dec 23, 2015 6:39 PM GMTActually, I prefer shorter. -
Dec 24, 2015 5:33 AM GMTDate one?! I married one. I'm 6'1". He's 5'6" -
Dec 24, 2015 6:33 AM GMTOf course I would, since I'm 5'6" myself.
Would you?
Your profile shows you at 5'7" so I'm kinda curious about why you're asking if guys would be interested in someone just slightly shorter than you are...
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Dec 24, 2015 7:00 AM GMTI prefer either really short guys or tall guys but its a very unimportant preference that would never lead to me turning a guy down. -
Dec 24, 2015 11:24 AM GMTI'm 5'8", so it's a rare treat to find someone my height or shorter. Tall guys are… surprisingly gentle and nice, is what I've discovered. -
Dec 24, 2015 11:54 AM GMTDepends on the guy. I'm 5'8 and have dated from 5'4 to 6'3.
I did feel a bit weird with the 6'3 guy but I got over it.
I think different heights have different qualities but chemistry trumps height for me. -
Dec 24, 2015 3:37 PM GMT
5'4-5'6?
I think he would have to be the twinky type or atleast a slim swimmer kind of build. I don't think i could date a little square block of muscle at that size.
It's hard, i find...all my girlfriends ever were short, except one who was almost 6 ft and it was a fucking dream. Holding hands, kissing, putting my arm around her, dancing, it was all so much more practical.
I was into a guy who was 5'8, and that seemed pretty small but doable? (do able?) I would really have to be having some daddy type fantasies going on, if he was shorter than that.
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Dec 24, 2015 3:44 PM GMTI would, perhaps the fact that I am short myself. I'm 5'6, 5'6.5 on a good day.
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Dec 24, 2015 6:30 PM GMTI'm 5'7. I feel like women are more obsessed with height than men are. -
Dec 24, 2015 8:29 PM GMTLostSailor saidI'm 6'4 and I ONLY like short petite skinny guys.
It's all about the contrast!
This guy is 5'4 I think.
holy shit that's a dude? -
Dec 24, 2015 9:39 PM GMTI am 5'7 and considered short, so yes to me its mainly chemistry and that you have things in common. I do also like tall guys. -
Dec 24, 2015 10:04 PM GMTAlmost no one is shorter than me! -
Dec 24, 2015 10:10 PM GMTCurrent BF Chris is 5'6" and 145 lbs. Really excellent all around natural athlete. I adore him. He can jack a softball or golf ball a mile. Plays volleyball and soccer too. The "big dudes" on his teams or we golf with aren't any better on the long ball or straight shots.
Unfortunately he is sensitive about not being avg. size or bigger. His brothers and Dad are 6'+. Wonder if his Mom and the milkman had a thing going(?) lol
He and his family are way into horses. Talk about horses all the time (Kentucky kid). I had a picture on my desk of him he hated so much I agreed to put it away. It's Chris standing next to/holding my neighbors Percheron mare (BIG black draft horse). Although he looks like a total stud (wears a mean pair of Wranglers) in control of that horse he looks sooooo tiny. So do I for that matter standing next to that monster of a horse.
Never gave height a ton of thought although back in my 20's and early 30's I had an LTR w/a dude 6'10" (left me for the straight world) and 6'8" (on the DL). Lotsa real estate to cover w/those big fellas
so that is fun too. I don't recommend getting serious with guys who as it plays out aren't secure w/their orientation though. -
Dec 24, 2015 11:02 PM GMTI would! However most guys I meet are around my height or taller, ergo I don't meet many short guys. -
Dec 25, 2015 12:42 AM GMTYes, size matters!
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Dec 25, 2015 2:50 AM GMTI'm a tall guy. I've always liked well-built short guys (I prefer to call 'em "cadet size"); skinny and wispy, not so much. I like the way they look, I like the way they walk, I even like the chip-on-the-shoulder attitude they often have. Also, they're easier to throw over my shoulder to carry off. -
Dec 25, 2015 3:12 AM GMTI am one of those guys and still would! Very, very rare to run into one built like me though. But, tall with lean or thick muscle and short and all in between with the same build is attractive to me. I do tend to favor the two extremes by default, but hey, there're always exceptions, often.
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Dec 25, 2015 4:08 AM GMTI don't care about height, although all the guys I've been on relationships with were between 6'1" and 6'4"
My last relationship was 5'11"
I'm about 5'10" but apparently that makes me too short for a lot go guys dating preference. All the guys in my area want that tall muscular body builder look with a beard and long hair(a Portland thing really), so I don't seem to fit the bill for what most guys in my area want for a relationship.
I will say that straight guys and straight women seem to have a harder time finding relationships or lasting partnerships because height difference is a big deal to them.
I suppose it can be for the gay community as well because gay guys always idolize what kind of boyfriend they want(like shopping)
I don't mind a shorter guy, as I have had relationships with some, and a few with taller guys as well, so I really don't mind.
My height seems to be an issue, and I still can't figure out why.
Happy hunting. -
Dec 25, 2015 5:37 AM GMTYes, I have. It's the personality and purpose they have that's valuable to me, not the height.
I'm 5'4". I had a relationship with my 5'11" friend for 10 years and his height in relation to mine was perfect for spooning.
I've also had a half year relationship with another friend exactly the same size and build as mine. We didn't spoon well at all. But I loved him more for so many things we had in common. And things we would enjoy that the taller man didn't.
Higher Social status is part of being Tall versus Short. (Pun unintended)
The 1st guy was a top whose back side was more beautiful to me then his front side. He let me in for about a few seconds two times in 10 years. And my other friend became a top while married to a dark skin lover bottom , he divorced. We considered getting back together but didn't due to the topping issue. I'm versatile, there's only so much unreciprocated topping a versatile guy can take.
And yes short men do top tall men.
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Dec 25, 2015 5:46 AM GMTToo bad you're on the other coast jjohnson88!... sounds good to me - I'd have no problem with your height
