Drinking Down a Guy's Load of Cum, Plus Monogamy versus Open Relationships

  • 6packabs

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    Jan 01, 2016 9:36 AM GMT
    [This I thought Was posted to the Sex Themed Part of the Forums. Hopefully It can be Moved by an Admin?]

    Few things seem more sketchy than this. Talk about disease risk. But... read on...

    That said, a 20 year old, local to me, has been messaging me for weeks and finally, really pushed to come see me. I acquiesced. He's a handsome guy, tall, at 6'5". I was somewhat captivated at his expressiveness and seeming maturity for his age. He wasn't wanting sex. He wanted connection with an older guy in a long term monogamous relationship.

    He showed up, and we headed out to talk and chat. He had spoken a ton of his yearning to connect to cool guys and his frustration that he can't find them easily, mostly only those who want to hook up for a quick sex session and then that is it. We had chatted quite a bit before him, and I had expressed my views on monogamy, which were upsetting to him, before this night of our meeting, but we were open and expressed our views in honesty.

    My view, I had suggested, was "why the hell would I choose monogamy?"

    Sex should be a celebration of men, of intimacy with men, of the physical body in its beauty and magnificence in lovemaking. There is a broad range of men, looks, body types, and attributes, all of which hold beauty and fascination. I wouldn't want to restrict myself to just one man, I told him. I told him that I would love a man who would be there for me, and me for him. I expressed myself to want to be the kind of guy who could tell my man that if he were at the gym and some hot Adonis hit on him in the showers or somewhere else, and offered some play, that in my view "hell yeah, take him and have some fun with my blessing, and tell me about it. Lets rejoice in that fun together and celebrate what you experienced." I also view that my man would be so grounded and no strings attached to me that he would countenance the same from me if a hot episode presented itself, or better yet, we could bring the hottie home to play with between ourselves. This was all pretty overwhelming to him, and for most guys. I confess, it may be very juvenile and lacking in maturity and wisdom as an outlook. (Remember folks, my first ever sex was 7 years ago, a few BJ's given to me at the beach, the following year began a real opening and exploration and included the first ever penetration of a guy, who happened to also be a 20 year old who sought me out and pushed for me to fuck him, after which, I was converted. I had had no idea that kind of sex and connection, rhythmic athleticism was a part of sex before that time with ones pelvis aptly anchored to another guys pelvic area (ass) in some intense and passionate love making)

    So, he was concerned at my views, but nonetheless we met. We talked. We talked in his car for a few hours, then he asked for a hug. We had a good hug. Later he wanted another hug, and this was after some hand holding and my stroking his hand and wrist both both my hands as we talked, sensually and in fun.

    After the second hug, things went on to further depth. You know the course. There came a point where he hopped from his side of his SUV into my lap and reclined the seat backward on me. I had laughed after our one hug to see a humongous tent pole in his pants. Wow. Needless to say, that intrigued me. But with a 20 year old, I'm one who never will act the part of agressor, I always force myself to have them go for what they want, not me going for what I want.

    Without the sequences of one thing leading to another, needless to say, with that tall from of his, knees bend and feet up on the dash board, the rest of his laying on top of me with the seat reclined back, his throbbing hard cock pulled out of his fly, I gladly and gently tickled it and with my other hand reached through the open fly feeling his balls and sliding my fingers through his ass crack, loving the fuzzy hair through that region. I then took his cock into my mouth, and he was loving it. We worked on it a while, and I made him quiver at times with subtle touching of his abs with my finger tips as I took his shaft in my mouth. The cramped situation of where we were was so damn limiting, and had me yearning to have him in a bed, but we persisted.

    And, so the point of the post. I had the most intense damn yearning to swallow his load. That used to seem like such a sketchy thing to me, but man, I was so amped up to take and swallow what he would give. So, as he approached orgasm he asked what I wanted and if I wanted him to cum. "Fuck yeah, I want it, in my mouth" I mumbled through that pulsating member limiting my capacity for clear speech.

    Another two minutes of work and he moaned that he was going to cum. he was coming. I kept working but waited with anticipation. He amped up a while longer than his verbal warning had led me on to believe. Wow. Finally, boom, boom, boom. My mouth tightened around that shaft and I felt in my mouth a very strong and distinct hard thumping and pumping of his man pumps working fabulously and at high potency. I was super turned on by the power of that 20 year old libido and male anatomy to pump so hard core strong and almost violently. I was in heaven with that intimacy and closeness to such amazingly fascinating and sensual anatomy working so well like that. I finally, took a swallow. As I did, I realized my mouth was loaded. I don't know what his load size was, but that was a way bigger mouthful than I had anticipated. I was happy. He sat above me with his tall frame and looked down at me smiling huge, some light laughter, with a smile I told him later that is etched in my mind. He was a happy guy. He wants to repeat the process a ton. He texts me and tells me of his hard ons in the morning, wishing he was touring over me feeding me his seed. Well, frankly, its deeply intimate and super sexy for me now.

