duluthrunner saidFor me, the vast majority of my (not all that numerous) dates are long distance. Given the logistical challenges of getting together in person at all, I'm not really interested in waiting longer than a third or fourth date for us to be having sex. Truthfully, first or second date is preferable if we're going to be going the dating route rather than the "friend zoning" route.
I whole heart-ed-ly agree, and deal with the mostly long distance bit myself as well. Most of the time I allow for the first 2 dates to be "get to know you better" dates. if nothing happens after the 3rd, then we're clearly only friends, no benefits.
AttisXVI saidAs many as it takes for us to have sex. Problem is, if we arent compatoble in bed, thats a pretty big roadblock, so we shouldn't wait forever.
sexual compatibility is important too, but that also needs multiple times to be worked out, especially if the first few times are awkward for miscommunication.