Handling rejection

  • beaujangle

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    Jan 12, 2016 11:51 AM GMT
    Some good stuff

  • badbug

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    Jan 13, 2016 12:34 AM GMT

    That was good. Thanks for posting.

    I kind of don't see things that black and white but it is a good reminder that i do tend to avoid situations that can lead to feeling rejected. If only booze was good for you, i wouldn't have that problem. icon_smile.gif
  • beaujangle

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    Jan 13, 2016 2:10 AM GMT
    I like the fact that he was so honest about his own personal experiences of being rejected/ fear of being rejected. Though He's quite cute and charming, yet he has those insecurities. And he also said that he is a good speaker and yet it does not mean he gets invited to speak all the time.
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    Jan 13, 2016 3:29 AM GMT
    Does this guy only coach heterosexuals?
  • beaujangle

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    Jan 13, 2016 4:45 AM GMT
    Erik101 saidDoes this guy only coach heterosexuals?


    I don't know but I reckon that in some situations, the same principles will apply. Worth asking him ...
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    Jan 13, 2016 10:13 AM GMT
    beaujangle said
    Erik101 saidDoes this guy only coach heterosexuals?


    I don't know but I reckon that in some situations, the same principles will apply. Worth asking him ...


    I looked him up. Looks like he only coaches the straights. Makes sense though because I can't see a straight guy giving relationship advice to gay men.
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    Jan 13, 2016 5:05 PM GMT
    Erik101 said
    beaujangle said
    Erik101 saidDoes this guy only coach heterosexuals?


    I don't know but I reckon that in some situations, the same principles will apply. Worth asking him ...


    I looked him up. Looks like he only coaches the straights. Makes sense though because I can't see a straight guy giving relationship advice to gay men.


    Why not?
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    Jan 13, 2016 5:24 PM GMT
    I always assume no one is attracted to me, so it's always a pleasant surprise when I get those vibes from people.
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    Jan 13, 2016 6:05 PM GMT
    Radd saidI always assume no one is attracted to me, so it's always a pleasant surprise when I get those vibes from people.


    I do the same thing
  • HottJoe

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    Jan 13, 2016 6:34 PM GMT
    HolyHex001 said
    Radd saidI always assume no one is attracted to me, so it's always a pleasant surprise when I get those vibes from people.


    I do the same thing

    I found that hard to believe coming from Radd, and impossible to believe coming from you.icon_confused.gif
  • AttisXVI

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    Jan 13, 2016 6:53 PM GMT
    HolyHex001 said
    Radd saidI always assume no one is attracted to me, so it's always a pleasant surprise when I get those vibes from people.


    I do the same thing


    icon_lol.gif Bitch, please. You pretty as hell.


    I have NEVER asked anyone out, or asked anyone to dance. Because if I do and they say no, this will happen in the future:

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