It seems shallow. I understand that it's meant as a conversation starter, but, from my point of view, it's boring..... I already know I'm very built, decent looking (I've put myself on rating sites a number of times..9.5 on facethejury..9.8 on hotornot...got my trophies.was top pic on VGL instagram for quite a while.) Stating the obvious, in my view, is stupid. Don't say I have short man complex, or Napoleon. You gotta' have confidence to walk on stage in less than underwear and saying "judge me." Creepy guys LOSE.
Terry, who owns half of The Dallas Voice, and I, were talking one day. I was complaining about no one ever approaching me in The Gayborhood. His remark...no one feels worthy. Now, age comes into play, and, my confidence frightens many...I'm Chuck Gudgel...I'm out...you see my smiling face...yeah..I look nice, but, I pay my dues...and...I'm brilliant and make lots of money. Make me laugh.. I already know my strong points. DOH!
If you want to appeal to me, get some fucking social skills...like an athlete..Christ...there's nothing wrong with you. You may not be my type, but, show me a smiling face..shake my hand..talk to me..tell me your full name...exude confidence, and trust. Trust is the first part of any kind of relationship building. Google me up if you want pictures, my occupation, where I live, where I work, my passions, etc. I'm just a regular with attention to discipline, detail, and execution. I don't wanna' hear how I'm hot and then get sent an asshole pic, followed by a dick pic, followed by a torso pic. Get some fucking social skills. Introduce yourself, and, if it goes well I'll have you call me and have some real interchange.
The Millennials are clueless around inter personal skills. Introduce yourself, shake a hand, talk about something interesting..a common interest. I don't wanna' hear that you're not as big as me. I ALREADY KNOW THAT. EEK. Drives me fucking nuts. Some folks are so clueless.
And, if you're fat, out of shape, smoke, etc. No amount of "you're so hot" is going to get you into my bedroom. There's a thing called mutual attraction. You don't have to be perfect, and don't apologize for being less than.
I had a guy the other day...apologize.."Sorry my dick is so small." Get used it, Bud. It is what it is.
Folks thing gay guys are creepy because MANY ARE. Don't be that creepy torso guy, or discreet, or pictureless. If you think you're less than, then, clearly other folks will, too. QUIT BEING CREEPY.
Ever been in team sports? Or, at a gym with lots of true athletes? They walk over and introduce themselves, shake hands, smile, and chit chat. THAT'S WHAT NORMAL FOLKS DO. STOP BEING CREEPY.
Accept yourself. When you do..the rest will follow.
If you're a pictureless creep...go fuck yourself. Taker. Mooch. Little baby. Everyone knows you're gay..or bi...get used to it. Join us in LIVING.