Jan 12, 2016 1:36 AM GMT
Bottoms and tops are welcomed to answer.
PulseFit saidSomething I sometimes feel isn't widely understood is that good topping isn't just about ramming your dick in and pumping systematically for 10 minutes until you cum.
Vary the speed, angle, depth of penetration - pump 5 times really fast and shallow, and then twice slower and deeper then repeat, for example. Push all the way in (or as far as they can take you) and then just hold it there and pulse. Tease the outside of their hole with your dick without quite pushing it in until they are going crazy to be filled and then slam it in balls deep.
Switch up the positions too and don't be afraid of pulling out and sucking the bottom's dick for a while, or kissing them, or working on their tits. Sling his legs over your shoulders, support their thighs and piledrive that fucker. Flip him over and slide into his ass while you nibble and kiss his neck and rub his nipples. Get him up on all fours so you can bang away doggy style while he has access to jerk himself off.
I guess the overall message I'd give is make sure there is variety. This is what I do and I've always been praised for my skills as a top
MuchMoreThanMuscle said^ Ten minutes?!
When I make plans to top I ask my bottom to pencil me in for at least two to three hours.
MuchMoreThanMuscle saidLots of bottoms like the feeling of being used during sex.
But then you have those annoying, directive power bottoms which are a a total boner killer for me.