    Anyone relate? He wants deeply to 69 and "feed" each other our seed, and that may happen, we shall see. As for the monogamy, I'm open to take him at his word, that he wants that and I'd consider seriously dating him. I had given him that commitment that night. That is part of what turned him on so much and had him want to meet.

    I'd enjoy hearing from you guys on this theme of monogamy and of drinking down your lovers jizz.
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    Jan 01, 2016 9:54 AM GMT
    very hot story.
    about the monogamy, yes I can relate, I want to be monogamous, just like that guy I guess. and I'm always upfront about it from the beginning.
    about the sex stuff, well there's no need to say further, you had amazing sex and got into it. and you both loved it. Great. Pretty sure most people here can relate to that. Though probably not everyone done it in the car on the first date.
    Good luck with that guy.
    Hot story.
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Jan 01, 2016 6:09 PM GMT
    6packabs said[This I thought Was posted to the Sex Themed Part of the Forums. Hopefully It can be Moved by an Admin?]


    Anyone relate? He wants deeply to 69 and "feed" each other our seed, and that may happen, we shall see. As for the monogamy, I'm open to take him at his word, that he wants that and I'd consider seriously dating him. I had given him that commitment that night. That is part of what turned him on so much and had him want to meet.

    I'd enjoy hearing from you guys on this theme of monogamy and of drinking down your lovers jizz.


    You are treading on thin ice here. Sure, the dude is hottt, and he is pushing his agenda, too. He wants a monogamous relationship, and you want him and sex with him, too, so you gave in.

    This can go both ways. It may work for both you and him, and you may end up living ever happily after.

    Or, once the novelty wears off, you'll start missing your feeling of freedom to have sex with other men who may be as hot as him, hotter than him, or not. This is where you would have to see if his views on monogamy shall have changed or not.

    For many men out there, their craving for monogamy is a cultural trait impressed upon them by the process of normalization of gay life which we have been experiencing lately. A few men believe that they need to adopt heteronormative attitudes in order to remain generally tolerated or hopefully accepted as gay men. I believe that seeking tolerance or acceptance is futile in itself. Those who grant you either tolerance or acceptance will always feel free to withdraw it from you at their own whim.

    I live my life as I find fit. To some folks that is acceptable. To the others, it is not. None of my business whatsoever.

    SC
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    Jan 01, 2016 6:49 PM GMT
    This is reminiscent of Hustler magazine that I used to read when I was in college. The good old days.
  • wild_sky360

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    Jan 01, 2016 8:12 PM GMT
    My experience with younger guys seeking older and instant monogamy is a retreat from hurt and a perception/misconception that guys their own age are promiscuous and reckless with others feelings.

    He does sound mature for his age. And probably from pure luck of experience he learned that sex with a connection is a magnitude more enjoyable than random hook ups.
    SilverRRCloud presents the other equally likely and valid explanation.

  • wild_sky360

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    Jan 01, 2016 8:16 PM GMT
    I've never heard any serious discussion of risk from ingesting semen. Isn't sort of a assumed whether giving or receiving head? Becoming a cum guzzler on the other hand has obvious inherent risks.
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    Jan 01, 2016 8:23 PM GMT
    Hot story indeed!

    Risk may be minimal, but present.

    Do yourselves a favor and if you're going to turn this into something that you do repeatedly, get yourselves tested.
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    Jan 02, 2016 8:13 AM GMT
    Monogamy has its virtues if you are in love with the other guy. (One virtue, is that one doesn't have to be worried about catching something.) But you can't be in love yet. If you end up exclusively dating this guy (which it seems you are willing to consider) Things could work out very well, if a relationship develops. So, if you like him (besides the sex) date and see what happens. But, like Springon said, you should both get tested.

    It's quite unlikely that swallowing cum will increase a risk of infection of HIV - just getting it in the mouth is the risk - although rather low. But there are other maladies such as Gonorrhea, hepatitis, and herpes (I don't know about syphilis), that can be spread through oral sex - as I am sure most gay men are aware (a 20 year old may not be aware). So there is reason to be tested.

    If you are dating and things don't work out - well then they just don't work out.

    After such a hot story, you should report back on how things work out with you two.